RudySmith: No man should get a 2nd wife, that's like adding insults to injury, but let that wife know that u will b getting urself someone that can provide u with what she is/was suppose 2 provide.

RudySmith: ^^ If a man can no longer provide his wife with anything he was suppose 2 then hell yeah.

ileobatojo: Cool...It wouldn't be a long stretch of the imagination to think that one person cannot provide every single thing one wants abi. So if you are willing to let her know you will go fulfill the rest of those desires outside, then your wife should be able to simultaneously go fulfill hers at will without more preconditions than yours.

RudySmith:

That's where u r wrong/mistaking. People do get married bcuz the person they are dating fulfill all the requirements that they seek as a spouse. If during the course of the marriage these requirements are not met any longer, then drastic measure r 2 b taken in order to insure that this marriage lasts its course.

190-the-clown:

onila: Your hot

190-the-clown:



Date me

jidegirl12: Can Rudy please explain this thread to me in simple words please? I really can't comprehend ....it's very difficult to grasp mentally

Eriko; you said it all ... God bless you!

erico2k2: Getting a 2nd wife is rubish, if you think you are heading nowhere with the first get a divorce B4 jumping into marrying another full stop thats how it is in my book

onila: i wish but am busy-final year sturvs

190-the-clown:
I've been thinking - Why are Nigerian girls scared of 2nd wives/2nd girlfriends
A wise man once told me - spare the-rod spoil the-Nigerian girl but these days I've come 2understand that threatning and keeping to_ur word on getting a 2nd wife could actually keep the-nigerian women on their heels

Its like saying - Honey I'm getting a new wife cos u are slacking in bed or you're getting Fat or you're not cooking well enough - next thing na Village Meeting go hold for your head with your kinsmen begging you not 2marry another wife.

I was minding my business again today when I saw a large crowd of people gathered, I parked and strolled towards the-crowd only 2find a Nigerian woman rolling on the-ground- wrapper don comot from her body tey tey- her reason for drawing public attention is cos her husband wants 2marry another wife, I found it amazing- could this be a new way of excerising control over these stuborn set of women-

Guys how about we excerise this sort of control over our women- threaten them that we would get new girls each time they screw up or how una see am


Discuss

190-the-clown:
^Ooh oh help me ask dat fool called sexkillz he moved my belongings here

Wizee: u want mke him banned u abi?