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@ Poster: You know your standards, Aint no problem.
BUT when the love bug bites, you'll forget all you wrote. My ex, I loved him to bits. There are some days he wouldn't have his bath (or brush) and I'm a neat freak, like O.C, But i still let him kiss me.
Now we're breaking up i'm trying to figure out if i'm relieved.

@Poster: She's a classless girl.

Okija_juju:
To all those who wrote 4 years and above,

Wetin una dey wait?? $ years and una neva marry?? One of una be OSU abi na wetin?? Anything above 6 months, na contract be that o!!

I concur.

lwkmd @ this topic. "Fake cry",
hahahhahaha

I'm looking for my own cute whitey!!!

Dont go if you're not going with your wife,

You're MARRIED, you should be way past all this speculation

sorry i've been gone for a minute,

Sounds enticing, but i dont stand under sun, never have, never will. I'm about to get my own car,
And as for the 2008 accord, my ex had one, then he got an infiniti fx35 soo, any car i enter will have to be better than that,

oYaTo:
lmyo

woman don come again. .who tell u say na 08 accord i dey handle? _{i wish}

u 4 allow d ride pass first b4 makin' up your mind. .

_{pray, tell me which ride go fit catch your fancy. .}

Tell me what ride you got and i'll simply answer with a "yes" or "no".
(please dont take this as a proposition, we're speaking theoretically here)

@ scott: Sorry, no base.

190:
<sup>watch them nairalander girls all

shout out that they would quit the relationship

whereas they are all been secretly slapped where ever they are


*dont chop off my head off pls ladies*</sup>

lol, how do you know? have you done your own share of secret slapping?

scottN:
really, good 4 u then, hope u don't miss the bus.

U dont understand, Bus = public transportation.  I dont use public transport.  And really, i've only been on one BUS, literally and figuratively speaking.

oYaTo:
find that hard 2 believe. .

nice ride come, u no enter. .whish sign u dey wait 4 again  

your eye go clear. .

Guy, if you knew what I meant by *nice* ride, you wouldn't talk. I'm not talking 2008 honda accord.

Naija*gal:
@degubi,true talk.thankfully i ain't in dat
kind of sick relationship.

Unfortunately, the sad truth is that many girls are in such relationships and are too ashamed/in love/scared to do something about it.

A girl like me can't wait tire even if i try.

I'll let it pass, thanks.

scottN:
really so how many have u boarded so far ?

Just one. I'm waiting on a nice ride.

ammamat:
Just 8 months oh, funny enuf the 8 month is going coz the angel i thought he was, was just a shadow

Infact it's has gone already

so for those that are upto 6,7,8,5,4,3 and 2 years how do u guys cope and how did make it to work and still be firm uptill date?

It's all ups and downs, even those ones up to 5, 6, 7 years, who knows how many times they broke up and made up? I dont know i'm still puzzled. The small (1y10m) one i had don give me headache,

Right now i just want to enjoy my life.

scottN:
Yeah I know I'll live
'Learnt that girls are like buses,one leaves and another arrives.

Guys are also like buses.

oolateju:
@ Zeedeee

I'm a female

Sorry, dudette!

Awww scott, it's not so bad ey, thank God it's not a divorce!?

This is a useless fight. What is it you wanted to say to me? I'm not hitting you up on any of the above, you can say it right here.

That would solve the fight ey?

Pictures and specs please.

Kudos to the faithful guys out there, Please stay faithful! I've seen too many men cheating on their significant others, and i've become somewhat of a cynic.

oolateju:
No relationship. I'm alone

Lol dude, dont be sad it's not the end of the world. Mingle!

@ smooooooth: nna men u be real igbo guy.

Thank God for u. Well there's a reason i asked. The guy i (was) dating met me WHILE he was dating someone else for almost 2 years. I didn't know the whole truth of course, he's a pro liar. But i found out Feb this year and well, it's been drama ever since. To cut the long story short, he hasn't ended the other r'ship (he's been trying to keep both) hence my reason for walking out.

