WHAT MANNER OF HUSBAND ARE YOU?

How can your wife describe you? Below are few categories of husband:

(1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-knowledge, self-involved, unbending, unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him, nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He has no ...mentor. He does not fear, honor or respect anybody.

(2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot tempered and a wife beater. He is not in charge of his temper. He is a no-joke, no-play, no-laughter and no-nonsense man. He shouts and barks at home.

(3). Solo Husband- He stays in separate room away from his wife. He is a “single” married man. He prefers sharing his secret with friends; the only time he talks to his wife is when he needs food and sex.
He is self-centered; his common words are “I”, “me”, “mine” and “myself”. He is full of self-glorification, self-justification and stinginess.

(4). Semi-Husbands- They are not real husbands, they are men under their trouser but lesser than that in their duties at home. They are real men in bed and on the dining table; but when it gets to paying school fees they are nothing.

(6). Supermarket Husbands- These are the kind of husbands that are unfaithful to their wives. They are everybody's husband. To men like this, anything in skirt is good for a bedmate. They pay huge amount of money on hotel bills.

(7). Executive Husbands- These are the kind of men that live their lives in an executive way. They do not allow their wives to have any close relationship with them. They operate their rooms as if it is the general manager's office; no love, no romance and no intimacy. If their wives want to enter their rooms, they have to knock and obtain permission before coming in.

(. Traditional Husbands- They see their wives as properties. They believe women are third class citizens, useful only in the kitchen and bedroom. To them, a woman is just a cook, a tool of pleasure (sex) and baby making machine.

(9). Baby Husbands- They are not under-aged men physically, but they are infant mentally. They know how to build a house but not how to make a home.

If you want to know baby husbands look for the following:

• He keeps malice with his wife
• He rejects food because he is angry
• He beats his wife
• He reports his wife to friends and family members
• He keeps a separate room from his wife.
• He embarrasses his wife publicly
• He calls his wife goat, animal, fool, etc.
• He loves his mother more than his wife
• May refuse to give house-keeping allowance because of a little misunderstanding
• Can never be influenced by his wife
• He is a contentious husband, he nags.
• Will never pray with his wife
• Always find it difficult to say “I am sorry”.
• Will never help his wife with the baby.
• He threatens his wives with polygamy or divorce
• He criticizes, condemns and compares his wife with other women
• He does not love his wife, if he does; he will never say it, or demonstrate it.
• He leaves the house without anybody knowing where he has gone to.
• He gives no room for romance and intimacy. All he wants is sex.
• Gives no room for pre-intimacy before sex. He is just like a carpenter who has no emotion for the nail.
• He retaliates instead of rewarding
• Never does anything to improve his marriage. He will never read marriage books, attend seminar or go for counselling.

(10). Kingdom Husbands- They are extra-ordinary husbands; they are what God want them to be as husband. They know that their God is to be feared and worshiped, their wives are to be loved and their children are to be catered for. They are “real men”, men indeed; they are the SUNSHINE in the life of their wives and children.

- They are man of integrity: - They mean what they say; and say what they mean
- They do pray with and for their wives.
- They are faithful, loving and caring.
- They cherish and nourish their wives.
- They are good communicator.
- Apologize easily, forgive quickly.
- They lead their homes with wisdom

Kingdom Husbands – Traits of an Uncommon Hubby
1.God Fearing
2. Godly Character
3.Loves his wife
4.Respects and Honours
5.Good Communicator
6.Great Leader
7.Diligent
8.Romantic
9.He gives his Wife Peace
10.He is Committed to Marriage

This is not meant to abuse anybody, but for you to check yourself and try to be a better husband and father. The choice is yours...........


http://wholewomannetwork.org/2012/10/15/what-manner-of-husband-are-you-by-pastor-bimbo-odukoya/

WHAT MANNER OF HUSBAND ARE YOU?

What manner of man do you desire out of the above?

Good one, nice to focus on men for a change

Nice! Very nice and interesting. I think dis shd make d front page, at least for our men to evaluate and re-evaluate themselves.

lol nice writeup, the question is wat category do I belong....

A LOQUACIOUS AND BELLIGERENT ONE

make una answer d question na ? Na only coments we wan chop ? make una answer d question na ? Na only coments we wan chop ?

