How can your wife describe you? Below are few
categories of husband:

(1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-
knowledge,�� self-involved, un bending,
unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him,
nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows
everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He
has no mentor. He does not fear, honor or respect
anybody. He doesn't want anybody to advise him
and he can not be influenced by anybody
especially his wife, who hardly knows his plan or
what he may do next. He is a difficult man to live
with.

(2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot
tempered and a wife beater. He is not in charge of
his temper. He is a no-joke, no-play, no-laughter
and no-nonsense man. He shouts and barks at
home. The house is a military camp; his room is a
defense headquarters, while he is the garrison
commander, lion of the family and commander in
chief of family forces.

(3). Solo Husband- He stays in separate room away
from his wife. He is a single married man. He
prefers sharing his secret with friends; the only
time he talks to his wife is when he needs food and
sex.
He is self-centered; his common words are me,
mine and myself. He is full of self-glorification,
self-justification and stinginess.

(4). Semi-Husbands- They are not real husbands,
they are men under their trouser but lesser than
that in their duties at home. They are real men in
bed and on the dining table; but when it gets to
paying school fees they are nothing. It is their
wives that pay the house rent, electricity bills, buy
food and provide generally for the family. It is not
that he is not working; it's just that he is a useless
man that will not provide for his own family. While
some are too lazy to work, others that have money
spend their money outside to the detriment of
peace in their homes. A semi-husband is a
disgrace, Proverbs 24:27, I Tim 5:8.

(5). Supermarket Husbands- These are the kind of
husbands that are unfaithful to their wives. They
are everybody's husband. They spend lavishly on
their girl friends, woman friends, prostitutes and
concubines outside; while giving little or nothing to
their household.
To men like this, anything in skirt is good for a
bedmate. They pay huge amount of money on
hotel bills. They are shameless to the extent that
they visit brothels for prostitute or park their cars in
the bush path to perform their ungodly act with
immoral ladies. Some even go to the extent of
impregnating their house-maids and sleeping with
their wives' younger sisters, Proverbs 7:1-27

(6). Executive Husbands- These are the kind of
men that live their lives in an executive way. They
do not allow their wives to have any close
relationship with them. They operate their rooms as
if it is the general manager's office; no love, no
romance and no intimacy.
If their wives want to enter their rooms, they have
to knock and obtain permission before coming in.
They do issue orders to their family members as if
to the workers under them and inform their families
about their plans as if addressing a press
conference; where no journalist is allowed to ask
any question.
Their wives can not easily talk to them, in fact; they
have to send their children to them before they can
get anything from them.
One thing that is common to most of them is that
most of them are business executives hence, they
use their office experience to the maximum at
home expecting everybody at home to follow suit.
They have little or no respect for their wives, if their
business is not going on fine, then the whole family
is in trouble. Many of them always want their wives
to be full-time house wives so that they can have
full control over them.

(7). Traditional Husbands- They see their wives as
properties. They believe women are third class
citizens, useful only in the kitchen and bedroom. To
them, a woman is just a cook, a tool of pleasure
(sex) and baby making machine.
They give no attention to their wives who they see
as somebody that is a little bit above their house-
maid. They believe that their younger ones living
with them are to be served by their wives, while
they are expected not to do anything at home.
Most of them are still using the style of their grand
fathers for their marriages. They believe a woman
must not enjoy sex; love must not be shown to
them, they must be beaten if they misbehave, if
she fails to give birth to a baby boy then she is a
failure. If they give birth to children who behave
poorly they belong to the wife, the one that behave
excellently belong to the father.

(. Baby Husbands- They are not under-aged men
physically, but they are infant mentally. They know
how to build a house but not how to make a home.
If you want to know baby husbands look for the
following:
• He keeps malice with his wife
• He rejects food because he is angry
• He beats his wife
• He reports his wife to friends and family members
• He keeps a separate room from his wife.
• He embarrasses his wife publicly
• He calls his wife goat, animal, fool, etc.
• He loves his mother more than his wife
• May refuse to give house-keeping allowance
because of a little misunderstanding
• Can never be influenced by his wife
• He is a contentious husband, he nags.
• Will never pray with his wife
• Always find it difficult to say “I am sorry�?.
• Will never help his wife with the baby.
• He threatens his wives with polygamy or divorce
• He criticizes, condemns and compares his wife
with other women
• He does not love his wife, if he does; he will never
say it, or demonstrate it.
• He leaves the house without anybody knowing
where he has gone to.
• He gives no room for romance and intimacy. All
he wants is sex.
• Gives no room for pre-intimacy before sex. He is just
like a carpenter who has no emotion for the nail.
• He retaliates instead of rewarding
• Never does anything to improve his marriage. He
will never read marriage books, attend seminar or
go for counseling.

