Source; www.mercyjohnson.com

"I recently did a HIV test which was required by my
Head Office at work. Due to the nature of my work,
it is required every 2 years. I found out three weeks
ago that I was HIV+. I went back and took another
test just to confirm and it still came back positive. At the moment, I am just cold, scared and angry. I
don’t even know what to do with myself. I have been
thinking of jumping off, if you understand what I
mean. I am angry because i feel that I brought it upon
myself. I had a fling with one of my coworkers which
lasted only for a week. I remember I did not use
protection on one of the days. My wife has been noticing my behavior and I have
been ignoring her. I have not summoned up enough
courage to tell her the news because I know that
she will also be HIV positive. I have been thinking long and hard on how to break
the news to her but the scared part of me is telling
me run. I really don’t know what to do. I am just
tired".

"Please advice me".

Mod. frontpage pls. This man needs our help

Tell her as soon as you find out!
She is a wife. . .not a girlfriend.
She is the only one who will stick with your when NO OTHER WILL. . .assuming she is INFECTED TOO!

Afterall, GOD invented the disease. . .not you!
You are only a messenger. . . or a carrier of a message.
I don't remember the last time ANYONE DIED OF HIV. . . ANY
It is not a death sentence sweerie!
Be brave. . .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LneSJAWfk1g

Although this is a difficult task but U̶̲̥̅̊'ll take †ђξ courage A̶̲̥̅̊Ώd̶̲̥̅̊ tell her cos she must knw about it

laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil?

Obinnau: laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil?

Check the source of the thread

Obinnau: laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil?

It's a pity how somebody will rejoice at another person's sorrows. You need to pipe down bro, it can happen to anybody. It is even possible that the man did not contact the virus from his co~worker, i'll suggest you go for ur own hiv test and know your status before laughing or making fun of another person.

lolz....@poster, just get ready cos many blind people will think u're the one

Its always so sad that 3mins pleasure can ruin someone's entire life.

Well, there's no hiding place you just have to summon courage and tell her.
Don't kill yourself with guilt. Not only through sex can someone get infected. Even vir*gins and babies could be carriers of the 'thing' (I don't want to use the word disease or sickness). Just realize it is your destiny.

Ako sile ti duro.

299: lolz....@poster, just get ready cos many blind people will think u're the one

As long as their comments helps the man who posted this on FB and mercyjohnson.com, it bother me less. Let's save a soul!

bengreat:

Check the source of the thread

ok i have seen it.

Obinnau: ok i have seen it.

You do river

hakunajay:

It's a pity how somebody will rejoice at another person's sorrows. You need to pipe down bro, it can happen to anybody. It is even possible that the man did not contact the virus from his co~worker, i'll suggest you go for ur own hiv test and know your status before laughing or making fun of another person.

bro sex outside of marriage z bad.

.

bengreat:

You do river

i didnt understand what u mean

[quote author=Obinnau]i didnt understand what u mean[/

I said, thank you very much for your understanding that this isn't bout me

I am partly caucasian please what is HIV

Cunninlingus: I am partly caucasian please what is HIV

It's the drug that cures early madness

bengreat:

Best answer @www.google.com

google sarcasm

Cunninlingus: google sarcasm

Onye ara cuco ciga

Oh! Im so sorry 4 d person, to tell d wife is very important and d approach to use is not all dt difficult...............
First arrange it with d doctor to pretend as if he had not done d HIV test before, so d doctor will have to prepare for both pre and post test counselling, after which he will tell d wife that, he feels they should know their HIV status, which will be declared to both of them after d conduct of d test, with that, d wife is already aware of their HIV status without any problem springing out from anyone of them.
Goodluck!

I saw on CNN yesterday a story on how HIV is being criminalized i.e those who do not conceal their HIV status(infected parties) to their partners or prior to intercourse will recieve a jail term and be marked as sex-offenders. I think Nigeria is long overdue for this.

Mod pls take this thread to the front page.

Kobojunkie: I saw on CNN yesterday a story on how HIV is being criminalized i.e those who do not conceal their HIV status(infected parties) to their partners or prior to intercourse will recieve a jail term and be marked as sex-offenders. I think Nigeria is long overdue for this.

You are very correct

The guy thinks he got infected by the co-worker but truth be told, he might have gotten infected through his wife as she could be cheating as well.

I know this is far-fetched, but the first thing he should do is to confront the co-worker on her HIV status as she's bound to know (shey its mandatory that workers in coy do the HIV test every 2 years). The risk here is that the co-worker might be uninfected, which means another party knows his status, but if it occurs this way, the discussion with his wife would take another dimension.
But if the co-worker is +ve (I.e. She infected him), he should come clean to his wife and save their children from getting accidentally infected.

If I know the wife, I go advice am to go get lawyer. If she has been infected, she needs to sue her 'husband' kia moza . . . Na marriage e suppose be, no be death sentence.

Kobojunkie: If I know the wife, I go advice am to go get lawyer. If she has been infected, she needs to sue her 'husband' kia moza . . . Na marriage e suppose be, no be death sentence.

the thing tire person ooo

Adultery is a killer! Adultery is a grave yard! Adultery is a mocker! Adultery is a sinker! This is exactly the reason why some single ladies fear to enter marriage. Fortunately, some men are very faithful. I just pray that the wife is negative. That is why every sensible woman who has a cheating husband avoids having unprotected sex with him. Condoms are not even 100percent certified. Some women zip up entirely for the fear of this deadly virus. Let the man meet a man of God that will acompany him to his wife because the wife may not take this lightly if she has been faithful to the man. The man just gave his wife a death certificate. He selfishly murdered his wife all because he couldn't control his urge. What will happen to their children? Tufia!