Parents Constant Arguments Drives 12-Year-Old Boy To Commit Suicide.

A sad mood engulfed a village after a 12-year-old boy committed suicide by hanging himself last night.
It is said that the boy locked himself in his room after the parents argued at their house. He had earlier on complained to his friends that his dad always quarreled with his mother and he was not happy about his parents’ lifestyle.

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Yeah,its actually a terrible act for parents to constantly fight in the presence of their kids.this brings to my remembrance a story my dad jisted me some time back that he has a friend that whenever he quarrels with his wife,he wont eat her food that day.he will pick his cars keys and say oya children,lets go to mr biggs.he will eat there and spend sometime with his kids.whenever he comes home,he will totally ignore his wife and just sleep.anyway this rend continued for a while and after some time the kids noticed that daddy and mummy didn't quarell and one of his 5 year old kid asked daddy,daddy wont you fight with mummy so that we can go to mr biggs.the father just covered up by saying there will no longer be fight in this house again,that was when the father stopped that childish behaviour

hahahha so funny...Its indeed a childish behavior and some men are women but in men's skin

kulyie: Yeah,its actually a terrible act for parents to constantly fight in the presence of their kids.this brings to my remembrance a story my dad jisted me some time back that he has a friend that whenever he quarrels with his wife,he wont eat her food that day.he will pick his cars keys and say oya children,lets go to mr biggs.he will eat there and spend sometime with his kids.whenever he comes home,he will totally ignore his wife and just sleep.anyway this rend continued for a while and after some time the kids noticed that daddy and mummy didn't quarell and one of his 5 year old kid asked daddy,daddy wont you fight with mummy so that we can go to mr biggs.the father just covered up by saying there will no longer be fight in this house again,that was when the father stopped at childish behaviour

Its not even sane for any parents to be fighting in d presence of the children, its not good for their psychology at all, it leads to kids asking unanswerable questions, it makes kids unhappy. Initially,anytime me and hubby are playing and hugging, my kids start crying, we have to do everything to convince them that its just playing and not fighting, now, they are used to it, whenever we are playing now, they also join us.
It reminds me of a kid i heard of, he was just enrolled in primary school and when d teachers ask for his mother's name, he said...."oloriburuku" and for father's name, he said....."were", and d teacher asked why he mentioned those names, he said that is what they use to call each other, d parents were later called and counselled by d school authority and told them how they have negatively affected the kid's psychology......... I just hope parent know that our children are our mirror, our attitudes have a long way to reflect d type of attitude our kids will develop, most of d time, our kids grow up to be like us. Let us always be our children's good role models, by laying good examples for them to emulate always.
May God help us all.

"Initially,anytime me and hubby are playing and hugging, my kids start crying, we have to do everything to convince them that its just playing and not fighting, now, they are used to it, whenever we are playing now, they also join us".


@GreatGod,this got me laughing.The difference is that my kids will actually attack their dad,punching with their little fists and yelling.It took time for them to understand that its just play,now they join in,no more punching their dad.What baffles me is the fact they actually know that is the lady that need to be defended,if am hitting their dad and he calls on them for rescue,they will just burst out laughing.They are just toddlers but kids of these days.......

byvan: "Initially,anytime me and hubby are playing and hugging, my kids start crying, we have to do everything to convince them that its just playing and not fighting, now, they are used to it, whenever we are playing now, they also join us".


@GreatGod,this got me laughing.The difference is that my kids will actually attack their dad,punching with their little fists and yelling.It took time for them to understand that its just play,now they join in,no more punching their dad.What baffles me is the fact they actually know that is the lady that need to be defended,if am hitting their dad and he calls on them for rescue,they will just burst out laughing.They are just toddlers but kids of these days.......

actually, that is exactly how it is with us here, but now, when we start, its my first kid that will first say....."dad and mum have started again"......lol....sometimes, they may join us, sometimes, he will tell his younger ones to live us alone and that they should continue to enjoy their whatever they are doing at that time.....lol, kids of nowadays seem to be more mature than their ages, my sister, and that is one of d reasons why we have to be more careful when these kids are around us.
May God help us all.