₦airaland Forum

EVILFOREST:
I am a CHELSEA/BARCA FAN....
But I will Give it to ARSENAL
Arsenal was crazy then....

wrong combo.. How can you be Chelsea fan and Baca at same time.... You ain't true Chelsea fan

I sincerely don't understand this style of day on and day off... those people might have contact it and does that mean if they stay at home next day it will also go?

God is great, no one knows tomorrow.

Three of them must have morn the first one

Two of them must have morn the first and second

One of them must have morn the three of them

It can be anybody's turn at any time..

Always do good

solochris:
Oga it is too early for this. Just 3 months and she is already crying, haba! My wife got pregnant after one year of marriage and believe me, that first year was so fun. Pls try and make her put her mind off it, when she will get pregnant, she wouldn't even know.

that's why i here to hear from experienced parent like you. Thank you bro

Healthyway15:
Hello... When I read what you wrote knowing that 3 months is too early, I could not waste words than to just paste a part of my write-up on fertility topics for you.

"Infertility is defined as not being able to become pregnant after having frequent intercourse (sex)without birth control, after at least one year, or 6 months if the woman is over age 35. Most couples who have unprotected sex at least twice per week are able to become pregnant within one year. About 90 out of 100 couples will be able to get pregnant within 12 months of trying."

It's too early... You should use the knowledge you gain from the contributions of people on this thread to educate your wife concerning it.

Seeing both of you giving God the glory very soon!

I really appreciate your contribution and that's what made me to share it here. Thanks boss

alizma:
You nerd to educate her that your union has many projects line up among which child bearing is one, therefore she should move her attention to other things and at the appropriate time, the pregnancy will come.
Nothing stops you guys from executing your house project, plan on your children education like opening a joint account for the purpose, plan your retirement etc while the pregnancy will join other projects along the line.
Finally, you should both know and understand her monthly circle so that you don't miss the right time when you should focus more of bedroom affairs. Also tell her not to be in haste to stand up after each intercourse because the rate of movement of sperm in individual woman differs

. Thanks for the guide... thank you boss

Oluneutral:
Women and worry Sha!

Tell her you married her because you love her and not because of child/children. Say it with all sincerity and let her know that you really mean what you said and that will help her to take her mind off it, which will help her to relax and put her mind in peace.





Because, sincerely, 3 months is too early for you guys to be disturbed concerning conception.

Twins coming your way soon.

Adice noted.. amen for the prayer... thanks sir

Starlight10:
Tell her that you really don't want a baby now, that you plan to have 1 whole year to enjoy eachother. Then always do fun stuffs like when you guys where single and let her take her mind off it. I hope it helps.

noted.. thanks

aaking:
Why worry? Depression and anxiety affect the womb . Pls try caution your wife not to worry. Because it could lead to another problem. If you are a Christian tell her to study and read the scriptures it'll surely help her.
Whenever you're at work always call and send messages to her am telling you it'll her build herself up. She maybe worried about your own perspective or thought about the situations.

thank you so much brother

decatalyst:
The two both of you are not serious!

Just three month and the anxiety is so much like this?

enh brother, I am not that worried and I guess she's worried because her sister waited for a year plus before she conceived.

sagtav:
You two should relax your mind. Excessive worry will beget depression and anxiety which in turn will disrupt the hormone that is responsible for conception.

She will get pregnant when her spirit, soul and body is in peace.

I have many married elders around me and their view is that it is when a woman least expects to be pregnant, that is when she will get pregnant.


Please those knowledgeable about this should come forward with their input

thanks sister. Not that am disturbed at all but she is and that's what am worried about

Hello Nairalander, I need help from medical practitioners and experienced parent. I got married three months ago and if nothing goes wrong, we should be talking about the scan or number of months left. I have never discussed this with my wife or behave in any way to her, though I work in a very busy company which made me to be too busy to be disturbed about it. Some days back my wife felt sick and she went to hospital with the hope of getting good result of what she's has been worried about but the doctor made her to understand that she's too anxious to get pregnant after she narrate her symptoms. When she came back to deliver what she was told at the hospital, I advice her as well to calm and not to be disturb. A week ago, she started feeling feverish, like little headache or body temperature sometimes little stomach disturb, all her thinking was that she is pregnant and she is waiting for me to take her to hospital but I don't want to be too forward so that if the result comes negative, it won't be like I will be sad about it infront of her. Today I just came back from office and met my wife with swollen and red eye ball, I jokingly tease her that she's has been sleeping all day but later realised she's not but worried about some thing. So I asked her what's wrong and she started crying that her period come again. I had to console her that God time is the best also that I will seek for medical advise.

