You are traumatised? Go back to your village.

She deserves it. Very shameless girl. I'm sure she's an igbo girl. How can you propose to a man? No pride. No self respect.

Life of a celeb. Her daughter looks unkempt.

kaziblake:
Sir she correcting you doesn't make her a nagging wife pls...imagine wearing a jean and shirt to church,she is your wife and she has the right to correct you in your choice of dressings and decisions.
Your choice of dressing to church wasn't even apporaite at all because when you get to church its still her they will blame for your dressing.

Are you ok? That's no way to talk to one's husband!!!!!

djoe21:


I know cutting off the engagement abruptly is not the best but based on the information provided by the op, I still do not think she is such a bad person as you are painting. She is only looking out for her son and trying to get the best from what she perceives could be a difficult situation

Okay, I respect your pov. But I do hope op's fiancee will have a rethink and have the courage to move on. This isn't a good family to marry into.

djoe21:



Cut his mom off? What has she done to warrant that? Don't you think you are taking it too far?

His mum will cause his family problems irrespective of who he marries. That's who she is. Not all mothers are good. I see a controlling person here. Op is 36 but still afraid of his mother. Ask yourself why? How can you cut off an official gathering on the day it was to take off? It takes a mean person to do that. A person who doesn't have regard for anyone, who lacks love and compassion. Surely, you need to stay away from such people. We also need to ask op what his relationship with his mum is like cos he looks like a frightened little puppy, a result of constant bashing growing up, unhealthy relationship with his parents.

The essence of cutting her off is to shame the devil. And show his family that with or without them he will marry for love and have children. And when the time comes for celebration, they may do so with them or continue to be wicked.

Fawklicant:


This is exactly the kind of woman you shouldn't marry. Already talking about alienating your family? Do not under any circumstances associate with this type of biatch.

Your mother is a biitch.

Gamesmart:


Please explain how your story links with your advice.

Exactly.

XTLikeNat777:
Please don't be offended - your mum must be an end time mum for requesting such.

As in...she must be an uneducated old witch.

valentineuwakwe:
Hello Nairalanders,

Nice again to be hear. Please I need advice from anyone that can give me on this issue bordering me..


Please move this thread to front page as I need advice, please

Guy, I have to tell you that you don't have a mother who loves you. She's mean and selfish. Calling off intro on the d-day. That's wicked and heartless. I hope your fiancee will see this as a red flag and stay off you cos even if you end up marrying her, your mum will still make life a living hell for her cos it's who she is.

Btw, I want to ask? Are you sure you're man enough for marriage? I don't understand why your mother dictates for you at your old age

My advice for you is to cut her off. Send money home only through bank transfer but cut off those who are against you for anyone who isn't with you is against you and should be cut off.

biacan:
She is in pain right now biko she might kill herself........ just carry her to your place for some time so she'll be under your watch you guys have come a long way....... biko nna meliya ebere

Nigga. Are you mad?

integrity85:


Honestly it did nothing for me. It gave me lots of pimples.
I had to drop it eventually.

Ok thanks. I've opted for something else

agbarisocket:
OR PURSUE THE GIRL GO LAGOS TO SELL GALA OR ASHAWO

Or sell ASHAWO? Hahahahahahahahaha

So honest people still dey naija?

integrity85:


I would start using it from hence alongside my Jergens Fair and Soft (spf20). I stopped applying Jergens on my face because it was breaking me out.

Hi. Did Ocean Secrets Sunblock Cream SPF90 work for you? I plan on getting it. Kindly reply.

futureenergy:


I did not at any time say my answers guaranteed me the job. Till tomorrow, I will repeat that I was more knowledgeable than “my” panelists in my area. Most often, those in the private sector are more grounded than those at govt regulators. Just like someone discussing Mercedes V-boot and talking about front-wheel drive (I didn't go to tell them that though). However, correct your impression, I didn’t go to tell them I know more. In fact I said what my questions were, they are not anything technical. It is the interviewers work to ask technical questions not mine. The first question I asked was how a typical career projection would be for someone of my qualifications and experience. They somehow dodged it. The second question was about how DPR would have personnel in almost every state capital yet petrol is hoarded and sold above pump price. I twisted it and made it look like some of their top officials take compensation from marketers and look the other side (that’s the one that made the FCC person laugh, and it is true).

