Please oga legend on Wat platform do u do your book publicity and marketing after uploading u r book on Kindle for sale?

Last year my younger sister got married as a virgin... so Sunday morning after the wedding, we got a call from our in laws and they said they were coming to see us. At first we taught some tin had happened. Not only for them to bring in truck load of gift.. that Sunday night... gift times 2 of wat they brought on Friday for engagement. My mother couldn't curtail her joy as she was just filled with tears of joy.

When I read about Ghanians attacking nigerians last night , Honestly I was moved to tears.. In the early nineties. I had 2 ghanian teachers, Mr offei and Mr dad) that came into NIGERIA in 1975 through penpals that was always at the back of daily times and sketch news papers.. that was read in NIGERIA about a week b4 getting to accra.. They came in and were squatting with a widow b4 they got a job in a secondary school as pta teachers of course they returned back to Ghana during the Buhari Ghana-must-go in 1984 and after 3 months, they all came back to Nigeria.. cos their economy was so bad... During the June 12 elections when the election was annulled by Gen. Ibb all this guys were with us then in a design a street, ring road I bad an. They prefer to stay back and face the economic hardship here in Nigeria than go back to Ghana.. my mother and some neighbours.. in fact almost every Nigerian then in that area where supportive.. We give them food, times daily on a rotational bases from all the neighbourhood.. We cared for them, cared for their wives and kids.. and accepted them all even with their flaws.. It really saddens my heart to hear and see that Ghanians are attacking Nigerians in their country. Honestly it's bad.. If any nigerian commits any form of crime, let him face the consequences.. It shouldn't be generalised.
God bless Nigeria
God bless Ghana
God bless Africa

You will agree with me that many relationships didn't last because parties involved never built better friendship before becoming lovers,nor loved each other enough before engaging in sexual activities.

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Take your time to know each other;don't rush into sexual act because you may rush out of a relationship as soon as you finish having sex with someone.



There is this strong feeling attached to sex such that if you don't love someone enough,you will start hating him or her as soon as you finish having sex with him or her,especially when the sex wasn't done well.
http://growinluv.com/2019/01/23/reasons-why-many-relationships-dont-last/

Morning sex that is sex between 4am-5;30am is the sweetest. that moment when he is still asleep, all his body system have settled down and has his normal morning erection, just sneak out of the bed and go to the kitchen open the refrigerator, put small honey inside your mouth, wake him up with your warm lips on his mouth,caress his body a litu bit by playing with his dick.use the honey and suck his dick like your life depends on it.

His erection will be harder because he has not had his morning pee, the sensation of fucking a wet pussy while holding urine is the sweetest.
Hold him tight and plant a kiss on his lips. Make sure you're without panties or bra, slowly remove your nighty, let him watch you do it. Stand nude before him and help him removed whatever thing his wearing.
http://growinluv.com/2019/01/20/ladies-let-me-educate-you-on-morning-sex-for-a-few-minute/

Once upon a time I met a man who told me that telling the truth and making someone cry, is better than telling a lie and making someone smile and happy.
2. He said to me your true friends are those who will never avoid you just because they have met new friends.
3. As he kept on speaking to me, he said If some people do not appreciate and value my presence, I should work hard to make them value and appreciate my absence.
4. He said I must not be angry with anyone who is quiet on me because there must be a reason why they are quiet, and that I will get to know the reason later.
5. He told me it is always better to be a blessing to others at all times than to be a burden at all times.
6. He said I must learn to forgive others not because they deserve it but because I deserve the peace that comes with forgiveness.
7. I must know that everyone deserves a second chance and many more chances if they ask for forgiveness, but I must not loose my guard over their intentions.
8. I must not only talk to people in my free time, but I must free my time to talk to people.
9. I must know that the truth may hurt for a little while, but a lie will hurt for a long time.
10. I must learn to value and respect people who tell you the Truth no matter how painful the truth is.
11. I must make my decisions when I am in the right mood, not when I am angry, likewise I must not make promises when I am excited with high emotions.
12. I must know that some people are like candles that burn themselves to give light to others. I should not have regrets if I happen to be one of such candles.
13. I must learn to be a caring friend because it is a thousand times better than a careless lover.
14. I should value and protect my relationships of many years of investments because they are like a book that takes years to write but can get burnt only within few seconds.
15. He specifically said this repeatedly that If have a problem with someone, I should go tell the person and not go tell the world.
16. He said to me that I should know that nobody is too busy, it is just a matter of their priorities within a day.
17. He said to me that people can trust you when you are consistent with what you say and what you do.
18. He said with a low voice, only God can be totally trusted. Trust God 100%.
19. He then said no matter what, I must not forget those who helped and stood by me in my time of trials and during my difficult times.
20. I must always remember those who turned their backs on me in my difficult times of trials. Not for vengeance, but for the lesson of life.
21. I must be careful with those who put me into difficult times but I must never hate them. It is a lesson of life.
22. He said again I must be grateful at all times to God for this life and for living. It is a previlege and not a right.
23. As he was leaving me, he said, always remember how temporary this world is, I must always be conscious of the reality of eternity with God in heaven or with Satan in hell fire.......
http://growinluv.com/2018/11/17/little-stories-from-an-unknown-man-2/

