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A Man's Coldheartedness;after She Converted To His Religion...... by james1(m): 2:09pm On Sep 18, 2012
(Not real names)Ismaila met aisha when she came for a visit to her aunty's;ordinarily ismaila is quite shy guy and can't in his life sum up the courage to chat with aisha.
Ismaila operate's a breakfast business(mechai)and gamble's like crazy.
Aisha's aunty operate's a restaurant business and she is on top of her game.aisha is spectacularly endowed,most men who see her want to be with her.
After a while aisha who has noticed ismaila's interest in her started going for tea breaks at his place of business.ismaila on part started giving her some money,to drive home his point,what he couldn't say with his mouth so its easy pie for aisha to move in with ismaila when she had a standoff with her aunty about her relationship with ismaila.
The new couple made a big deal of their relationship to any who cared to notice,especially aisha's aunty.
Not long after,aisha got pregnant and gave birth at her home country of Togo,the plan was that,ismaila was supposed to go over and meet with aisha's family,pay the bride price and return with her to Nigeria in grand style.
Ismaila refused to go,aisha who changed her name and converted to islam cos of the love she has for ismaila and to further cement her position with ismaila's family waited alongside her now angry family who at one point wanted to use special"effect"to cause him to come meet them.
To this,aisha objected and the waiting continued,after six months and no ismaila in sight,they gave her t/fare and ushered her into a bus headed for Nigetia.
On getting to Nigeria,she is welcomed and life continued,along the line she was advised by her friends upon asking to tell ismaila to take her go visit his mother in katsina.he blatantly refused saying the only time they will go will be to settle there.
On many occassion,she tried saving money,once ismaila finds out,he will device a means to borrow every kobo and when aisha ask him to pay back,he would say"where did she get the money from,if not his own"
Aisha was desperate to maintain the peace would desist from asking him further.even though she is an hair stylist and skilled at the art of pedicure and manicure,she is prevented from working by ismaila.
He is quick to say that men will come chasing after her should she go out to work.he is scared stiff of losing her but won't do what will make her happy,he deliberely ensures she depends on him for every kobo whilst playing money games with her.
Every time aisha advise's him on saving so as to build some reserve to get an apartment outside ikoyi as they currently reside in one of those FG house's in ikoyi;he flies into tantrum's asking if she want's to control him.reminding her that any woman can't tell him what to do.
Recently there was a baby contest that held at ikeja;her baby represented eti osa cos her baby is so cute and chubby though her baby did not win cos of politic's played by some inner circle members.she had one hell of a hard time convincing him to let the baby go contest,he agreed at the 11th hour albeit half hearted.
She is presently pregnant with their second child,she decided to presure him once more to go pay her bride price citing her second pregnancy,he exploded,telling her he won't pay a dime on her head.
She then questioned him if he did not pay the bride price on his first child's mother;who was actually his elder brother's wife,he inherited her upon his brother's death.she later fled to saudi arabia with the first son and only returned him last year after getting married to another man.
Yesterday she cried so much,regreting ever getting pregnant for him at all.
She even took some drugs to terminate the pregnancy.
She reported to her mother way back in Togo who was so incensed and swore to deal with ismaila via "special effects" cos aisha's uncle is a spirit medium.
What should aisha do?get out or stay and hope things will improve?
Re: A Man's Coldheartedness;after She Converted To His Religion...... by james1(m): 11:06pm On Sep 29, 2012
....Update....aisha is carrying the pregnancy as the drugs she took did not give the desired result.
Re: A Man's Coldheartedness;after She Converted To His Religion...... by braveheart2012(m): 12:18am On Oct 01, 2012
Aisha is a stu.pid woman. She deserves whatever has come her way! Next time, she'll remember to close her legs.
Re: A Man's Coldheartedness;after She Converted To His Religion...... by james1(m): 1:25pm On Oct 05, 2012
braveheart2012: Aisha is a stu.pid woman. She deserves whatever has come her way! Next time, she'll remember to close her legs.
...The crazy things many women do when in love or when they got little choice and have given up on themselves is amazing.

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