So i'm trying to determine if they are really in love and it's the strength of the love that's keeping them together? Or is it because he dated for a long time and he cant let go. The other girl is a 7, i'm a 10.

Whatever it is, I wish them luck. I'm not one to interfere in other people's lives.

congrats.
Please pardon me if i ask a personal question. Did you date anyone else during 5y8m period?

Pls someone tell me, do all these long ass relationships end up in marriage? una suppose marry after the first 2 years. if everyone is in a long term r/ship what happens to the rest of us?
Well mine is 1 year and 10 months (almost two years). But it's ending now.

3rd class doesn't mean a thing, When you introduce someone to your parents, i dont think the first question they'll ask is what the person's result from Uni was.  Come on.  They'd be more interested in what the person is DOING.

I know a guy that came out with a 3rd class (consequence of heartbreak from his girl jilting him near the end of school), But he has made up for it.  He's now got his CCNA, CCNP, and has done the theoretical part of his CCIE.  He's really smart and there's no job he can't get.

Tell your cousin she shouldn't sleep on the 3rd class, she should do other things to top it.

It's not about what you DID.  It's about what you're DOING.

na2day? your name is so funny.

If a girl jilted you it just means she outsmarted you.  Dont let love fool you mayne, it's a game.  The last guy in my life, He did me, I did him back. And i'm not leaving empty handed.  So it's tit for tat.

OYINBOGOJU:
@ALL THESE LADIES THAT HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THIS THREAD,

YOU ARE ALL TALKING WITHOUT CONSULTING YOUR MEDULA OBLANGATA .

MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE NOT FAITHFUL
THEY ARE PERVERSE
THEY ARE LIARS
THEY ARE EVEN UNGRATEFUL FOR LITTLE THING.

THEY ARE EMBODIMENT OF BAD LUCKS.

IT TAKE SPECIAL GRACE OF GOD TO FIND A GOOD  GIRL IN NIGERIA.

UNGRATEFUL,USELESS ELEMENTS

hahahahahahahhaaaaaa
lmao, rotflmao, lwkmd.
LOL

Guy, you're so funny.  I love naija we're so hilarious. I'm always laughing.

There's an element of truth in what he said though. Many (not all oh, b4 someone chops my head off) of our girls lack finesse and etiquette, simple manners.
It seems you've been through some horrible experiences? Please do tell, must have been really bad for you to become this acidic.

Lmao.

lol @ the fighters on this thread,

Woman jilts man <-> Man jilts woman

We hear it all the time, but the truth is that each story is unique.  Each party had a part to play in the whole mess.  The solution to moving on comes with maturity.

So move on like an intelligent adult! (the not-so-smart ones also move on though the process takes longer for them lol). Who knows, maybe they will be re-united again, but dont hold your breath.  What's meant to be will be.

IgboGirl:
lool for real! i went partying one time with my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends included) so this one chic that is sorta one of his close friends saw me dancing with my boy and decided to join in i was dancing in front of my boy while the chic joined from behind him and was dancing with us.

I feel you on that. Some girls are just stupid and cheap.

One thing i've learnt about this whole love/dating game is that it's not a do or die affair cos we never know what the outcome will be. The guy is getting the best of both words, But in the end he'll settle down in just ONE world. His wife's world. Right now the best friend shouldn't be around him all the time because something will definitely happen between them. She truly is a sneaky b*tch if she is perpetually spending all her time with someone she KNOWS has a girlfriend for no legitimate (work or school related) reason.

Let your bf know exactly how you feel. If he honestly tells you that there's nothing going on, believe him (but still be careful). I know from experience that some seemingly good guys can me brutal liars.

Then breathe, relax, and let time do it's work. Love him and be yourself, dont slack in the r/ship but reserve a little of your heart in case of heartbreak.