Please people advice, my ex-girl/friend invite me to her baby birthday,should i go or not? And i dnt know how my wife will react to this if i tell her, if you are in my shoe what will you do? Please the birthday is around the corner advice is welcome.

You can go if you feel like, tell your wife,or are you still going out with her?

Its SIMPLE!. If you are not in any trust related issues/arguments with your wife AND if your wife trusts you, then tell your wife about the friend's bday and if shes cool with it then Go otherwise callup this ex friend and tell her some diplomatic story and wish her a bday. Also ask yourself, is she genuinely inviting me as a friend or cos shes single and considering resparking old tunes.

, all the best

naira-ner:

Its SIMPLE!. If you are not in any trust related issues/arguments with your wife AND if your wife trusts you, then tell your wife about the friend's bday and if shes cool with it then Go otherwise callup this ex friend and tell her some diplomatic story and wish her a bday. Also ask yourself, is she genuinely inviting me as a friend or cos shes single and considering resparking old tunes.

, all the best

I really dont understand your post naira-ner, but I m really interested cos Im in a kind of similar boat. But this time around, mine is a wedding. My ex invited me to a family member of his wedding and I really dont feel like going or know if I should go

If you guys had remained friends after the break up and your wife knew about her then why not?

BUT, why would she not invite your wife? she obviously knows you are now married doesn't she? and since you have to question telling your wife about the invite then i suspect something is not quite right here. So don't GO simple! its inappropriate.

No biggie.
Go with your wife even.

You don't have to be mortal enemies with your exes. . .ya know.

If you want to go, pls go just make sure you tell your wife and don't make it a bigger deal than it is.

ruskiee:

No biggie.
Go with your wife even.

Right

Yep.

Dont go if you're not going with your wife,

You're MARRIED, you should be way past all this speculation

Dude you might be headed for a divorce if you dont stop communicating with your ex Mr. i have a wife.
you have absolutly no reason to go to a party of an ex girlfriend most especially it seems like your wife doesn't even know her.


Ask your self this: if your wife told you she wanted to go to her ex boyfriends birthday party how would it honestly make you feel?? that is your answer