That's why I am here sir and ma.... Please advice me and share your little experience about this...

I apologize to the English expert in the house.

Thanks to you all...

Uncle Lala and Brother seun... Please help my life....

u11ae1013:
Pdp and IPOB will still claim it's photoshoped and that the picture was captured in chad
And later, they will show us a hole in buhari's neck
Mind you, I am a proud ewedu sipper

you be ABUsite..... u11..... weldone...

realokopi:
Imagine what would happen if all the scientists working round the clock to produce vaccines abandon their quest and decided to pray for vaccines to fall from heaven...

his prayer might help the scientist to get it right and faster

9ja.... chai.... if na one Northern Gov did this, these people from this region would have hang themselves or ready to hug transformer....
Hypocrisy at the highest order

You are seeking for advise without reason and people are giving you answer... this country self...


Why are you changing name?

Tired of this thing

brightalo1010:
leave not live

thanks

Emmanuel226:
I jus tire for am,make him no do d one wey go make am regret wen him leave dat office oh

as in enh... just talk any how and behave as he like... seems he doesn't have adviser

This guy always behave like is not going to leave that throne.....

We are frustrated here at ologuneru ibadan oyo state.. I even twitt the Gov Seyi Makinde when life tired me but no response or improvement.

This picture clearly shows that it's fake... How can you be doing exercise in that attire

Commendable

Blackeard:
Does Nigeria have any facility that aids Debt Consolidation?

not really but in some cases, you may get such facility. Assuming you want to take a facility and the real purpose is to clear bad debt from another institution, then you will not have it because where you are taking it will be concerned about your repayment. But there are two cases you may have such facility..

1. If you are a salary earner and you want to switch to another bank ofwhich you already took loan facility from the bank you switching from, then your new bank can take care of the loan facility with the previous bank.

2. If you are a business owner and you want another bank to pay off your previous bank loan facility ofwhich the bank paying off the loan have enough collateral for the facility, then it can be possible but more especially when is not is bad debt, May be performing loan.

kayodez:
Thanks for ur candid response.. I'm glad but will one still be able to access his banking transactions like depositing and withdrawal, making transfer and so on... Despite been blacklisted?

yes you can.

kayodez:
Good evening sir. Pls wats the meaning of blacklisting BVN, with ur experience working in the bank. What does that mean? Pls shed more light to this sir. Thanks

Nothing you can do now in Nigeria without filling your BVN, and when you seek for a facility or want to apply for something that require to check your bureau record, then your BVN will be the main key search means. If you had taken facilities from different organization without paying back or paying in time, then it will be reporting on your credit score that you have bad debt, written off, not performing, performing and many more. In that case you have been blacklisted, which no reputable organisation will grant you facility.

How many soldier now left oooo? Eyin media

Emmy9ite02:
Covid-19 is not a death sentence.. Stop all the unnecessary panic

See how calm the tweet sounds.

in a reasonable country... pray Nigeria doesn't witness what China or Italy facing now.

My cousin brother has been promising me for wedding gift and I didn't task him for it, his not free with me any more....the wedding is getting old self


One of a street brother working at a very reputable organisation in UK gave me 10k for wedding.. I praise him as if he gave me 100k and he was even surprised. Though I work in bank and I appreciate a single penny

Lamanii22:
Amen.. And may love and loyalty thrive in this union... Lawd! I love weddings..

amen. Thanks

Blackmiserable:
Your bride is cute fa. Where in Ilorin I must come.

Amir Event Center, adewole housing.... 22nd of feb

giancarlo:
congratulations. God will bless your marriage.

amen