That road has become a nightmare recently,hope no one died.

I am not surprised at the oba shutting down shops and forcing people to go for ambodes rally, because it is what they do.In satelite town the iya oja forces market men and women to buy aso ebi and shuts down the whole market for whatever reason. Forcing people that pay you tax and rent a d a lot of times levies that are unaccounted for,to shut their stores for your personal gratification is highly undemocratic and unacceptable in our present Nigeria, if this story is true then it should be stopped,and that is why i have reservations about voting ambode because i want change,this has to stop and i might have to vote the opposition to get the lagos i desire.

You all should go get a life, sleep, get a job or keep quiet, y'all are young folks that should engender peace but instead you're taking the bait to build hatred in yourselves, you are forgetting, that this nation needs to grow past your tribal difference in order to be the great nation we so deserve,
I have 3 children with different personalities and i can't force one child to be like the other, we have embraced democracy because we believe everyone is different and has a choice.
Trust God and be at peace with your selves for no man can rule except God allows it.

May God have mercy on the Oba of Lagos so much hate in this man i pity him and also pray his hatred don't send him to an early grave.

Thanks and keep it coming am a newbie but am getting my facts first before I jump in though.

Eddymech:
Am having been in deep thoughts for like 3weeks and have been wondering why my wife lied to me that she miscarried twice,while I was out of the country on an official purpose

Note
We have a daughter together
No pressure from me on getting pregnant
I actually told her to wait till our daughter is 3 yrs old before she takes in again,she is yet to be 3


So she lied she was pregnant when she wasn't
I have asked her over and over again why she had to lie
All I get is tears or am truly sorry
At first it was funny to me ,but now is no longer funny

@op
Pls cut your wife some slack you may not understand what she goes through,believe me I have been there,My first child is four years older than my second ,we had Herr a year after we were married,and after she came I had difficulties again conceiving. For me the feeling was exactly how I felt when we were ttc for our first child I had no pressures externally but deep inside my being I was ready to explode,I bought this packet of pregnancy home strip tests and kept checking for any sign at all.
There was one month when my period was so late I believed I was pregt,I did d urine test at home and it came back negative,I did it almost hourly hoping I would get a positive,meanwhile I had already mentioned it to my hubby that my period was late oh how elated he was,he would call me from work to ask how, 'his twins' are doing,he would pamper me and show me extra care........but alas my red visitor came knocking one night and that ended it,I will never forget that night my hubby felt so sad,and so did I.
Pls OP just let her be what she really needs is for you to hold her and 'reassure her that you are still waiting with her,speaks words that will strengthen her,I think she is craving attention so all that drama,all the best dear.

Profcamsey:
how does this affect him? Senior pangolo

@op
My dear,before I suggest what to do I need you to have a mental picture of what's coming
1.You have just graduated with no job or source of income.
2.You are pregnant which means you will require care,and diet change especially for the baby(most of what you do now has to consider the health of the baby first).
3.Except your parents are supportive considering the extra financial burden you will be not only that you have to consider if psychologically they are able to handle it,
4.Believe me when I tell you that as a mother you don't have holidays,there are days you will long to give your child the best in education etc but you are restrained because u do not have the capacity to do it oh yes your heart will break into several unmendable pieces cos you know your chilled deserves more.
5.Gradually you will begin to grow bitter and hateful of men,because you are so stressed thinking of how to manage meagre resources you will look older than your age and the dream of finding someone to share your life with might begin to fade.
6.You will wake up one morning and will realize you have done nothing with your life.
7.I have and am still counselling single mothers who fat e this challenge every day,asking themselves what if I had..........
8. Dilatation and Curretage when done by one who is qualified is safe and simple,you can discuss with. Your physician.
9.weigh your options dear and don't be run over by sentiments.

rattlesnake:
is that Ur husbands name?

No dear just simply what the words in quote reminds me of.

rattlesnake:
Cos u were already frustrated before u even got the job ....the love of money is the root of allllllllll
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Now u an engineer turned messenger

Chaiiii....and we are blaming ebele musa....anyway sha

Just do the job till u get another

No sense reminds me of the word 'oponu oshi'

RIP madam you were such an interesting person and I loved to hear you interview people.

May your gentle soul rest in peace,and may God grant your family the fortitude to bear the loss. Amen

@op you need to put yourself together,I have often discovered that the people that clamor for respect,and attention hardly earn it,when you earn it,you don't beg for it,it comes.
Please take time to do an evaluation of yourself,nobody can make you feel worthless except you let them,the bible says that YOU should guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life.
Having a woman won't solve it cos you can be married and and still feel worthless. You need to take charge.Above all you need to be born Again if you are not, only Jesus can give you that fulfilment you need.Cheers

@ Dr Dee:let me know what is involved please mail me rozzi26@yahoo.com.hk let's talk business

If I wanted to introduce her to a new diet she first tries it in school where other kids are also eating,that atmosphere encorages her to eat well,so I go all out.
Make sure they are nutritious for her,
1.Rice+curry sauce with soft chopped chicken parts,water and small pack of ribenna
2.Spaghetti sauce with fresh fish,water and caprisonne
3.Macaronni cooked with tomatoes crayfish etc ,1 boiled egg,water and a small pack of hollandia yoghourt.
4 jollof rice + 1 boiled egg + 1 apple, water,no juice
5.Yam or Potato porriage with fresh fish and caprisonne
6.Fried plantain,fried potato,little sauce and fish +ribenna
7. Incase of an emergency maybe am late for work then NOODLES to the rescue.
Hope my list helps goodluck with your kiddo.

I would also like to emphasize on the importance of having and reading good books that can serve as a guide.I remember when I had my first kid my sister gave me a book as a gift titled 'What to Expect the first year' it came as a real blessing to me and helped me know what was happening to my child,what to do in an emergency, what to do and what to expect for each month,in a nuttshell I was able to measure my baby's progress.
The truth is that information is and still remains a parents greatest defence,we can't afford to be ignorant.May God continue to guide us all.

@alwaystrue, thanks a lot will be glad for more info on the drug,would really love to know if someone has used it because I heard of some amazing results from some women who used it,thanlks a lot.

Hi ladies it's nice to find a thread like this,been trying to keep up with the posts here, please has any one tried the drug 'PREGNITUDE' where can I find it. I learnt it improves egg quality,normalizes ur period, and also normalizes ovulation naturally.

Hello doc, glad you are here, pls my huby had a cold uncomfortable tingling sensation on his right lap,worsens when you pour water on it,later stoped and I had same issue on my right lap spreading behind to my right bum, also noticed an itchy rash on right lip of my womanlines it was quite uncomfortable,also noticed my period for the past 2yrs has been heavy and comes in thick drops, done a scan but shows normal,I am 35 I have a 3yr old kid and am TTC. Pls help thank you

Gud day doc, pls my hubby noticed that his right laps had a cold tingling sensation which made him uncomfortable, after about 2wks I had same this time around spreading from my right lap to behind ie my right bum and also on d right side of my vagina noticed a little itchy rash,it disapears and comes after a while esp during my period which for d past 2yrs comes in thick drops.I had a scan done and it showd all ok,CM appears normal. Am in late 30s with a 3yr old kid n TTC. Please kindly assist, as am tryin not to worry, hank you.