pansophist:


I responded naw. Abi you don't know how to use PM again?

pansophist:


Alright. Go ahead

pansophist:
No matter what you're passing through, your social status, how poor, rich, old, strong, tall, short, wise, stupid, whatever you are, the only thing you truly have that will pull you out of any problem or help you make the right decision in life is the truth.

Always endeavor to know the truth in any situation you find yourself, and you'll never be anyone's beech. Your susceptibility to operate on lie is the foundation of most, if not all the problem you'll experience in life.

With truth, you'll know who is faking love when in reality, they are a user. You'll know the fake friend that is a wolf in sheep clothing, you'll know the reality of things, and make decisions because you're standing on a solid rock of truth.

Truth is like a torchlight that will guide you out of the dark. If life is a furnance, the truth is like water. And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.

pansophist:
1. Lions are called the king of the jungle because Tigers (and other stronger formidable predators) do not live in the jungle. In other words, the people who look down on you do so because you haven't assumed your throne and shine in your glory. Go be a king in your domain.

2. Resurrect your inner d!ck. The world is a jungle, and being Mr nice guy will not take you far. The unrelenting you are to exhume your inner d!ck, the farther you go.

3. Formal education will make you a living, but self-education will make you a fortune. True life's education is experienced outside the classroom.

4. Being nice and incapable of inflicting harm is not a virtue. It is a weakness. The ability to inflict an untold amount of damages, but chooses not to, is a virtue.

5. If they stand behind you protect them. If they stand beside you, respect them. But if they stand against you, destroy them.

6. Be aware of your vices, and do not let it destroy your life. A typical vice for men is philandering, negative aggression, greed, alcoholism, etc. For women, it is prostitution, chaos, vindictiveness, narcissism, and dissatisfaction.

7. The antidote to suffering in life is responsibility. pursue what is worth dying for, and every other suffering you pass through shall be insignificant.

8. Never be afraid to walk alone, instead be afraid to walk mindlessly with the crowd. Your mind can be your greatest asset, and your greatest liability, depending on if you nourish it well.

9. As a man, your superpower lies in being masculine, and for women, being feminine. Understand this and accentuate it to the best of your ability.

10. The ability to express yourself eloquently is power. The power of speech can move mountains, bring down standing armies, and give meaning to life. Be eloquent. The content of your speech speaks more about the speaker, as opposed to the subject. The formation of your mental sophistication is expressed through the content of your words.

11. The weaker you are, the more fight you will get into. The stronger you are, the less fight you will get into either. To thrive is to be tough.

12. Anyone that loves you in the truest meaning of love is your family. Love unites people not blood, though love coming from blood relation is thicker. To understand the true meaning of love, substitute the word ''love'' with responsibility. Love without responsibility is not love, it is infatuation.

13. the natural mandate is that anything valuable comes from the inside. If an egg is broken by an outside force, life ends. If it is broken by an inner force, life begins. Do not let external forces suppress your inner voice.

14. Approach every human relationship and connections with a sense of mutualism, conversely, do not entangle with someone who does not understand this timeless rules. Mutualism is growth, parasitism is death. The tree provides shelter for the bird to nest, and the birds help the tree by spreading its seeds to fertile ground. to germinate.

uchman:
If Chival is grandma, Me na great grand Pa, Only Seun can beat my record not even any MOD...

stupidity:
I want to share a new tip to those our new comer brothers in the relationship game.

Please first of all, don’t come here to tell me that my mates are breaking grand innovations overseas by building houses on the air everyone has its area of specialty, everyone’s destiny can’t be the same. We have someone in this Nigeria that his destiny was to come and make 200million people miserable he’s living the life God created that man to come and make Nigerians miserable. And he’s quite good at it. so don’t insult me make we nor carry 2019 issues enter this new year. Nonsense!!


Infact I’m not sharing the tip again

ikechukwu21:
I am a man as you already can clearly see from my moniker so there's no need trying to get upset as though it was a woman who is writing this post just to defend her gender.

Few days ago this great post emerged on the front page https://www.nairaland.com/5585155/money-delaying-getting-married-read titled "If money is delaying you from getting married..." and I must say that I was impressed just like a whole lot of others too and we can judge by the almost 800 likes that post gathered. So why did that post gather so much likes? It is simply because the guy in question was bold enough to do what most men think is impossible. I read some comments on how that he will suffer and all that silly talk. Some even went as far as insulting him. But take it or leave it that post has changed a lot of wrong perceptions that has been formed by young people in our generation. I read that post carefully and I came up with few conclusions:

The young man claimed that the lady in question is a virgin. Now we know that a virgin who has reached the age of marriage is hard to come by. Why is this so? This is because of the high moral decadence in our generation. So for a lady to preserve herself for maybe over 25 years amidst the tension and pressure around her to conform is highly impressive. She must have sustained a very high level of discipline to be able to do that. So how can a guy who cannot even afford to raise 500k be able to get her to accept marrying him knowing very well that so many guys with much money had failed to convince her without any success? There could only be few reasons...

