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Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 1:14am On Sep 29, 2012 |
Brothers and sisters,Christians alike let's talk about waiting till marriage before having sex.How do you react when your with your partner?Do you kiss,hold hands or touch each other?Or all that will be done after the wedding day?Let's all be honest |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 4:45am On Sep 29, 2012 |
If you are not intimate - how about if you get stuck with an impotent man? With no functioning pe,nis? 1 Like |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 5:38am On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi: If you are not intimate - how about if you get stuck with an impotent man? With no functioning pe,nis?Is there such a thing? |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 6:12am On Sep 29, 2012 |
Sorry - you are a child. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by ATMC(f): 6:37am On Sep 29, 2012 |
Its a matter of choice, but abstinence isn't easy at all at all |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by manmustwac(m): 7:16am On Sep 29, 2012 |
Abstinence is not easy. The human body did not evolve to be abstinate. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 7:50am On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi: Sorry - you are a child.M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 11:53am On Sep 29, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it Ok - I was shocked when you were asking about impotent men and impotency. Anyways my tactic is this: I won't go into a relationship until I see or hear from God about the person. I'm unwilling to waste the little time that I have left. If I close my eyes to pray in the first two weeks while we are dating and I don't see or hear from God. You will be dumped. Simple. Not wasting time and not seeking temptation. I wan marry. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 11:54am On Sep 29, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: M no child but m practising abstinence and Man its flipping hard,Married christians please tell us how u did it Ok - I was shocked when you were asking about impotent men and impotency. Anyways my tactic is this: I won't go into a relationship until I see or hear from God about the person. I'm unwilling to waste the little time that I have left. If I close my eyes to pray in the first two weeks while we are dating and I don't see or hear from God. You will be dumped. Simple. Not wasting time and not seeking temptation. I wan marry. Might not be the right approach but its better to be safe than sorry. I've heard stories of people getting se,xually transmitted diseases before they find "the one." I'm not looking for wahala. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by chrisevans(m): 12:49pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 12:56pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit pls Dear Chris, I recently started working on my spirituality after years of not caring. God speaks to people in various ways. For me especially, thru dreams. For you, it might be different. Everyone has a different interpretation of who or what God is. To hear from him, you must be willing to hear When you hear, listen and be attentive It depends - for various people its different how God choose to speak with them. If you don't pray, you may not hear. Prayer is key. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by chrisevans(m): 1:12pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
ppl have 'heard' from God, still got stuck in a bad marriage and eventually get divorced.. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by OmoAlata(f): 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the church 1 Like |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 3:14pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
Omo Alata: I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the church True story. This is a reality for many people. Many impotent men hide under "God said" I suggest you try the pe,nis before you ever proceed into marriage. To all the ladies beware of impotent men, men with low sperm count, no sperm. Make sure your man is sexually healthy before you move forward. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 6:27pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi:So tell us,how do we get to do that? Omo Alata: I know a lady (personally know this lady) who waited until after marriage. A white wedding with all the thrills etc. Anyway, on the wedding night, it was a no-show O as the man could not 'do'. The lady ran back to the pastor the next day to divorce them. The pastor said till death do you part so the lady quit the churchhehehe y did the sister run sha? chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit plsGod speaks to me through dreams too but about other things not my mr perfect.If I say its about the man I love trust me,iv dreamed of all my exes before I received Christ,I now don't even like the sound of dreams wen it comes to relationships chrisevans: how do you see or hear from God? be explicit plsSo u wanna marry?well where is Ms right? |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by OmoAlata(f): 9:35pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: hehehe y did the sister run sha? We told her it was for better for worse but she said No way |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 9:40pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi: [size=13pt] why not pray first that God shows you rather than going on a date first before asking God [/size] 4 Likes |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 9:42pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi: [size=13pt] Dreams can be deceptive,you dream what you think about [/size] HumbledbYGrace: .If I say its about the man I love trust me,iv dreamed of all my exes before I received Christ,I now don't even like the sound of dreams wen it comes to relationships 1 Like |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 9:45pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
