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Most good people use it to train other family members. Yes, the house maid works in d house in exchange for hopefully going to a good school.
If a girl, make it from d husbands family side so there’s no incest.
Most houseboys would eventually impregnate somebody else from outside sha

If there’s money/ it can be manageable and d children turn out okay. My step sister housed me in the Uk for 3 years, I had met her only 1nce in my life before then.

When there’s no money, d parents send d children to almajiri ( because polygamists are mostly Muslims). Before the children follow d teacher and in their spare time, beg for money or do cheap labour in farms,

Now they go and buy food for terrorists, then run small errands for them , then join them full time. Terrorism pays even better than riding Okada.

Apart from d beef between d wives, d reality of polygamy has more effects on the children of d family is not very rich.

Cheap labour, personalized sounding board, marry 3 wives because a man must have sex every 3 days…

Marriage is cheaper for men overall

Safe , secure, less noise.

Plenty ‘same level’ friends for your children

Plenty gossiping and uninvited neigbours in your house

Much more stable Neighbour’s for the long term

Sha pray that your transformer doesn’t spoil

People must realize that , whilst you have your plans for marriage based on your circumstance,

The parents and family have planned, talked about and dreamed of the marriage of those daughter since she was born,

You- you just came into her life less than 3 years ago and now want to change everything.

Just be more considerate sha

This life, you are high in the sky, yet you still wan use drugs go higher

I understand OP’s question and though we have great responses we haven’t quiet answered his questions yet.

Me sef, my own used to spill - what I used to do is preheat the sandwich maker and press the bread down in the two mids across the divider and then quickly cover it so that the heat quickly heats it up.

That used to work until I got a 4 plate sandwich maker, now I am back to wondering what we can do.

What do you hope to achieve by fooling everybody ?

Parents, In-laws , your wife’s emotions

Okay, you are right , they were wrong . How does that add to you ?

Please how old are you ?

Because I heard that men just want peace as they grow older,

But you seem to be a man of war

That’s why our Henna in d north is temporary.

When you are in love…do all d designs on d body, at least enjoy your 6 weeks after wedding.

Before d husband starts looking for a new wife..

You wipe d Henna off and focus on life.

laws are made for man, not man for laws

Sometimes I think this leaders are well-meaning.

This shows that when they made the Petroleum Industry Acts, they meant well, but if it’s not working , and the people are suffering, let’s do away with it.

Sometimes I read between the lines like this and think this politicians mean well.

Other times, the evidence is plenty that some of them are just blatant thieves.

I really dont know what to think anymore.

My honest Buhari cousin from the 4th uncle couldn’t move us forward, Tpain with his exceptional international Cv seems to be dragging us backward.

Allah na your hand we dey o

Too bad. I hope the story is not true sha

While it is looks so bad for d tenant to ‘remove d tiles’ thereby ruining d floor…

I av learnt that there is always two sides to every story, the landlord too must have done something bad..:

Thank God for Fura and Nunu

Somewhere somehow, this woman way no pure.

At least we know where we stand with Trump

One other thing, men are so undecided in the house.

saurayi mai arziki, what do you want to eat ?

Anything

Like pick something man.

Too bad. It looks bad doesn’t it ?

Thank God. A decision was made to spare his life and save him. It looks good doesn’t it ?

Well, d creative Nigerians that we are, I wouldnt put it past him to start acting creative amputee nollywood roles.

Nigerians never die !

Make I add, there is nothing good mother can do for you that good wife cannot do.

But there is something good wife can do for you, but good mother cannot do for you.

You should add, you didn't choose your mother.

But you chose your wife. If she no treat you well, na you find her, toast her, marry her.

If you choose bad wife, it means you have bad taste.

If she's a bad wife, and your goodness cannot change her, you are not good enough.

Anywhich way, a man can always set direction for the family, you are sha the bad person.

First let me say that I'm happy that you have come to your senses.

When you think of all the effort and good 90 percent you have invested in your wife and family, you know that any other girl outside is just like click-bait. They don't offer anything other than ejaculation at the end of the day.

You have a happy home, an understanding wife and a good job.

Don't throw it away for cheap sex.

And lastly, the food that you don't want to eat, don't go and be smelling it.

Don't go and visit any unmarried lady at home, unless you want to claim my religion and marry second wife.

I even hear you don't have to cross over to our side to do it this days, you can just get someone pregnant and call her 'second wife'.

Sha know that we the first wives who married the guy when he was young and upcoming are not happy when the man starts carrying small yarinya's about.

This generation and Social media…

Too quick to talk type

He could have ‘thought’ it without the outburst on social media.

God knows that they must never place the content of our heart on a big screen for everybody.

Nobody holy pass

The truth is uncomfortable and bitter.

I haven’t seen any developed country without tolled bridges or roads. Government cannot do everything, they have to invite private investors to solve some problems and collect their money back from the masses.

If LCC toll does not resume, it would be used as a negative pointer for other long term investment in capital infrastructure in Nigeria.

Very stupid logic actually.

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Na oversabi be bottle water, pure water don do

So that one trigger-happy commando would not go and do mistake and press one button to see if his weapon is still working

And US would say ‘we have been attacked’ and bomb everybody away.

Make them dey talk to themselves biko and keep Africa out of it.

Our President no kuku dey around.

O ga ooo…

They start this businesses, go to Oyinbo to show that the business has potential, collect dollars, put themselves on top salaries…

Cash out

What I think is that, in order to look like the parties are playing fair and inviting all geopolitical zones to contest for the tickets in the primaries,

PdP stalwarts can find a Yoruba person who has enough publicity to confuse other people , give him money to run and do publicity to weaken the already strong Yoruba movement in the other abc party…and then let some Yoruba people commit to him, and then let him loose or dropout in the primary to Atiku who would bring all those moneys and buy everybody out like he used to.

It would be a huge statement if Atiku doesn’t win the pdp ticket. It would mean Nigeria has finally moved forward.

Oh…what do I know…I’m just a bored yarinyan waiting for my husband to come home.

All this girls dey try sha…

This one’s no Dey hear say when are you bringing a man home….all your younger cousins have children already…when would you make me a grandmother’?

Ade3131:
To many ladies out there, they want a man with allot of bedmatics experience bcus it is believed that these kind of guys would know how to satisfy their sexual desires, hence a man's body count would mean that he's got the right blend skills and competence.

To some of us communication is the lifeblood of the relationship. If there's something I can't discuss with my would-be lifetime partner, then there's an issue somewhere. The dead doesn't hide his unclothedness from the person who would conduct his janazah. We should be so in to eachother to the point that it just won't make sense not to open up on past, present and future.

Of course I'll want to know what am getting into. Lemme know the extent of the damage if at all there's any, because the earlier we discuss it the earlier we get to work on how to right some of those wrongs and salvage whatever is left.

Past could mean some abortions gone wrong and womb destroyed....past could also mean that the potential wife is a porn star....past could also mean an armed robber or drug addict.... could be anything of that nature. I've always encouraged discussing past relationships with my exs, and I do so with the most sincerity of intent. I don't castigate or use it against them in any topic of discuss.

BTW, you're beautiful hadjia Zainab

You spoke well.

Nagode. Merci.

Funny thing is girls don’t really have a problem with a guys body count.

We are just different sha, all this gender equality is bullsh****



The real question is -

Would you like to know all the ‘bad’ things she has done in the past ? All the styles and the guys that have hanged her legs ? Or would you rather not know ?

Ignorance is bliss o…

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