(9). Kingdom Husbands- They are extra-ordinary
husbands; they are what God want them to be as
husband. They know that their God is to be feared
and worshipped, their wives are to be loved and
their children are to be catered for. They are “real
men�?, men indeed; they are the SUNSHINE in the
life of their wives and children.
- They are man of integrity: - They mean what they
say; and say what they mean
- They do pray with and for their wives.
- They are faithful, loving and caring.
- They cherish and nourish their wives.
- They have hostering i.e. they do listen to the
suggestion of their wives.
- They are good communicator.
- Apologize easily, forgive quickly.
- They lead their homes with wisdom
- They never retaliate, they rather reconcile.
- They do speak the truth in love.
- They provide for their family (1 Tim. 5:
- They stay in the same room with their wives.
- They “leave�? their parent and leave to their
wives.
- Their wives know how much they are earning.
- They are actively involved in child bearing,
rearing, discipline and parenting.
- They have ultimate respect for their wives.
- They do support their wives in the kitchen.
- They are close to their wives, full of honour and
they do play with their wives.
- They are skillful in the bedroom; meeting their
wives bedroom need.
Kingdom husbands are not common but God can
make you one of them, turning your home to a
place to be.

(10)Kingdom Husbands – Traits of an Uncommon
Hubby
Kingdom husbands are common men with
uncommon sense. Are you a great husband? Do
you want to be one? Do you want to be a husband
your wife will adore, honor and hero-worship? Then
all you just need to do is to develop the following
traits of uncommon husbands:

1.God Fearing: The first trait of a great husband is
the fear of the Lord. He fears the Lord enough to
obey His words. He fears the God enough to care
and provide for his wife. No husband can be a
wonderful husband expects he is God fearing man.

2. Godly Character: A great husband is of a man
with godly character. He is meek, gentle, caring,
loving, forgiving, supportive, wise and cautious. He
is not stingy but honest. He does not attend night
clubs, smoke or practice adultery.

3. Love: He loves his wife with all his heart and is
not ashamed to let anybody know. He expresses
love to his wife at any given opportunity.

4. Respects and Honors: When you see a man that
embarrasses his wife in the public, he is a total
failure as a man of valor. A great husband respects
and honors his wife and gives all glory to God.

5. Good Communication: A woman loves it when
her husband is talking and listening passionately to
her. A good husband is open to his wife. He speaks
the truth is love and is always positive in his
reactions to his wife.

6. Great Leader: He is never a boss but is a tender
lover. He knows how to make people follow him
without forcing them. He has vision, which he
shares with his family. He influences the family and
offers them good examples.

7. Diligent: A great husband is a worker; he is not
lazy. He puts his hands to work and makes bread
available to his family.

8. Romantic: He satisfies his Wife’s Bedroom
Desires. A great husband is romantic. He knows
how to make his wife enjoy him. He is tender,
patient and careful with the wife in the bedroom.
He knows that pre-intimacy is a must if a woman must
enjoy sex. Hence, he never rush the wife but brings
her up before any sexual act.

9. He gives His Wife Peace: The wife of a great
husband is always sad to see him travel because he
is a man of peace with no space for fighting, bitter
arguments, abuse, curse, shouting, malice,
bitterness, resentment, bickering and hatred. A
great husband has no time for all these. He is a
source of joy to his darling wife.

10. He is Committed to Marriage: He never
threatens his wife with beating, separation or
divorce but is ready to give his marriage anything it
takes to make it work. His wife is number one in his
life after God. His wife is his thinking partner,
friend, prayer partner, bed mate, and confidant!