I am a very shy character and a very private person. My boyfriend added me to Growinluv relationship segment, and we are each addicted but he made me make him a promise by no means to carry out rely right here for any reason, but I am about to wreck that promise because I need help.






I have dated him for 6 years, 3 abortions and borrowed him 7 million naira all he has no longer accounted for. The ultimate job I acquired for him with my dad’s contact I don’t comprehend the drama that befell between him and a team of workers and he got fired, I had to supply him cash to begin a business.



READ ALSO: Please help, my pastor’s wife is carrying my child

http://growinluv.com/2018/11/15/i-gave-my-boyfriend-n7million-done-plenty-of-abortions-for-him-and-currently-he-wants-to-marry-another-woman-what-should-i-do/

Women are not good at cheating at their partners, before a woman cheats on her lover, she might have complained severally and been ignored severally, cried many nights but ignored, women are like kids she can't be crying for orange and you will give her mango.
but let me go straight to most of the things that can cause a woman to cheat on her husband
1. Most Women cheat to get back at their husband's adulterous lifestyle.
2. Lack of affection
3. Lack of financial support
4 lack of sexual satisfaction or may be ignored by a partner.
I have heard of some women who have cried for about 10 years now, whose husbands has been neglecting them sexuallly.
Two reasons dominate the other and that is sexual satisfactions and financial support. A woman need to be cared for, cuddled, trimmed, proded and appreciated.
The moment you start ignoring her she will start  complaining at the right time unlike men who would keep their annoyance in their heart.
NOTE FOR WOMEN ONLY:
http://growinluv.com/2018/11/15/why-women-cheat-on-their-men/

Women, many of us are the reason other women are going through hell in their marriages. You want to be celebrated in your own marriage but won't allow your brother's wife some peace.

You push your brothers into treating their wives badly, you're happy when they fight, you're happy when she cries, you're happy when she's heart broken, you advice your brothers to cheat, you lie against her just for your brother to hate her, you even advice your brothers to beat up their wives.

Just because she's married into your family, she becomes a non living thing, you think you're doing her a favour, so she should be grateful and accept anything...
http://growinluv.com/2018/11/07/women-many-of-us-are-the-reasons-other-women-are-going-through-hell-in-their-marriages/

My friend, don't get married for the wrong reasons. Don't get married because you think it will save your relationship, Don't get married because you have a child together. Don't get married because people are pressuring you to. Don't get married just because your friends got married. Don't get married just because you've been together for a long time.

My friend, marriage will change the title but not the person. It will change the status but it won't erase the problems. The "I dos" is not going to erase the issues you have in your relationship.

My friend, marriage, the rings the proposals, the weddings is not a cure for a failing relationship, Is just an anasticia to it. Ounce the excitement wears off, the disappointment begins because nothing has changed except the last name.

