With all the superficiality and pretense that is the order of the day especially among ladies of now are days, how do we pick out the real christian(I mean born again, because everyone is now a christian) ones that are going somewhere with their life?

Get close to them, by their character you shall know them.
You just need to watch them on a microscopic level.

k2039: Get close to them, by their character you shall know them.
You just need to watch them on a microscopic level.

How old are you? You wan use character/microscopic level ascertain good girl? Woman go show u pepper!!!

@ op, shouldn't this be in religious section?

It shouldn't be that difficult. 1.)By her testimony- every born again has a testimony of salvation: this is the point where an indivual decides to commit more to God. It could be when she answered an altar call or when she took a personal decision to either change or get more closer to God. If you probe her deeply, something or an event would have made her taken that decision for God. 2.)Her committment to God: this can be measured by church attendance and how she treats people generally. 3.) Her service to God: Either by registering and participating actively in church activities or willingly open to serving and helping others. 4.)Her Stand for purity: She can be a 100% in love with you but will not sleep with you no matter how much you try, she will actually try running away from you if you insist on S3x before marriage. Above all, she won't be perfect but you will see her make a lot of efforts in living according to bibilical principles and trying to attain perfection. Goodluck in your search bro as they come rare these days n make sure you are also one.

Don't go to church looking for 'real' Christian girls. They are not there. You don't need the exhortations of the pastor to do good or be a Christian. In the church there appears to be unreal tendency towards doing good. It should be a natural compulsion and unfortunately not too many church goers are there for salvation or to do good. Most of them are there for individual purposes. You should be able to encounter real Christian ladies in everyday activity. There is no special place that they congregate.

mrs flawless: It shouldn't be that difficult. 1.)By her testimony- every born again has a testimony of salvation: this is the point where an indivual decides to commit more to God. It could be when she answered an altar call or when she took a personal decision to either change or get more closer to God. If you probe her deeply, something or an event would have made her taken that decision for God. 2.)Her committment to God: this can be measured by church attendance and how she treats people generally. 3.) Her service to God: Either by registering and participating actively in church activities or willingly open to serving and helping others. 4.)Her Stand for purity: She can be a 100% in love with you but will not sleep with you no matter how much you try, she will actually try running away from you if you insist on S3x before marriage. Above all, she won't be perfect but you will see her make a lot of efforts in living according to bibilical principles and trying to attain perfection. Goodluck in your search bro as they come rare these days n make sure you are also one.

Very true!
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hope the op and cronies arent trying to target them for attack?

you want to derail their future?

just asking.

kITA TITA: Don't go to church looking for 'real' Christian girls. They are not there. You don't need the exhortations of the pastor to do good or be a Christian. In the church there appears to be unreal tendency towards doing good. It should be a natural compulsion and unfortunately not too many church goers are there for salvation or to do good. Most of them are there for individual purposes. You should be able to encounter real Christian ladies in everyday activity. There is no special place that they congregate.

Was there any mentioning of church. Ofcourse you can see them anywhere!

tpia1: hope the op and cronies arent trying to target them for attack?

you want to derail their future?

just asking.

Nothing like that! I want one for myself because I am one.

Goodluck to you!

mrs flawless: It shouldn't be that difficult. 1.)By her testimony- every born again has a testimony of salvation: this is the point where an indivual decides to commit more to God. It could be when she answered an altar call or when she took a personal decision to either change or get more closer to God. If you probe her deeply, something or an event would have made her taken that decision for God. 2.)Her committment to God: this can be measured by church attendance and how she treats people generally. 3.) Her service to God: Either by registering and participating actively in church activities or willingly open to serving and helping others. 4.)Her Stand for purity: She can be a 100% in love with you but will not sleep with you no matter how much you try, she will actually try running away from you if you insist on S3x before marriage. Above all, she won't be perfect but you will see her make a lot of efforts in living according to bibilical principles and trying to attain perfection. Goodluck in your search bro as they come rare these days n make sure you are also one.

