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" I believe that there no god/God but Allah ."
" I believe that Muhammad is God's Holy Prophet ."
" I believe that Islam is the Only True Religion ."
"lā ʾilāha ʾillā-llāh, muhammadun rasūlu-llāh."


Its not fair that you have to agree to this before you can comment on a Muslim thread while anybody can just comment on a Christian thread here without agreeing to anything.
Am not trying to cause any conflict but I think the two religions should have the same rules guiding them

Zoharariel:
If Jesus was building Estates & flying 4 different private jets upandan, nobody would hear about him.

Tell me, why is it so difficult for all these "Con Men" to obey a simple instruction from Jesus in Matthew 19:21, Mark 10:21 & Luke 18:22?

“Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

yomi962:
man of God or god of man. Time will tell

just leave them let God do the judgement

I can't comprehend d motive dat drives child molesters...as in what attracts them self??

Sucuidalthought:
I really need ur advices, coz i am thinking of taking my life my self if I can't get over this stuff by 5pm today...


I am a student of a public university in Nigeria,
300l economics,
I am addicted to gambling (bet9ja virtual to be precise), I have tried many times to stop this stuff but it is not working out, and is putting me into debts...

I just need ur advices coz I am fed up with life because of this virtual...

I know taking my life is not the best answer but at least, is gonna to save me from seeing the disgrace I have brought to my self and parents...

Fenks in anticipation..

its not something you can just drop by just deciding.... mail me let's talk about it

OP are you a monitoring spirit?? enjoy your Honeymoon in peace

how can you just sit down am compose nonsense

how can someone mumu like dis for goodness sake

RIP veteran...

Tragic... if there's peace in the world beyond..I pray they find it

Xavier5:
Good. In other words, Submission is respecting and acknowledging the authority and headship of another who serves as the head (if he or she deserves it) in a given scenario but with your rights intact. Note the bolded.

Submission does not denote inferiority rather it is wisdom and strength. Submission is not only Perculiar to a specific gender it is Perculiar to all. Submission is divine, even JESUS was submissive to his Father, JEHOVAH.
There are scenarios you found yourself, submission will be needed. It doesn't mean because one submitted to his or her head means that he or she is inferior.

Submission requires humility. It requires strength and discipline. It requires you lowering yourself to brush or lift another up.

What Meghan did to her husband could also be called submission. It took humility, selflessness, discipline and strength to do it. She isn't his bodyguard or PA or secretary or slave for her to do what she did but she humbled and lowered herself to do it, which is what submission is all about. It shows she respect, love, care and submit to him. Does that make her inferior? No. She is still the woman she is, Meghan.

And yes, it could also be submission if her husband does the same thing to her. It shows humility, love, care and respect. It takes a whole lot to do it.

But the issue with false feminists is that they see any form of submission of submission as inferiority and slavery. To them Pride and arrogance means strength. What a joke!!!!!

But dearest, There is a difference between Submission and Slavery.
In submission, your rights are intact. No one not even your head infringes or tramples on them.
BUT
In Slavery, your rights aren't intact. You do not have any right or say. They are been infringed and trampled on.
That's the difference.

Good day dearest.

#Xavier.

You spoke my mind...its very easy to be arrogant n rebellious but it takes a very strong person to be calm and submissive in a relationship...sometimes my gf will just do things or take decisions i will not tolerate from someone else but because of love I have for her i had to submit to her and back her up like her decision is the most perfect one

imagine spending heavily on a ceremony then you go broke after the ceremony... it does not portray common sense

my mind is telling me u already made ur decision

queenbetsy:
its actually "HER"

Queen Betsy...Her Royal wickedness

brain and beauty choke

CheeZena:
I'm not interested in confusing other girls okay?
You don't see me putting a gun to their heads asking them to be feminists.

What's disgusting is when people like you make silly assumptions on what feminism is or why a woman is a feminist.

No I've not been abused but I know people who have, people who are close to me.

Where were you going with your question?
To assume abuse is the reason I hold strong opinions on feminism right?

I did not make any assumption..am done trying to make you see feminism from my own view if you will continue to throw shade at every mention...I respek every personality here on nl and I don't think I deserve to be disrespected

SIMPLYkush:
why will they protest? if they can't pay they should get the fvck out.

why are u like dis

CheeZena:
Because a girl has strong opinions, you assume she's been abused. Can it get worse.

As for my signature, don't tell me the sarcasm flew over your head.

I asked a reasonable question and you answered without reasoning...And who told you are opinionated?? I know your type,you preach a thing online you act the opposite in reality... stop confusing other girls that has common sense... since you cannot reply without throwing shades av concluded you are actually here to rile people up and not make a point about feminism...do not mention me anymore God bless you

CheeZena:
You too.