My friend, don't let the wrong reasons force you into a relationship or marriage. Don't force someone to be your wife when you know she's not ready to be one, don't force someone to be a husband when you know he's not ready to be one. Forced marriages always ends in failure.....
http://growinluv.com/2018/11/02/peeps-dont-get-married-for-the-wrong-reasons/

Guys, a  girl that is not asking you for anything is indirectly eyeing everything about you: she wants to be your wife, while the girl that's collecting from you is doing that because she's not sure if both of you will end up or not and so,she's collecting her share......
http://growinluv.com/2018/10/16/when-a-woman-loves-you-she-cares-about-you-not-your-money/

Please am the lady that posted about not loving her husband after 2 kids. Am so heartbroken by many of your comments. It all started because I forced my self to marry him bc I was pregnant with his child ( i had sex with him once and I got pregnant).so we didn't date that long. That was 3 yrs ago. After I married him I found out that he lied to me a lot; his age, his family, he smokes, he drinks. And I hate all this in a man. D love just fade away but I stayed thinking I will learn to love him as a husband. When I got pregnant for my 2nd child, he changed to d worst; he became a womanizer, he even harassed my twin sister sexually.....
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/30/i-dont-love-my-husband-and-i-dont-get-aroused-during-love-making/

DEAR LADIES,
You will come across many men in your life and you will be tempted to fall in love, don’t be lured to giving your heart to any man just because he is handsome, popular, rich dresses well etc..
Physical attraction and sexual impulses are short lived. Give your heart to a man who knows  your heart just like he knows his own and feel your pain just the way you feel it.
Give your heart to a man who understands how much strength you have gathered to overcome a bad past. Give your heart to a man who understands your mind.
Someone who appreciate the way you stand tall despite all the mess in your life. Give your heart to a man who touches your soul before he touches your body. He is the one who will never leave you alone and hold on to you till the end of time.
Long lasting relationship/ marriage are not based on SEXUAL PLEASURE and PHYSICAL INTIMACY. They are based on TRUE LOVE and understanding.
Stop saying...
... He is not handsome
... He is a miser
… He is too tall
… He is too short
... I don’t like dark guys
... I can’t fall for a brown man
... He is poor even poor call him poor...etc
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/15/give-your-heart-to-a-man-who-knows-your-heart/

..My friend, here's some 5 things you need to stop doing to make your life better:

1. STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE.
Everyone is not going to like YOU or agree with YOU or support YOU. Having that expectation will always let you down. The first step to being unhappy is trying to live your life pleasing EVERYONE. Your flaws are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you. To LOVE someone is to experience every other emotion outside of the LOVE you feel for that person and still return back to LOVE. To LOVE someone is to feel a great deal of pain and still be able to accept that the other isn't perfect yet the good times rise above. Find the man/woman who isn't afraid to admit that he/she misses you, who knows that you're not perfect, but treats you as if you are. Love is made of two keys sacrifice and acceptance. Sacrifice everything you have....
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/13/stop-trying-to-please-anyone/

1. Once upon a time I met a man who told me that telling the truth and making someone cry, is better than telling a lie and making someone smile and happy.
2. He said to me your true friends are those who will never avoid you just because they have met new friends.
3. As he kept on speaking to me, he said If some people do not appreciate and value my presence, I should work hard to make them value and appreciate my absence.
4. He said I must not be angry with anyone who is quiet on me because there must be a reason why they are quiet, and that I will get to know the reason later.
5. He told me it is always better to be a blessing to others at all times than to be a burden at all times.
6. He said I must learn to forgive others not because they deserve it but because I deserve the peace that comes with forgiveness.
7. I must know that everyone deserves a second chance and many more chances if they ask for forgiveness, but I must not loose my guard over their intentions.
8. I must not only talk to people in my free time, but I must free my time to talk to people.
9. I must know that the truth may hurt for a little while, but a lie will hurt for a long time.
10. I must learn to value and respect people who tell you the Truth no matter how painful the truth is.....
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/12/little-stories-from-an-unknown-man/

