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Pls show her love n care...

She has issues , maybe because of what she has watched on TV or experiences she has had, watch what she watches, TV programs n who she spends time with.

Fill her up with such love n care , n reward her good natures.

Forget all those ogbanje things

D serious ones don't comment on just any thread. They are most found in d business section.

Na small children full d romance section

ZainabCarter:
Although I do too I cannot admit it cause he has a girl. He uploads her pics and comments on her insta saying sweet things but he says sweet things to me too which I addressed that I can’t really go through with whatever is happening. Now he’s asking me what he wants me to do & me I don’t want to break anyone’s relationship.

My namesake.

The brother is a snake.

Flee.

He wants to use and dump U, he has already told U that he has babe so he has cleared you like that say no future dey for Una. You can't say he didn't tell you that he has/d someone.

He sha told you before. He says all d sweet stuff to his babe online and says the same to you codedly. What makes U think U are the only person after his babe.

My people say when a young girl goes to visit a man with 4 wives, she should not be suprised when she becomes the 5th.

Communication fosters affection.

Don't sniff or stay near what you don't want to eat or be eaten by...

Face your own food solely.

nNEOo:
Over our lives?

Why do I find this offensive ?

Because you were sleepy eyed when you read it...

Political scrutiny of the pupits...

#issokay

I wonder how it is that this religious leaders have so much clout over our lives

My people believe that if they 'born plenty' , maybe one of them would be successful and take care of me...d remaining can be sent out for 'almajiri'

They should come and carry our Naija guys...

Na this kind thing them dey like...

Wonderful....

My own question is , I hope our Naija mechanics go fit repair am once e enter our Naija porthole ?

It's a reflection of the greed of Nigerians that people still fall for this thrash...

Ejimagift:
The real voters are not even online to read this

So true !!!

But our Instagram celebs have millions of followers. That means at least a percentage of the data-enabled youth are online, why can't they come out & vote ?

I mean, if d vote did not count , why r they buying and bribing people 2 vote ?

We need a young leader abeg

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This guy, I mean - he is a comedian for what he is...and a pretty good source of a laugh.

But he should steer clear of yabbing his elders. We all know they haven't been d best of leaders , but we be Naija...respect is inside our blood. If he sees Obasanjo now , he would be d one clamouring for a piece of d 'oyel-money'.

Las-las, all of us na thief.

Scam !

If you know you know.

Please don't mention/quote me, I'm not feeling fine.

This goes to show...that APC is even as backward as we had before...Ambode looked like he was working in Lagos...but he was not scratching their back abi ?

Let's see what happens with Tinubu now, I think Lagosians should vote him out.

kollinzgee:
N. B if they girl is dull and doesn't Laff it's not ur fault move to another girl and practice more with time u will get better and have babe's Ave nice day my Bros.

This is d real power , they must learn dt sometimes we have something we are dealing with & don't want to talk at dt time...it is when they walk away , that we realise we want them...and are now more open d next time dey approach us.

But no , dey will stay there like they want to die there...and then it gets annoying for both of us

#nathemdeyrushus

Sterope:
It doesn't look like a warm reception

D same thing I thought too..

She no even fine...

That's why I always use one kind eye to look at all this Instagram twerkers and all this musicians backup dancers...



My people say when a woman goes to do business with a man who has 6 wives, don't be surprised when she becomes the 7th one.

I'm not saying all of them are ******, but it's closer to them

So d deal is dis guy has 2 keep doing this stuffs to stay relevant. All those celebrities must keep coming to his club because he is always in the news.

So it's his job he is doing all this to stay in d news for.

So you too face your work cos dis bro is working hard at his.

Please anyone help with this !

The church program was made 4 people na , Nigerians.

And d Nigerians would be watching d match.

Y do program that U know that people would not be there ?

I actually commend him for being flexible.

#teamcommonsense #teamNigeria

Because they are marrying this one for the wrong reason.

If they closed the door properly and entered the new door fully and happily, they won't be glancing back.

But U know, peer pressures , financial adviser friends, age monitoring aunties and grandchildren expecting family have advised us all to 'settle' , so the 'once reached there' has a chance to reach 'there' again because U r emotionally unstable at the time and want to feel a little loved before U enter this wrong step fully.

#saynotoarrangedmarriage #sayyestolove #saynotoforcedmarriage #saynototeenagemarriage #childnotbride #sayyesonlytolove

We are not offended. See d number of views that video had. E just calls attention to the plight of the young girls.

Poverty is a disease. It even blinds the muric . Sometimes I wonder where we dey go as a religion sef

This is good. They should look at patternity leave as well abeg. No be only Woman born the pikin, even if na 1 month.

because I already had boyfriend at 13...my mother chose him & I married him...

So dis one wey dress like dis na special adviser 'on diaspora' to senator for Nigeria ? How she take get d job ? And your boyfriend dey London with you ,but you no know See how d oda babes be sef.

Issokay, Issokay, Issokay.

I no talk anything.

This 'stars' follow d money... Nigeria has so many money-bags. I haven't heard of dis Ikoku guy before.

Make Allah make me get such silent money too, our land is kuku land of opportunity.

Awesome ! Nigeria is sure multitalented, there is ds 'can do' attitude in us...we no dey gree.

But our leaders Sha o.....

Couples should be one. While this does not mean that they should have 'one' of everything all of the time. It does mean they should plan, budget and keep thier couple goals in focus everytime they spend or earn.

My Husband and I don't run a joint account physically, but we sat down spoke about our sources of income and planned our progress as a couple, what to save, what to spend on household management and utilities, what to give and what percentage to invest. Based on our earnings, we also both have our individual pocket money-spendable as you desire.

Note: my husband is a business man so his earning is irregular, sometimes lump sum, sometimes nothing for a while. But we looked over the past 2 years and Drew up a lower monthly average and stick with that, and God has been faithful.

Of course na different type of couple we get in Nigeria and not all couples mean well for each other or are happy in thier marriages.

It is good that you care this much.

Now by all means always air your concerns to your husband. This instance of him eating out is wrong, but there might be nothing you can do just now. But it is something you have to discuss with him over later . For now always cook his meals and always tell him you prepared his meals , even if he doesn't seem to care.

Love focuses on what is right and not who is right. I always ask my husband , if one of us offends, the answer is---how do we reconcile from that point, and not revenge.

Seat him down when you know he has the time. Be deliberate with 'happy moments'. Those times when you guys are in a good mood and laughing is always a good time to settle issues. When you are both happy and in a gay mood...

Say something like 'babe, I want your honest opinion on something. I find it uncomfortable when you do this...or this happens...
I know you love me and you are not doing this to deliberately hurt me...is there a way you could do 'this' instead...or not do this... again because it makes me feel like this...

Don't ever get tired of communication in the marriage, it might be awkward and tense in the beginnings, but it smooths over and pays out in the long run.

In Naija, it is coconut oil, petrol and peak milk !

Question me ? Did she just ?