Leave all this God talk all the time, human beings make final selection not God.



You are free to talk your own. I just made an elaborate post of how my interview went, anything you make out of it is your own cup of tea. My interview session was very friendly and everybody (myself inclusive) had a good dosage of laughter. I do not think anyone picked offense in the room. If you are on Nairaland picking offence for them, goodluck! In a matter of weeks, I believe we shall know. I had been out of job for over a year and DPR is not more than some other opportunities I had lost. So my life doesn't and wouldn't depend on a bribe-infested, money-calculating, salary-speculating, largely-idle government department.

Go bro! You know your onions. A lot of people have a problem with that.

modik:
I took the keen note of all you said. These are some disturbing issues spotted :


It is never too late. Don't let your marriage fail.

Well said. I noticed this too as I read his story

keepingmum:
Your marriage ended when you started sleepinb with a w.hore and investing emotionally and financially witg her rather than spending on your wife and kids (your number 1 priority).
Your wife figured out but didnt say anything and you werent clued up enough to realise you were caught.

Thanks for this. Well said. I'm surprised those who commented before you failed to mention this fact. He made a mistake not covering up his mistake sleeping with a LovePeddler. His wife happens to be a strong, independent woman who will take no shiiit.

MariaNorris:
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Where did you purchase this?

Sharp girl. Those condemning her are ignorant.

Stupid bitch mercy. Now I don't feel sorry her ex husband bashed her.

Ishilove:
Lie lie lie. Which kind of bold, callous, pompous and dangerous lie is this??

Gosh this lady needs to be slapped!!

I feel like sending guys to the designer to beat her up.

Orpe7:


My sister who is a medical doctor just told me the hospital she works just gave a fellow doctor his job termination letter without a month notice. A salary for that matter na one yeye plate dem give am. These fvcks dont deserve ones pity gbam. No protection for an employee in nigeria our labour union is rubbish. Employer just deem it fit to sack u when they please yet they expect u to give them one month notice. Tufiakwa!

Haha. I was very brutal in my approach, if you don't mind me telling you. Immediately I got my last salary, I sent in my resignation via email, also referring HR to retrieve company property I had in my possession from my drawer.

Orpe7:



No consequence bro
Got another job and enjoying the time of my life.

I don't know what dude means by consequences. I left my last job same as you. These employers aren't loyal so they don't deserve your loyalty as well.

Dazbeane:
Hello guys!

I once made a post here about being unemployed - between May to October. It was actually the longest period I've stayed without earning anything, remember reaching out but didn't get result.

Your story is incomplete without you telling us the position you applied for.

mamaafrik:
Wedding party, Jennifer diary.

You don't have class.

TheHistorian:

This is one of the post I see that makes me doubt the seriousness of an average Nigerian youth. . .

What has PMB done to warrant Nigerians' forgiveness. . .What really?

When GEJ was cheerfully distributing your generational wealth to some selected few. . .Didn't you tag him a hero?

When GEJ made Sure-P an avenue for PDP chieftains to enrich themselves. . . .nobody wailed.

Swear on this day that none of your family,relatives or friends benefitted from N-Power?

Shior.

Thank you.

Mizsylviah:
Is dat what u call ugly?

She's an idiot

TheUbermensch:
What was she doing there herself?!

Stupid question. It's these same hypocrite guys that will insult ladies who don't hang out on their own unless their bf takes them out. Now she goes out to spend her money on herself and you're complaining again. Very childish, stupid question.

7Alexander:
Please, I have a little confusion. I will soon complete my MSc program, and in my CV, I indicated this with the course of study, and 'in-view' beside it. Someone told me it isn't proper to include a qualification which you haven't already gotten. But, I'm done with my course work, just project remaining. I want to know of this is true or I should leave it that way.

Debbie, eremy and anyone who has an answer should please help, before I score an own goal.

Do NOT listen to anyone who tells you to exclude your Msc from your cv!

wiloy2k8:


who is gonna feel sorry for u if u dead too?

Stupid question. Ask yourself who's gonna feel sorry for you when you end up like he.