Plz your take to this Am 52 years old. I have 4 girls. My oldest daughter is 25years. The closeness btw her and her daddy is extremely too much. But I didn't bother myself because he is her father. Recently, I noticed a little change in her character. She insults the father so much that people started saying she lacks respect. I now asked her to sit down to know why she has been that way with her father. She only said she can never respect him. I had to beat her so much that day to the point that she started laying curses on her father, which made me used a belt to design all her body. She now ran out of the house. For 2 weeks now, we have been looking for her until a friend of hers called me to say.......
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/09/dont-you-think-its-time-for-me-to-die/

Women are not good in cheating their partners, before a woman cheat on her lover, she may have complained severally and been ignored severally, cried many nights but ignored, women are like kids she can't be crying for orange and you will give her mango.
but let me go straight to most of things that can cause a woman cheat on her husband
1. Most Women cheat to get back at their husband's adulterous lifestyle.
2. Lack of affection
3. Lack of financial support
4 lack of sexual satisfaction or may be ignored by a partner.
I have heard of some women who have cried for about 10 years now, whose husbands has been neglecting them sexuallly.....
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/09/why-women-cheat/

I married since 2007 I love my hubby and he is not educated but I love him, after  our first child he started changing in character we have 3 kids now but he never asked how much is their school fees ,he never asked how much is the house rent or feeding for 11years now if I asked him please help me he will say he doesnt have money because his business is not moving well then. I have to open a business  with 800thousand naira first after 1year for him. He still doesn't pay school fees or house rent and he close the business , the second business too the same thing happened, no school fees no rent I have opened business more than 5 times still the same thing but now the last one is that I borrowed money from my office to build a house we are staying, so my salary is not enough to pay school fees and feeding I used my last salary to open another business and ask him to be feeding us from there but his still complaining that no, that I should give him sometimes to settle before bringing money from the business which I did for two years now still noting is coming out, am still managing but my problem now is all this while some time, he will stay like 6months with out torching me as a woman sometimes 3months if you ask him why he will say that because he doesn't have money, since January he refused to touch me as in to sleep with me if he is inside the room and I enter inside, he will go out if I come out he will go inside even the mother, sisters, brothers uncles every body have called him to ask why. instead of answering them he said I should stop talking to them that all of them are bad. he even stopped going to see his people since 5yeas now because of that,

my family called him to ask him why he even said that he will not come to there place again and he can't communicate with them..
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/07/my-husband-dnever-picks-up-any-responsibility-in-the-house/

Pls Sir Post For Me and hide My Id And Notify Me When U Have Posted. Am 28yrs And My Husband Is 33yrs, our married is  For 4yrs With 2kids. I Don't Have Feelings For My Husband Any More. He Is A Good Person And I Love Him Very Much. What I Don't Know Is Why I Can't Feel Him At All When We Are Making Love. I Used To Have Strong Feeling For Him Before But Now I Feel Nothing.He Has Never Changed In Any Way. What Pains Me Most Is That He Knows About It And He Is Complaining Bitterly. He Is The Only Man I Have Ever Loved. What I Don't Know Is Why This Is Happening To Me.
http://growinluv.com/2018/09/06/i-dont-have-feelings-for-my-husband-anymore/

Hello sir,
My problem is my wife, she is a habitual lier, she is a very dishonest person, for example she usually fake sicknesses so that she get sympathy, she sometimes wake me up at nyt saying she is not feeling good, the next minute she will be ok, I have warned about that behaviour coz one day she will be seriously sick and will ignore thinking she is lying, and money issues, if you give her money to keep, she uses the money and tell stories when you ask it back, if she find money in my pockets she never return it, it started when we were dating and I ignored it because I was blinded by love, now we have 3 kids and every cent counts........
http://growinluv.com/2018/08/22/my-wife-is-dishonest-and-anc-habitual-lier/

WHAT MAKES A HOME A HOME!!!!
You cannot find happiness elsewhere away from within you & your own home. A home is a pump of hope and confidence to conquer the world.
You cannot walk together unless you agree.A woman who gives hope to her husband is a wife material & worth the praise.She is transparent and friendly that it self builds confidence into her husband.
A man who loves & shows care to his wife is a husband material. He cares not out of force but willingness to show a difference in the life of his wife.
A home is a home because it is a haven of;
love & peace.
Friendliness. ....
http://growinluv.com/2018/08/21/what-makes-a-happy-home/