I highlight the 2 i think were most important.

There ain't no such thing!
THEY ARE ALL PIRATED-COUNTERFEITS! Especially an AFRICAN ONE!
Just like the MEN!

Gimme an unbeliever ANY DAY, ANY TIME!

godman01: With all the superficiality and pretense that is the order of the day especially among ladies of now are days, how do we pick out the real christian(I mean born again, because everyone is now a christian) ones that are going somewhere with their life?

When you become a real born again man yourself, you will know the fake ones from the real ones. It takes one to know one and God is just enough to show you your wife.

k2039: Get close to them, by their character you shall know them.
You just need to watch them on a microscopic level.

By their fruits you shall know them

If you are truly born again, God will give you a born again sister if u ask him. If you are not then you are on your own, you cannot sow corn and expect to reap gold. God cannot be mocked, you get what you deserve

You need to really build up your communication line with Baba God via the Holy Spirit(am assuming you are really a born-again christian too) because only then can you hear and discern who is a real christian and besides, there is a specific christian girl custom made to suit you. I know it may sound difficult but you can actually hear from God concerning this but 1st build up your faith and have a habit(character) of listening and obeying Him.

Anything apart from this can land you in real hot water and even spell doom for your life! They are too many fakes out there.

smartmom: You need to really build up your communication line with Baba God via the Holy Spirit(am assuming you are really a born-again christian too) because only then can you hear and discern who is a real christian and besides, there is a specific christian girl custom made to suit you. I know it may sound difficult but you can actually hear from God concerning this but 1st build up your faith and have a habit(character) of listening and obeying Him.

Anything apart from this can land you in real hot water and even spell doom for your life! They are too many fakes out there.

So is there any reference in the Bible which says you only have a specific person. And do you know that if Adam did not accept Eve as his wife, God would have created another one for him.

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mrs flawless: It shouldn't be that difficult. 1.)By her testimony- every born again has a testimony of salvation: this is the point where an indivual decides to commit more to God. It could be when she answered an altar call or when she took a personal decision to either change or get more closer to God. If you probe her deeply, something or an event would have made her taken that decision for God. 2.)Her committment to God: this can be measured by church attendance and how she treats people generally. 3.) Her service to God: Either by registering and participating actively in church activities or willingly open to serving and helping others. 4.)Her Stand for purity: She can be a 100% in love with you but will not sleep with you no matter how much you try, she will actually try running away from you if you insist on S3x before marriage. Above all, she won't be perfect but you will see her make a lot of efforts in living according to bibilical principles and trying to attain perfection. Goodluck in your search bro as they come rare these days n make sure you are also one.

100% WRONG!!!

a) By her testimony? Anyone out there, and many do, can weave a "great" testimony . . . I mean as humans it is what we know how to do best . . . weave up a good story for the ears willing to hear it. ROFLMAO!!

b) How exactly do you think you can identify a Christian girl by her commitment to helping others? Are you joking? I have friends who are committed to helping others but are atheists. Will you label them Christians too?

c) By their service to God? You mean by what you seem them possibly pretending to do for God? OH please!!!

d) Her stand for purity? HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! You remind of of the many "Sisters in the Lord" I bunked with back in my university days in Nigeria. There are so many who claim or pretend to be pure but are not. Even atheists do believe in no sex before marriage . . .it happens in most every religion, culture etc out there so why attribute that to Christianity?

Abeg, if you no get better talk, ,make you no come disgrace Christianity for here.

@Poster, the Bible says that by their fruit you shall know them . . . and it also says that NO MAN can know the heart of another man. So rather than going out there to look for a "Real" Christian gal, why not spend that energy making sure YOU are a good Christian fellow that so God himself will do the searching for a "Real" Christian girl for you and bring her to you. Too many of you Nigerian Christians spend too much time trying to tell what is the heart of another, rather than focusing that energy instead on making sure YOU are walking upright yourself. That is why there are churches at every corner . . . everyone wants to preach to others but not too many want to sit quiet and evaluate self.