Two women were discussing about this in a taxi but I was lucky not to be asked of my own opinion because I never had an answer.Come to think of it I think it is a problem but I want to be sure.I respect opinions of fellow NLders hence I ask what you think.
Thanks!

It could be both..
That its natural doesn't make it less of a problem.
No parent would be proud of a child bedwetting at age 13
Its indiscipline.

slimyem: It could be both..
That its natural doesn't make it less of a problem.
No parent would be proud of a child bedwetting at age 13
Its indiscipline.

I agree with you but 'indiscipline' huh!

waleadex:
I agree with you but 'indiscipline' huh!

yes, slimyem is absolutely right, its indiscipline......how can a 13yrs old child still be bedwetting.........indiscipline on d part of d parent and on d part of d child.
There are two types of bedwetting.....
1. Primary or natural bedwetting.
2. Secondary bedwetting.
When its primary, it means d child has never for once stopped bedwetting, regardless of d age, so, if d subject of this thread has never stopped bedwetting before, then its natural/primary.
Its secondary if d subject has stopped bedwetting for at least 6months before, only to start bedwettimg again........this is what we "africans" or let me say "yorubas" usually called "afise" ie unnatural or problematic bedwetting.
In d first case, it means d brain of d subject is growing slowly, ie, d level of his maturity is relatively lower than that of his/her peers.....or as a result of small bladder capacity.....in that case, d parent has work to do to help d child stop bedwetting.......like monitoring d child of his intake of liquids, after 6pm, let d child have his dinner by 6pm, with little liquid, and anytime after 7pm, no more liquid again, and d part of d parent is to ensure that they wake him up consistently, may be every 12am, 2am and 5am everyday, so that, his body system will get used to d time, and will have to wake by himself to ease himself.
In d secondary bedwetting, a doctor need to be consulted.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012:


yes, slimyem is absolutely right, its indiscipline......how can a 13yrs old child still be bedwetting.........indiscipline on d part of d parent and on d part of d child.
There are two types of bedwetting.....
1. Primary or natural bedwetting.
2. Secondary bedwetting.
When its primary, it means d child has never for once stopped bedwetting, regardless of d age, so, if d subject of this thread has never stopped bedwetting before, then its natural/primary.
Its secondary if d subject has stopped bedwetting for at least 6months before, only to start bedwettimg again........this is what we "africans" or let me say "yorubas" usually called "afise" ie unnatural or problematic bedwetting.
In d first case, it means d brain of d subject is growing slowly, ie, d level of his maturity is relatively lower than that of his/her peers.....or as a result of small bladder capacity.....in that case, d parent has work to do to help d child stop bedwetting.......like monitoring d child of his intake of liquids, after 6pm, let d child have his dinner by 6pm, with little liquid, and anytime after 7pm, no more liquid again, and d part of d parent is to ensure that they wake him up consistently, may be every 12am, 2am and 5am everyday, so that, his body system will get used to d time, and will have to wake by himself to ease himself.
In d secondary bedwetting, a doctor need to be consulted.
May God help us all.

Thank you!