stillwater:

Nothing wrong in having the opposite sex as a friend. But these girls are always so annoying, very flighty irritating things. They will look for every opportunity to touch the guy.

Once.

lool for real! i went partying one time with my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends included) so this one chic that is sorta one of his close friends saw me dancing with my boy and decided to join in i was dancing in front of my boy while the chic joined from behind him and was dancing with us.

for me this whole idea of a woman being a man's best friend and vice versa is highly hypocritical. I really find it very difficult to comprehend. for its very fishy for someone of a sex to say an opposite sex is his/her best friend. come to think of it, my whole life i have not found a reason to have a girl as my best friend because there are some stuff that a girl cannot just understand about boys and vice versa.

unless the guy is gay, then he can truthfully have a girl as his best friend.

Im not sure im comfortable with it

Ebonyeyes:

Im not sure im comfortable with it

aha are u trying to tell me u dont trust me?

IgboGirl:

lool for real! i went partying one time with my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends included) so this one chic that is sorta one of his close friends saw me dancing with my boy and decided to join in i was dancing in front of my boy while the chic joined from behind him and was dancing with us.

You could have kicked her and claim you were doing some dance move.

stillwater:

You could have kicked her and claim you were doing some dance move.

bad girl . . .

No2Atheism:

bad girl . . .

I prefer mean.

IgboGirl:

lool for real! i went partying one time with my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends included) so this one chic that is sorta one of his close friends saw me dancing with my boy and decided to join in i was dancing in front of my boy while the chic joined from behind him and was dancing with us.

did she dance makosa or touch my toe, i touch yours?

debest1:

aha are u trying to tell me u dont trust me?

Egggggxactly what im saying

question is, do you even trust yourself?

^^^^^^^Good question.

***wink

You have to jealously guard the one you love. Sorry, but if my boyfriend spends more time with his so called

female best friend then there is problem. To make him feel the same way(if he thinks there is nothing wrong with

it) I'll bag myself a male best friend. Lets see how that goes down

One thing i've learnt about this whole love/dating game is that it's not a do or die affair cos we never know what the outcome will be. The guy is getting the best of both words, But in the end he'll settle down in just ONE world. His wife's world. Right now the best friend shouldn't be around him all the time because something will definitely happen between them. She truly is a sneaky b*tch if she is perpetually spending all her time with someone she KNOWS has a girlfriend for no legitimate (work or school related) reason.

Let your bf know exactly how you feel. If he honestly tells you that there's nothing going on, believe him (but still be careful). I know from experience that some seemingly good guys can me brutal liars.

Then breathe, relax, and let time do it's work. Love him and be yourself, dont slack in the r/ship but reserve a little of your heart in case of heartbreak.

IgboGirl:

lool for real! i went partying one time with my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends included) so this one chic that is sorta one of his close friends saw me dancing with my boy and decided to join in i was dancing in front of my boy while the chic joined from behind him and was dancing with us.

I feel you on that. Some girls are just stupid and cheap.

[exits thread kissing it goodbye]

hunh! at this rate, you will exit every thread on nl oooo!

i'm gonna be sincere wit ya! when a guy's best friend is a girl, they are having hot friendly sex, just pray it doesnt go beyond that.

goodluck!!!!

hot and friendly sex?!