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A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 28, 2012 |
By Bruno Waterfield, Brussels Last Updated: 2:02AM GMT 27/11/2012 A Belgian is seeking to have his marriage annulled after discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man. The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family's former au pair in a previous marriage, in 1993 despite legal difficulties raised by the Belgian immigration authorities. But it was only in recent weeks that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change. "I feel I've been assaulted," he told the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper. "I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway. I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits." Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth". "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said. For many years the couple lived a normal family life and Monica, 48, was like a "big sister" to his children until their marriage started to come under strain when she got a new full-time job. "Monica began to change very much," he said. "My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed. " Finally rumours began to surface and after Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer, he confronted her in a violent row that led to the police being called. "A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man. I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumours," he said. "I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. That evening came to blows. The police came." Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled but the Belgian courts have so far refused to allow him to turn her out of the familiy home. "That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated," said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer. www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/belgium/9703166/Belgian-discovers-his-wife-used-to-be-a-man-after-19-years.html |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 28, 2012 |
^What would you do if you were the one in the man's shoes? |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by lifestyle1(m): 3:33pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by YoursGEJ(m): 3:36pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
I'll sue him for damages...wallahi 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 3:36pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
I would NOT want my enemy to be in this. What?! They had "sex" and he did not notice anything? I need a minute to puke. 3 Likes |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by manny4life(m): 3:38pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
DAMN Hmm, for 19 years? Abeg, continue life as usual. 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Dygeasy(m): 3:38pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Too bad he discovered the hard way and I'm sorry for him truly... But me I have a question o... Whenever they are having s£x, will she be moaning "ooohhh" "ahhhh"? Will she be having orga$m? Where did her b¤¤bs come from? Abi na everything sugery fit do? 4 Likes |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by omenziate(m): 3:40pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Thank God I no get plan to marry oyibo, the babe I must marry gas pass thru serious morphological and physiological analysis before any "I do". Sorry oga, so na iron b dey jam iron since. Choi. 4 Likes |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Jesus Christ. 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by SirMethod: 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Ehm, I wld just let the woman be. Sometimes it hurts when the truth is told. He has been duped. lol |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Dygeasy(m): 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Yours GEJ,:HER |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by aglomar: 3:43pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
na wa o! |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 3:46pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Lol..... Fvckin an artificial hole 4 gud 19 yrs? God forbid! I will definately kill her at dat spot and kill myself. 3 Likes |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by david52: 3:46pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
waoh |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by david52: 3:47pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
very difficult to believe |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by dridowu: 3:47pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
19yrs of bleeping him/her, so where he con dy put dat tin |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
She........erm he get hole sha, Abi? |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits." Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth". "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said. [img]http://i.imgur.com/UPBvj.gif%5B/img%5D[/img] crime of the millenium ! 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Cutekid54: 3:49pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
i swear yawa go gas 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Dreyl(m): 3:49pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
This is a very serious caSe |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by david52: 3:51pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Cutekid54: i swear yawa go gashow the yawa go gas ? |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by ifyalways(f): 3:52pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Ol'boy,see levels 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by UnknownMember: 3:53pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
~Bluetooth: So do we call him a fagg0t?! |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by SirMethod: 3:53pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Dygeasy: HERIt! since neither him nor her is correct |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by AkinDavid2: 3:53pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
19 good years, Monica must be employed by CIA. haba! |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Kslib(m): 3:57pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
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Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by ESULAALU: 3:59pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Unknown Member: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE UNKNOWN |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by ESULAALU: 4:00pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
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Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by Chiemekaorizu(m): 4:03pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Mehn I must kill her. This would cause me a serious pyschological trauma if I were in the shoes of that man. 1 Like |
Re: A Belgian Discovers His Wife Used To Be A Man After 19 Years! by cheezkid(m): 4:03pm On Nov 28, 2012 |
Nawa o_4 oOyoinbo pple_ |
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