Shapey, Long time jare. Hope all is finally well

I see what you are getting at with Leilah but I'm not sure if it's true as she's been with this brute for 3 years. I personally think she gets off on the beatings jare. Infact after 3 years shouldnt he have gotten his green card by now sef abi Leileh?

No! I don't mean to be painting a bad picture of nigerian! and yes, he has his green card nearly four years now ut he does nt have his citizenship! that is the one I woul dhave to vouch for (ie marrige is subsiding0 after that only God knows!

I do hope he doesn't know your on nairaland. Can you imagine what will happen if he finds out that you discuss your wahala on here? Pls be careful. I know you will leave when you've truly had enough!

Leilah dear,
I have read your many tales of woe on nairaland and I wonder if you really do enjoy being abused?
yes there's a Psychiatric state where abused women really do enjoy being brutalised.
You may need help,this is unnatural.

You are a beautiful women.
There are many men out there that would appreciate and love you.
You've got to tell yourself that you are worth loving and stop putting yourself in this pitiful situations.
Abuse is abuse is abuse
It doesn't hurt any more or less if the man were Igbo,Yoruba or from Islamabad
Call the police and let them lock up that son of a gun so you can have time to think straight.
Wake up and do it fast because you are not the only one at risk here.
I hear you have a child
Do you want her to grow up to be a spineless,sissy that can't stand on her own 2 feet.

Do you have friends in the real world?
what about parents and relatives?
Confide in someone and get out of that situation with the little dignity you have left
A word is enough for the wise.

you can email me privately at babyosisi@hotmail.com.
A lady should never put herself in this situation for anything whatsoever.
You are worth a whole lot more than your private parts and rectum.