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"Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 3:52pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Source; www.mercyjohnson.com "I recently did a HIV test which was required by my Head Office at work. Due to the nature of my work, it is required every 2 years. I found out three weeks ago that I was HIV+. I went back and took another test just to confirm and it still came back positive. At the moment, I am just cold, scared and angry. I don’t even know what to do with myself. I have been thinking of jumping off, if you understand what I mean. I am angry because i feel that I brought it upon myself. I had a fling with one of my coworkers which lasted only for a week. I remember I did not use protection on one of the days. My wife has been noticing my behavior and I have been ignoring her. I have not summoned up enough courage to tell her the news because I know that she will also be HIV positive. I have been thinking long and hard on how to break the news to her but the scared part of me is telling me run. I really don’t know what to do. I am just tired". "Please advice me". |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 3:57pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Mod. frontpage pls. This man needs our help |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Blazay(m): 4:07pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Tell her as soon as you find out! She is a wife. . .not a girlfriend. She is the only one who will stick with your when NO OTHER WILL. . .assuming she is INFECTED TOO! Afterall, GOD invented the disease. . .not you! You are only a messenger. . . or a carrier of a message. I don't remember the last time ANYONE DIED OF HIV. . . ANY It is not a death sentence sweerie! Be brave. . . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LneSJAWfk1g |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by ojophilip11: 4:10pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Although this is a difficult task but U̶̲̥̅̊'ll take †ђξ courage A̶̲̥̅̊Ώd̶̲̥̅̊ tell her cos she must knw about it |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Obinnau(m): 4:12pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil? |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Obinnau: laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil? Check the source of the thread |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by hakunajay(m): 4:27pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Obinnau: laugh wan kill me. When you were having that fling u no remember that aids z real? @ poster how much will u pay me to rewind the hands of time? Maybe 2 mil? It's a pity how somebody will rejoice at another person's sorrows. You need to pipe down bro, it can happen to anybody. It is even possible that the man did not contact the virus from his co~worker, i'll suggest you go for ur own hiv test and know your status before laughing or making fun of another person. 1 Like |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by 299: 4:31pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
lolz....@poster, just get ready cos many blind people will think u're the one |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by acidtalk: 4:33pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Its always so sad that 3mins pleasure can ruin someone's entire life. Well, there's no hiding place you just have to summon courage and tell her. Don't kill yourself with guilt. Not only through sex can someone get infected. Even vir*gins and babies could be carriers of the 'thing' (I don't want to use the word disease or sickness). Just realize it is your destiny. Ako sile ti duro. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
299: lolz....@poster, just get ready cos many blind people will think u're the one As long as their comments helps the man who posted this on FB and mercyjohnson.com, it bother me less. Let's save a soul! |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Obinnau(m): 4:42pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
bengreat:ok i have seen it. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Obinnau: ok i have seen it. You do river |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Obinnau(m): 4:44pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
hakunajay:bro sex outside of marriage z bad. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Obinnau(m): 4:45pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
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Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Obinnau(m): 4:46pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
bengreat:i didnt understand what u mean |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by goldfish80(m): 4:47pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
[quote author=Obinnau]i didnt understand what u mean[/ I said, thank you very much for your understanding that this isn't bout me |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Cunninlingus: 5:54pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
I am partly caucasian please what is HIV |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 6:40pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Cunninlingus: I am partly caucasian please what is HIV It's the drug that cures early madness 1 Like |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Cunninlingus: 6:43pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
bengreat:google sarcasm |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Cunninlingus: google sarcasm Onye ara cuco ciga |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by greatgod2012(f): 8:05pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Oh! Im so sorry 4 d person, to tell d wife is very important and d approach to use is not all dt difficult............... First arrange it with d doctor to pretend as if he had not done d HIV test before, so d doctor will have to prepare for both pre and post test counselling, after which he will tell d wife that, he feels they should know their HIV status, which will be declared to both of them after d conduct of d test, with that, d wife is already aware of their HIV status without any problem springing out from anyone of them. Goodluck! |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Kobojunkie: 8:09pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
I saw on CNN yesterday a story on how HIV is being criminalized i.e those who do not conceal their HIV status(infected parties) to their partners or prior to intercourse will recieve a jail term and be marked as sex-offenders. I think Nigeria is long overdue for this. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Mod pls take this thread to the front page. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 9:28pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: I saw on CNN yesterday a story on how HIV is being criminalized i.e those who do not conceal their HIV status(infected parties) to their partners or prior to intercourse will recieve a jail term and be marked as sex-offenders. I think Nigeria is long overdue for this. You are very correct |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by kokosheen(m): 10:57pm On Dec 08, 2012 |
The guy thinks he got infected by the co-worker but truth be told, he might have gotten infected through his wife as she could be cheating as well. I know this is far-fetched, but the first thing he should do is to confront the co-worker on her HIV status as she's bound to know (shey its mandatory that workers in coy do the HIV test every 2 years). The risk here is that the co-worker might be uninfected, which means another party knows his status, but if it occurs this way, the discussion with his wife would take another dimension. But if the co-worker is +ve (I.e. She infected him), he should come clean to his wife and save their children from getting accidentally infected. |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Kobojunkie: 3:59am On Dec 09, 2012 |
If I know the wife, I go advice am to go get lawyer. If she has been infected, she needs to sue her 'husband' kia moza . . . Na marriage e suppose be, no be death sentence. 1 Like |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Nobody: 6:20am On May 13, 2013 |
Kobojunkie: If I know the wife, I go advice am to go get lawyer. If she has been infected, she needs to sue her 'husband' kia moza . . . Na marriage e suppose be, no be death sentence. the thing tire person ooo |
Re: "Pls Help this man – "How should he tell his Wife That he his HIV Positive?" by Princesszoe: 12:12pm On May 13, 2013 |
Adultery is a killer! Adultery is a grave yard! Adultery is a mocker! Adultery is a sinker! This is exactly the reason why some single ladies fear to enter marriage. Fortunately, some men are very faithful. I just pray that the wife is negative. That is why every sensible woman who has a cheating husband avoids having unprotected sex with him. Condoms are not even 100percent certified. Some women zip up entirely for the fear of this deadly virus. Let the man meet a man of God that will acompany him to his wife because the wife may not take this lightly if she has been faithful to the man. The man just gave his wife a death certificate. He selfishly murdered his wife all because he couldn't control his urge. What will happen to their children? Tufia! |
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