[size=13pt] @HumbledbYGrace why didnt you respond to my email request? [/size] |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 10:03pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
k2039: [size=13pt]hey,I thought I did,drop ur email here then sorry if u didn't get my reply Omo Alata:She was stupid |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 10:06pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
k2039:Not always..u mean if I think about u m absolutely gonna dream bwt u? |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 10:07pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: Brothers and sisters,Christians alike let's talk about waiting till marriage before having sex.How do you react when your with your partner?Do you kiss,hold hands or touch each other?Or all that will be done after the wedding day?Let's all be honest [size=13pt] I wish I could answer the question but I have never had a girlfriend On a serious note if I were to have I think I will kiss and hold her hands(but issue of touching is really something I cant really say,but am sure I'm not going to have se*x until my wedding night(I actually vowed to God,so am sure I wont)) But religiously speaking kissing makes me guilty of fornication [/size] |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 10:09pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
HumbledbYGrace: Not always..u mean if I think about u m absolutely gonna dream bwt u?[size=13pt] Their is a 1% chance of you thinking about me(1% in mathematics means it is very possible but unlikely) [/size] |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 10:09pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
[size=13pt] my email kolawoletoluwalase@yahoo.com [/size] |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 10:13pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
k2039:Ok,cool but I don't think kissing is fornication but hey I don't trust myself so ur right better safe than sorry k2039:Ok m not thinking about u,how's that? k2039: [size=13pt]are u on Yahoo Messenger? |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by obowunmi(m): 11:14pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
k2039: Good question. I've gone on dates and God reveals that the person is not the one thru dreams. I never relied on "God" - and I always dated all sorts of women and women are attracted to me. But I no longer want to rely on beautiful women because beauty and sex don't sustain marriage. I don't see anything wrong with dating as many women as you desire. Marriage however, I believe is a different matter. |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 11:19pm On Sep 29, 2012 |
obowunmi:Say wat?are you serious?My question awaits ur answer |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by plappville(f): 12:00am On Sep 30, 2012 |
k2039: Your type are very few in the body of Christ. If what is up there is true, You have the fear of God bro... |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by Callotti: 12:16am On Sep 30, 2012 |
Mary the mother of 'Jesus' waited till she was married. . .but ended up being impregnated by another 'man' in form of the HOLY GHOST'S, AUSPICIOUS, EKITI-BLOKOS! What is YOUR point? |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by plappville(f): 12:23am On Sep 30, 2012 |
@thread, i found Christ some years after i got married so i didnt have same experience as you. But as a Christian, if you and ur partner are true believers, you will definately abstain. Kissing can be very tempting, if you do not trust it. Its better to avoid it. But nothing is wrong in holding hands. You will need God to help you through this period.seek him more. I do not see why people say its hard to abstain. I believe Its just a thing of the mind. Apart from been a Christian. Its safer and proper to Abstain. Do not be decieved with the "Impotent" issue, if you have doubt and want to be sure you can asked for medical reports. This is how Brothers in the churuc decieve sisters. I want to be sure you are not a baren !! Before you know it, secret abortion is done. Under the eyes of God. So rampant out there !! |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by k2039: 1:43am On Sep 30, 2012 |
obowunmi:[size=13pt]It has a lot to do with the future,only God knows the future,I agree totally[/size] obowunmi: I don't see anything wrong with dating as many women as you desire. Marriage however, I believe is a different matter. [size=13pt]I beleive when you date a girl you leading her on and to me thats not fair(I maybe wrong but thats what I think) [/size] |
Re: Waiting Till Marriage by HumbledbYGrace(f): 5:22am On Sep 30, 2012 |
plappville: @thread, i found Christ some years after i got married so i didnt have same experience as you. But as a Christian, if you and ur partner are true believers, you will definately abstain. Kissing can be very tempting, if you do not trust it. Its better to avoid it. But nothing is wrong in holding hands. You will need God to help you through this period.seek him more. I do not see why people say its hard to abstain.Before I accepted Christ Lord knows I was crazy,I would date guys who I thought good for me then a lady who was older than me,who had expirienced life before and was a christian wrote a letter to a guy friend of mine,it was only addressed "" but the guy never read it,the sister wanted to lead the guy to Christ but the guy wanted a relationship.That's when the sister wrote the letter,I stumbled upon it by mistake and stole it,I wanted to meet her because her letter was my history,she had told the guy how she grew up and how it was before she accepted Christ. I got saved after talking to her,she set me down and I poured my heart out.She prayed we went to church together and one thing she told me was that "you know,you don't need a millionaire for a husband,you don't need a man in suits for a husband but what you need is a man Who is a born again Christian,with that his status don't matter.your safe if you choose one of those kind." I never looked back,I lost my worldly friends,even the guy stopped contacting me,it wasn't easy but I made through by his grace so I guess being this far with God,trials awaits but I have to keep the faith. 2 Likes |
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