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Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
coogar: Now thats what am talking about! but wait o, sometims the hand and mouth dont really acheive much like that o. Did u try the other h.ole? |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
^^^ vikin you're hilarious OP clinically it's 6 weeks but that 6th week doctor's visit happened to be be when those stitches are removed from my incisions..... hence part 2 of my misery ..... it depends on individual and their strengths ..... I'd say 3 months then the baby would start sleeping thru the night and the body will be back in shape ..... cooger's just bluffing ! what new mom will give you a BJ when she'll be busy siphoning mucus out of the baby's nose |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by overdrive(m): 9:38pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
@ileobatojo pls what is lochia? @ileobatojo pls what is lochia? |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
overdrive: @ileobatojo pls what is lochia? @ileobatojo pls what is lochia? It means the integral part of the vege vege. Next question! |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
overdrive: @ileobatojo pls what is lochia? @ileobatojo pls what is lochia? Lochia is just expelled material from the uterus after birth. Just the body cleaning out all the yama yama remaining in the womb from the childbirth process. So it comes out through the vagina. It starts out as bright red blood for a few days or weeks, then turns brown and turns to white discharge before it disappears. All women who have had a baby will have lochia. It's usually all gone by 6 weeks after delivery. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 11:29pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Vikin: Hey u dis gal, u have my sides aching kai! ileobatojo: Eoowww yucky still hate that phase but thanks for educating the ignorant ones. It can linger longer at times sha |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 11:39pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
jidegirl12: ^^^ vikin you're hilarious Yes O I feel ur pain too. I had stitches for all 4 kids and it was worse for me than the labour itself I tell u. But like in the article I mentioned above suggested, lovemaking it not only the actual act, TLC is an integral part needed and if a man can smooch his wife she may oblige him and go d extra mile as in 'outercourse' as mentioned |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
smartmom: Lol @ the phrase. Just tried to use words everyone understands. And you are right, it can last longer in some people but the usual time frame is what I mentioned. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
smartmom: You guys are making me scared o, just to think that i have passed a phase, more difficult ones keep coming. I miss my single life o. Chai! |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by seasonedmom: 11:50pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Vikin: Come on gal, u are more than able to cope. Chin up, u come fully equipped to cope. You will see, u will soon be advising d younger generations and be nodding ya head with d wisdom of experience. I shall pm u someday soon with some vital 1st birth advice. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 11:55pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Vikin: No worry me dear. My deliveries were virtually painless and pretty short and not drug assisted. I shall share with u some of the experiences. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 12:09am On Jan 03, 2013 |
i will try. Lord, pls in next world, let the Men carry the weight of child birth while we women be the bread winners and also make our hubby to work and support us. Amen! 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by dayokanu(m): 12:13am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Hmmm Na wa ooooo 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 12:34am On Jan 03, 2013 |
na wah for some men - don't people know that each woman is different. I know women who have had serious tears and 6 months they have still not done anything. as for CS - its took me 5 months to recover so what is with this 6 week figure people are banding around here. some people are ready after 6 weeks some after 9 months - this is not really something people should be having e-fights over. na wah - i wonder when people say "in sickness and in health" they really mean it |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by ik121: 3:26am On Jan 03, 2013 |
I hd it wif my wife two days after my son's delivry, tho wit cd shaa... And nfana ibaga |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 7:24am On Jan 03, 2013 |
some men cant even wait for 6weeks, dey wil start frowning, causing troubles, nagging n snapping @ every little thing |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by RoyalRoy(m): 7:40am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Yuk-yuk-yuk. To think of "hammering" a woman after child birth sounds "somehow" to me. I guess it will take me almost a year or some serious persuasion from her to start the horse ride. Having all sort of "mental stress" thinking of it sef. I trust my "johnny" he won't even come for the party.....proud and corky thing.....norrin do u!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 7:45am On Jan 03, 2013 |
coogar:if she's the one dat want the se.x, will u reject it? |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:33am On Jan 03, 2013 |
smartmom: Smartmom, Please do take time to share your childbirth experiences; I'm quite interested. Thanks! |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jan 03, 2013 |
Vikin: |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 1:48pm On Jan 03, 2013 |
ferhyntorlah: I shall oblige asap. Its a bit lengthy read sha. It centres on faith and strenght of mind over body. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by pyyxxaro: 8:55am On Jan 04, 2013 |
Vikin: ALL THE SOAP FOR DAT HOUSE GO DON FINISH !!! PLS DONT TRY TETMOSOL or SODA |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 9:46am On Jan 04, 2013 |
Once the lochia thing is gone,Am ready to resume intimacy.As for the stiches,I basically bleep them off.Painful yes,but not so bad.The stitches that won't be bleeped off will have to be loosened manually by hubby.We no fit wait unecessarily abeg but we dey take am small small. Though I have heard of pelvic bone dislocation due to pressure.A friend of mine had to use crutches 2weeks after birth because she continued her usual household chores a day after delivery.I limped for a while after my second baby,probably because of his high birth weight.Maybe early resumption of intimacy can still cause a pelvic dislocation. I ll advice new moms to wait for a minimum of three months and maximum of 3months +,the rest of the waiting is at your own risk.I don't suscribe to long waiting except in cases of complications after birth.Some women mischeviously indulge in this long waiting in a bid to punish their husbands for previous grievances not knowing that the easiest way to introduce the devil into your marriage is to intentionally starve him of his conjugal right.Resume as soon as your body resumes. 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 9:51am On Jan 04, 2013 |
Vikin: i will try. Am really looking forward to this amazing new world. 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 04, 2013 |
I choose to wait for good 2months before I go near her(my wife) again. |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by slimyem: 11:06am On Jan 04, 2013 |
ik121: I hd it wif my wife two days after my son's delivry, tho wit cd shaa... And nfana ibagaThis is a joke...right? |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 04, 2013 |
slimyem: This is a joke...right?It must be |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by somebody(f): 11:16am On Jan 04, 2013 |
This shouldn't be a topic of debate. It should be when the Doctor advises it is safe. When I was leaving the hospital, it was among the do's and don'ts after discharge. Wait 6 weeks and if it doesn't feel right, come back to the hospital. It seems like in Nigeria, it is guess work - I see no reason why a doctor would not advise the couple as it seems a lot of people use guesswork to determine when to resume their sex life. 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by Bawss1(m): 9:19pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Goodness. Lochia?! Thank heavens I'm a man. All the stuff women have to go through. Yuck! |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 10:35pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
Bawss1: Goodness.Yeah yeah its ok for u to say yuck to lochia, no worry u hear 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by smartmom(f): 10:40pm On Jan 05, 2013 |
byvan: Once the lochia thing is gone,Am ready to resume intimacy.As for the stiches,I basically bleep them off.Painful yes,but not so bad.The stitches that won't be bleeped off will have to be loosened manually by hubby.We no fit wait unecessarily abeg but we dey take am small small.Read th article here in childbirth :http://www.nigerianparentsforum.com/index.php/board,10.0.html Its enlighting and insightful 1 Like |
Re: When Should A Couple Resume Love Making After Delivery? by enaye1(f): 1:07pm On Jan 09, 2013 |
Yeah sensible women (and sensible hubbies too ) should be patient and grrraaaaadualy ease in to the love act for future sake pls. Listen to our body, it will dictate the date to you. 1 Like |
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