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praxs:
Its not yet confirmed but we are suspecting pregnancy. I am 28yrs of age and my girl is 22years. We started dating not too long. We made love sometime last month and she missed her perioed. We used strip and it shows she is pregnant. We will go for a proper test today to confirm. Now here are the issues disturbing me:

A: She wants abortion but I don't want that: she's a student, hence keeping it will be complicated for her.

B: I have been thinking of ways to convince her but she's adamant, abortion is the best for her. Please more ideas for me on how to convince her. And if I successfully convince her to keep the pregnancy, how do we go about this?

C: Both of us come from a very strick family.

D: I am still thinking of how to report myself to her family. I could end up in police station tho. Do I go straight to see her parents (suicidal), do I go tell their pastor so we could find a way to break it to her parents. Do I go tro her parents siblings?

What is just the best way to report myself?

I need your advice's urgently please, coz we are doing the test this afternoon.

Seems she is not ready to settle down with you right now and if that's the case going to her parents will be difficult.

If all things are equal between you guys then meet her parents and simply ask her hand in marriage and do the wedding within a month and if this seems impossible then tell them she's pregnant. Be a man, accept your responsibilities and face the consequences!

betterford:
DO YOU WANT TO TAKE UP YOUR BROTHERS SIT?

Brother is preparing for presidency!

I laugh in Swahili

The police only opened fire in self defence because a car in the convoy shot at them but was the car Dino's G wagon?

You fight who is fighting you in self defense and not someone who is not.

The leaders of Nigeria Police are so dull that they can't even lie or frame up situation to make people believe them. First reading of their account on any situation is enough to see their lies.

[b][/b]PMB must leave 2019!

Ndonu101:
PDP should not take these defections and goodwill of Nigerians for granted

I will like to see a proper transparent Presidential primary and ahead of that candidates running on PDP platform should be made to debate 3 times on the following topics and in different locations

Abuja debate should focus on National Security/Boko Haram/Fulani Herdsmen
Lagos debate should focus on Nigerian Economy/Diversification
Port Harcourt debate to focus of Post-Crude-Oil Nigeria as per electric cars in the WEST /Environment Protection/ Nigerian Diversity

Imagine the kind of following PDP will generate from the likes of Saraki, Atiku, Kwakwanso, Tambuwal, Sule Lamido going round the country in a marathon debate on Nigeria geo-political issues. That will take the Presidential run to levels that Buhari will not be able to keep up with.

But if PDP do the backroom horse trading like before, then that will hand Buhari the race!

How about Kano debate, Bayelsa debate or even Kogi debate?

Giddymoney:
Ronaldo and show off can never be separated

When you don't have how can you show off?

Eliteklaus:
Collective punishment, another attribute of a myopic society

Not a collective treatment but only 13 are being punished. Seems the 13 are the only ones involved and this is her story....the story from school can be different

s3tt1ngz003:
Apart from the fact that the English is so poor, I find it very difficult to understand the message she's trying to pass across.
Was she blamed for leaking exam question or was she accused of passing the exam beyond imagination...... She has explained nothing in her write up here

I tire o. Wetin concern am as departmental president wit exam malpractice or she is involved. Because no school will call departmental president for exam malpractice he has no knowledge of unless the story is incomplete.

lilmax:
all this shallow people,he's only useful in goals and you end up saying he's the best.....he cannot work for his ball, the ball is given to him......at the end its like he doesn't work,just static before he starts moving

omo goals no mean say you sabi play ball

if goals no mean say u sabi play football why goals d give footballers achievements?

No b who score goals pass b winner?
No b who score goals pass d carry golden boot?
No b goals d contribute to trophies and eventually ballon d'ore?

Since your favorite player no d score now so u go say goals no mean say u sabi play ball!

Wit people wit this mentality how can Nigeria develop and progress?

thatigboman:
Dekina LGA in kogi is bush o. The youths there are not even up to 100. Many of those SSAs and aides must have been his secondary school schoolmates

Funny you....at least 90% of these guys are friends and local thugs that helped him during the elections. About 10% are suggestions from the palace of his uncle for personal interests.

The real youth of this LGA with good education are either suffering or have established their own business to survive.

Welcome to Kogi state

A mere Local Government Chairman with all these SA and SSA!

Am very sure 80% of these people are undergraduate or possibly beer parlour political thugs that Yahaya Bello and APC want to use come 2019.

Nigeria is in bad phase for the common men but kogi state is in the worst phase.

Only God Almighty can save Kogi and her people from APC and GYB