*Subscribing*

None of d above

11. FUTURE HUSBAND: #runs away

my cousin's husband was autocratic, corrosive solo and semi husband, all roll in one. He is now ex husband.

Among d nairaland members l am d only one dat belongs to d category of kingdom husband(last classificatn). ladies! Follow me.

Just checking the one that fit.

@ op what type of Husband are you first

numbers 1 & 2

#teamnocomments, lol!

for all ur comparisons, they seem 2 b all baby husbands except ur kingdom husband whom i suppose will b thrown down by zeus 4rm mount olympus mayb if u work hard enough 2 b half a kingdom wife.

Ama kingdom husband baby, ur one n only true friend

Its truly sad to note that there are men like this. One begin to question their upbringing and mental state.

Just like Nggold's cousin, my ex was 1,2,3,4 rolled into one. Jeez! That man scared the sh!t out of me. I can begin to state countless things the guy did, but I'm thankful its all in d past. How a human begin can be like that beats me...

Women, should try and stay away from men like that, they are unchanging, they unleash your negative side, cos when in a relationship with such people, you are forever fighting. Your silence will be interpreted for planning a come-back, you wanting to make peace will be misinterpreted for something devilish and so on, and worst still they send ur self-confidence to hell...I"v seen it all with men like that...



P.s: Most Sagittarian men are like that....speaking from experience. My ex, my male frnd and my present boss(ex-Nov 27, Boss Nov 29, my frnd Dec 3rd)

dis's marvelous! though non of d above sha

Kingdom husband . But that sounds like Jehovah Witness

am the loving,caring,and down to earth husband that any woman ever dreamt of.........

if you want me contact me 080268329xx

Based on d op classifications, I can boldly & confidently says dat I'm a KINGDOM HUSBAND. Dat is why after 8yrs of marriage & having two wounderful kids, I still look at my wife as my best friend & my confidant, she too feels d same way about me.
Even our romance (sex life) has been hot like in d beginning days.
Waoh, I'm really feeling so proud of my marriage.

While I'm sure this was written to be a source of encouragement to both men and women, I find that it is wide off the mark.

Firstly, I'm never impressed whenever I see the term "real men" or "real women" for that matter, being used. I understand it is used metaphorically, but it is very condescending, and the people that use it mean for it to be condescending.

Now on to my main gripe, the article has listed 10 types of husbands, only 1 of which is good! This must be very discouraging to women and is certainly very denigrating to men.

I always think that teachings to single people should focus on four quadrants:
- For the woman: (1) how to be a good woman/(2) how to identify a good man
- For the man: (3) how to be a good man/ (4) how to identify a good woman

Without the right focus on each of these quadrants, we will continue to have many women (some of whom have not learnt how to be good women) chasing after a few good men and vice versa (although not in the same proportion).

Don't get me wrong, I have witnessed all four quadrants beng taught, but what I getting at is that the focus is overwhelmingly on quadrant (2) and to a lesser extent, on quadrant (4).

We can't keep teaching women how to find a good man without focussing on the production line of those good men and vice versa. It's leaving too many people searching in vain!

BTW, I'm category 10 - Kingdom Husband!

Kingdom husband, warri no dey carry last. We warri guys we good care of our woman.

Hubby oya come ansa oo.

Married and dating ladies are in the best position to clasify their men...If you know what i mean. Although sincere men will always say the truth. Ladies, I hope and pray God will give you a kingdom man, marriage is not meant to be endured but enjoyed, ensure you make your choice wisely. I hate men that beat their wives, infact i consider them lesser men-boys in men's body. My wife is not complaining about me though, and i believe that if we are giving a second chance to marry, she will chose me as much as i will chose her. The thing is fun for us o.

I possess traits of husbands 1 to 9 and my wife is loving it.

All men falls under 5 catergory, some start as Kingdom husband wen love still dey shark dem, as d number of children increases, they move to diff category. But their wife still love dem as bad as dey are

tiniyata:


(10). Kingdom Husbands- They are extra-ordinary husbands; they are what God want them to be as husband. They know that their God is to be feared and worshiped, their wives are to be loved and their children are to be catered for. They are “real men”, men indeed; they are the SUNSHINE in the life of their wives and children.

I am pleased to say that THIS is MY husband

Thank God it made d frontpage, oya, men start answering d question now.

@op,let me answer 4 my hubby.
He is a kingdom husband.