1. He must have something that is more valuable than money at the moment which is a sound mind. Now what is a sound mind? This is the ability for one to be able to develop their mind spiritually and physically. It is the ability to operate with a wisdom that is rare. It is the ability to see deep into people and be able to bring out the best in them. You see, it is impossible for you to encounter someone with a sound mind without being affected positively forever. A man with a sound mind has a plan for his life and knows how to go about it even though you may not always agree with his methods. A man with sound mind can be able to navigate life very well even without money and still have the required results he wants. A. Man with a sound mind is a leader. He knows what to do per time. He is hardly stranded nor confused. This is just to mention a few. Now as easy as this 'sounds', many people do not possess it. Most people have a mind but not a sound one. Women of this stature look for men with this kind of mindset. They need real men not grown up boys with some money to throw around.

2. Value: Anything with value naturally is expensive. What make a thing expensive? It is the fact that a lot of work and expertise was required to make it become unique.
Now a man of value has invested much in himself in terms of knowledge both spiritually and in other matters. Haven't you heard women pray for God to give them a God fearing man? He must not necessarily be a pastor but he must be a man who can be a priest to lead his family to God. But that's not all. Men of value are men who have subjected themselves to much learning hence are less ignorant about various aspects of life. Such men may not have money at the moment but give them time and you'll be surprised what they'll become.

3. Honesty: honesty is one thing that is rare in our generation. A man will hustle from Monday to Saturday only to squander all the money on a woman just to impress her; just to make her see him as a big boy which actually he isn't. Women of value can read through such men. Any woman you lose because you tell her your true financial state is not actually a good woman. She was there for your money.

4. Being a man of yourself: Most men are too clingy and insecured. They are like cry babies. They have no self control. They can hardly stay away from their woman for a whole day. Some men are too jealous and controlling. It's as if they don't have a life outside their relationship. A girl once told me that the guy she's dating is too nice and she always gets irritated with the way he clings to her. He can't seem to make any decisions on his own without consulting her first. She was even questioning whether he had any friends to hang out with apart from her. This guy was making serious money o. Sometimes he is even being paid in hard currecy. But guess what? She left him for me who didn't even have one naira to give her. I was even staying in a one room apartment then. If you see this babe ehn... Over fine and shape dey worry her.

5: She needs a partner not just a husband. A smart woman needs a man with whom she can work together with and who will also challenge her to grow not just a man who throws money at her face. Such men are rare.

Bonus:A man who is funny: Do you know that the most dangerous guys are not the ones with good looks or much money? They are the funny ones. They will keep making a woman laugh until she remove... . Lol funny but true. Now I'm not actually asking you to be a comedian but y please be cheerful and optimistic. Let your cheerfulness be contagious.

Let me stop here. Am tired of typing. But the main thing is don't try to be someone else. Improve yourself, work hard and get a woman when you're broke who will understand your life process and journey to wealth not juat a stranger you bring in when you have finally made the money and have become grandpa with semi white hair.

For those of you who wish to argue with me I have just one question for you: WAS YOUR FATHER A MILLIONAIRE BEFORE HE MARRIED YOUR MOTHER? THOSE WHO ARE MILLIONAIRES IN OUR GENERATION... ARE THEIR MARRIAGES AS PEACEFUL AND LONG LASTING AS THOSE OF OUR PARENTS WHO DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING BEFORE SETTING OUT IN LIFE?

If it was money that you used to attract a woman, you'll need more money to keep her and lest I forget... The day she sees a man who has more money than you do, if she has the opportunity she'll flee from you. Who no like better thing?

Young men please be guided. Not all women are motivated by money. There are women you can never get if the only thing you have to offer is money. Please become a person of value. At that point, money will matter less when a woman decides to stay with you. This is how good women think. Take it or leave it.

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Phenomenal16:
Updates!!!...OK I had series of dreams
1.he refused to hold my hand in one of d dreams..
2.he left me and was seeing anoda gal
.....this dreams r real...but then I don't if am over thinking lol..
Just felt like sharing...

Ilamina:

Looks like I should move to the UK

They always reply my comments on YouTube, even if I say rubbish or out of point

They never discriminate anyone's intelligence

Unlike nairalanders who are just so mean too me

omale88:
If you haven't attempted taking your life before then don't say a thing on this thread, you think what leads to suicide is a joke?you think to decide to take your own life is child's play?if you have never thought of suicide then you haven't reach the peak of your problems in life yet,now you think those who commit suicide are being foolish because you think like an infant,you have no ideal what real depression is, you have no idea of what it means to be marooned at the middle of the Pacific to swim your way to life while sailors cheer you up passing by in their ship,you have no idea to be in a situation where no one believes you or wants to understand you,you have no idea of what it means to seek money for a surgery and people who can afford to give you that tell you all they could offer is a prayer,as I have said you have no idea about this ailment called depression you are on your own in depression no angel or demon can pull you out of that because they don't feel,God gave only a man the power to do so,but when a man fails,you would be dragged into a cesspool of darkness then perish,but when you survive you become inevitable because you have conquered death in a battle to live and die with a purpose.only those powerful people can relate to what I have written, so I urge all you kids blaming people for comiting suicide to shut it!.the only reason why you blame people for comiting suicide is because you think their choice or options are as clear as yours. You have no idea.