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My God,pls give me no 10 kind of husband.Op seriously do you think no 10 is a Nigerian?
Going by what I read on nairaland no 1-9 have mentality of most Nigerian men.

Hmmmmmm i pray my number ten comes to reality ...amen

luvmijeje: My God,pls give me no 10 kind of husband.Op seriously do you think no 10 is a Nigerian?
Going by what I read on nairaland no 1-9 have mentality of most Nigerian men.

There are lots of No. 10's in Nigeria..... Me inclusive

luvmijeje: My God,pls give me no 10 kind of husband.Op seriously do you think no 10 is a Nigerian?
Going by what I read on nairaland no 1-9 have mentality of most Nigerian men.

you are a sweet,intelligent lady-you will easily attract the best crop of men.

dederocs:
you are a sweet,intelligent lady-you will easily attract the best crop of men.

10
we generally get what we seek
if u seek for any or one of the above u must get

WHERE R THE KINGDOM HUSBANDS??with 1-10 attributes.#googleSearch##

Desloaaa: WHERE R THE KINGDOM HUSBANDS??with 1-10 attributes.#googleSearch##

u dont even beleive to start with!
how can u get?
trust me people like that exist, well ill speak for myself , i posses these traits and more but am not perfect in practice of them all.
and u probaly dont belive these peps exist, beacuse ur not ready to reciprocate such love back

No husbands on NL. . . H-only BABY DADDIES. . .awaiting the much-needed paternity-testings from ALL PARTS OF AFRICA!

Dame Gambrosia: No husbands on NL. . . H-only BABY DADDIES. . .awaiting the much-needed paternity-testings from ALL PARTS OF AFRICA!

There are husbands on NL.....

Ijele-igbo:


There are husbands on NL.....

You mean the 'fake' INVISIBOOOO ones FOR SOME MGBEKES or the 'real' ones like mine?

Jellitah:

You mean the 'fake' INVISIBOOOO ones FOR SOME MGBEKES or the 'real' ones like mine?

Both!

Well. . . . both groups are absent, and for good reason. WHO WANNO ACT REALITY 'SHOW' AT HOME AND ONLINE. . . ?

*yawns*. . . .BORING CRAP!

I don't think I want my husband 'playing' in the same playground as mine o!
He is the KING OF ALL FACE BOOK ASHHHHAWOS. . . . I don't go there.
I don't expect to see him here either!

Jellitah: Well. . . .they are both groups are absent, and for good reason. WHO WANNO ACT REALITY 'SHOW' AT HOME AND ONLINE. . . ?
*yawns*. . . .BORING CRAP!
I don't think I want my husband 'playing' in the same playground as mine o!
He is the KING OF ALL FACE BOOK ASHHHHAWOS. . . . I don't go there.
I don't expect to see him here either!

No worries! Every flirting starts and end on FB/NL but he'll always be there for you @ home!

Ijele-igbo:


No worries! Every flirting starts and end on FB/NL but he'll always be there for you @ home!

Absolutely. . . but he is free to crawl, walk, run or fly at anytime. . . .JUST LIKE I AM!
I believe in OPEN-MARRIAGES!. . . . ABSOLUTE AND TOTAL PRIVACY AND FREEDOM. . . NO STRESS!!!

I don't have a husband that stays at home o! HE HAS VERRRRRY ACTIVE SOCIAL LIFE. . .OUTSIDE OF MINE AND VICE VERSA.

We only find it necessary to hook up in our old ages! I am looking forward to it! Till then. . . freeeeeeeeeedom ONLY.

My formula for a successful marriage is a 10/10/10 rule.


THE FIRST 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . .IS THE FOUNDATION PROCESS. . . you are together because you just got married TO LOVE AND FIGHT, HAVE YOUR KIDS AND BUILD UP YOUR MATRIMONIAL RESERVES.

THE NEXT 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . . IS THE VALIDATION PROCESS. . .you don't need to be together ALL THE DAMN TIME!Dammit! FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE TO MINGLE!!! YOU ARE BUILDING A FRIENDSHIP.

THE LAST 10 YEARS. . . IF YOU SURVIVE THE FIRST 20. . . IS THE CALCIFICATION PROCESS. THE MOST JOYOUS AND MOST FULFILLING. . . . NOW YOU KNOW FOR SURE WHY YOU ARE IN LOVE OR HATE!!!!