I Should have read your signature before I replied your mention BTW have you been abused in anyway before??

CheeZena:
Who cares?
Going by your logic (or lack of logic), if pastors lie and steal from their followers does it mean that Christianity supports stealing?

If you can only make use of common sense, you'll know that for every ideology, there'll be people who are extremists, those who do it wrong, those who don't even know what the ideology is about but just claim to uphold it (just to seem and sound woke) and those who do it right.

Also, that two things are not the same doesn't mean that one should be placed above the other.

Give this line up already. Y'all beginning to sound like broken records.

I just hope these your idea of feminism doesnt rob you of life's true happiness n joy...have fun

CheeZena:
Are you okay?

Submissive?

Oh I see...
Meghan holding an umbrella over her man's head automatically translates to submission eh? Confused much?

If it were the other way round, would you say he was submitting to her?

AND

True feminism is against submission and subordination of any of the sexes. Stop talking trash.

P. S
No one should tell me anything about arrogance. I have zero tolerance for stupidity.

you said here...True feminism is against submission then again you said submission should be from both parties....now tell me who is confused??
If you av been abused somehow by a male u should see a professional psychologist...

CheeZena:
Mr Man,

Feminism is GENDER EQUALITY, EQUALITY OF THE SEXES!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I hope that's loud enough).

What do you mean by you don't see women as your equal yet they are not inferior to you? What's that? Does that make any iota of sense to you?
You just typed rubbish you know that right?

No one is begging you to be a feminist. You can keep on upholding obsolete patriarchal beliefs. No one gives a f*ck.

But please, stop trying to tell us what feminism is or is not because you clearly don't know what feminism is.
You have no idea. Any ideology that goes against gender EQUALITY! EQUALITY!!! (even louder for those at the back!), is NOT feminism.

What's this you are saying..Most of you advocating equality will still want guys to treat you differently because you are a girl...if genders should be equal how do you explain biological and physical differences between genders..

CheeZena:
I am a feminist. You are clearly the confused one.

First of all, you guys came out hating the concept of feminism. Now here you are trying to give it a new definition.

If there must be submission then both partners must submit to the other depending on who is making the most sense at that time.

Mtcheewww.

CheeZena:
I am a feminist. You are clearly the confused one.

First of all, you guys came out hating the concept of feminism. Now here you are trying to give it a new definition.

If there must be submission then both partners must submit to the other depending on who is making the most sense at that time.

Mtcheewww.

CheeZena:
I am a feminist. You are clearly the confused one.

First of all, you guys came out hating the concept of feminism. Now here you are trying to give it a new definition.

If there must be submission then both partners must submit to the other depending on who is making the most sense at that time.

Mtcheewww.

me? confused? lol..Just read what you wrote then you will know who is confused

love is interesting..I pray they last forever

IamD18:
A woman cannot get tired of sex with if you keep giving her money. NEVER!

Money is the only thing that makes them have sex, not affection, feelings or love.

So if you keep giving her money, be rest assured that she'll keep having sex with you tirelessly. But if you stop, have it in mind that she'll leave you to fvck a rich goat tirelessly.

This you mentality about girls n money is low

CheeZena:
Are you okay?

Submissive?

Oh I see...
Meghan holding an umbrella over her man's head automatically translates to submission eh? Confused much?

If it were the other way round, would you say he was submitting to her?

AND

True feminism is against submission and subordination of any of the sexes. Stop talking trash.

P. S
No one should tell me anything about arrogance. I have zero tolerance for stupidity.

Submission n respek is paramount in any relationship and it goes both ways....submission is about making sacrifices..you are not a feminist you are just one stubborn n confused young lady...donot mention me anymore

CheeZena:
So what exactly is your point?
How is feminism wrong? How?

Some people has taken feminism as something else...I respek women alot but I don't see us as equal n they are not inferior either.They compliment us...that's my point.

AmazonTopaz:
As far as I am concerned religion does not regard women.
Also I do not believe that your capability is by your gender so I can be very comfortable with a capable female soldier.

Do you know a soldier is expected to carry an injured comrade back to safety in front line... how do you expect a female soldier to carry an injured man back to safety
]I think there should be gender equality everywhere but there are some situations where gender equality is not plausible...Take for example our physical strength,an average man is stronger than an average woman thereby they shouldn't be given the same amount of work...And also I believe an average woman is more compassionate than an average man so there are some work more suited for females like nurses and doctors...There's no equality in gender and no gender is inferior..I believe we compliment each other

respek their hustle... guys own worse

nairaland is dominated by kids..am certain

all women have their own uniqueness... if you are irritated by a particular type... its your personal problem