Well, over-time, I have seen cases where husbands sit idly in their living rooms fiddling over newspapers they might have probably perused severally while Their wives are left to do all d laundry, cooking, babysitting and so on. At other times, fathers do d babysitting devotedly. IMO,the raising up of kids is a collective responsibility of parents. So for the male folks out there who babysit, how often do u do that and what are your joys and challenges?? Please I want constructive comments here. If you find d thread annoying, simply move on to d next thread....thanks.