Jellitah:

Absolutely. . . but he is free to crawl, walk, run or fly at anytime. . . .JUST LIKE I AM!
I believe in OPEN-MARRIAGES!. . . . ABSOLUTE AND TOTAL PRIVACY AND FREEDOM. . . NO STRESS!!!

I don't have a husband that stays at home o! HE HAS VERRRRRY ACTIVE SOCIAL LIFE. . .OUTSIDE OF MINE AND VICE VERSA.

We only find it necessary to hook up in our old ages! I am looking forward to it! Till then. . . freeeeeeeeeedom ONLY.

My formula for a successful marriage is a 10/10/10 rule.


THE FIRST 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . .IS THE FOUNDATION PROCESS. . . you are together because you just got married TO LOVE AND FIGHT.

THE NEXT 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . . IS THE VALIDATION PROCESS. . .you don't need to be together ALL THE DAMN TIME!Dammit! FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE TO MINGLE!!! YOU ARE BUILDING A FRIENDSHIP

THE LAST 10 YEARS. . . IF YOU SURVIVE THE FIRST 20. . . IS THE CALCIFICATION PROCESS. THE MOST JOYOUS AND MOST FULFILLING. . . . NOW YOU KNOW FOR SURE WHY YOU ARE IN LOVE!!!!

Wow! Wonderful concept!! I love your 10/10/10 rule of marriage!!! Its really awesome........
I wish you continuous joyous life in your marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ijele-igbo:


Wow! Wonderful concept!! I love your 10/10/10 rule of marriage!!! Its really awesome........
I wish you continuous joyous life in your marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amen. . . thanks! IT IS WORKING FINE AND LIFE IS JUST SWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET!!!!

Jellitah:

Absolutely. . . but he is free to crawl, walk, run or fly at anytime. . . .JUST LIKE I AM!
I believe in OPEN-MARRIAGES!. . . . ABSOLUTE AND TOTAL PRIVACY AND FREEDOM. . . NO STRESS!!!

I don't have a husband that stays at home o! HE HAS VERRRRRY ACTIVE SOCIAL LIFE. . .OUTSIDE OF MINE AND VICE VERSA.

We only find it necessary to hook up in our old ages! I am looking forward to it! Till then. . . freeeeeeeeeedom ONLY.

My formula for a successful marriage is a 10/10/10 rule.


THE FIRST 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . .IS THE FOUNDATION PROCESS. . . you are together because you just got married TO LOVE AND FIGHT.

THE NEXT 10 YEARS TOGETHER. . . IS THE VALIDATION PROCESS. . .you don't need to be together ALL THE DAMN TIME!Dammit! FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE TO MINGLE!!! YOU ARE BUILDING A FRIENDSHIP.

THE LAST 10 YEARS. . . IF YOU SURVIVE THE FIRST 20. . . IS THE CALCIFICATION PROCESS. THE MOST JOYOUS AND MOST FULFILLING. . . . NOW YOU KNOW FOR SURE WHY YOU ARE IN LOVE OR HATE!!!!

walahi,if evrry woman lives on dis formula,Divorce/hypertension n stroke rates will reduce.

Desloaaa:

walahi,if evrry woman lives on dis formula,Divorce/hypertension n stroke rates will reduce.

And men too!
Everyone needs to get their own formula. . . no matter how wrong for their personality types. Religion and Tradition does not solve all problems. . . . . . . .sometimes 'common sense' is the easiest remedies to most life's challenges.

To those who practice 'I GO DIE' love. . . .Not my portion o!



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What a woman is will determine the husband she gets,so don't expect me to be good when m wife behaves like a saddist. Afterall bird of feather flock together.

luvmijeje: Going by what I read on nairaland no 1-9 have mentality of most Nigerian men.

same as the women and more too... A husband with number 1-9 mentality marries a woman with 1-9 mentality...what you see, is what you get..shikena

My hubby is well close to Nunber 10.
He is not everything listed in that number o, but very close to it.
I love it and him that way, no perfect person in this life.
Welldone.....olowoorimi.
Hhhhmmmmm
may God help us all.