My younger sister in Ghana always complain of her husband not been to show her love despite

his love for her.he is a Ghanaian and this even affecting their sex life,my sister[kim]has to plead with him make love to her.'please i need advice from you guys'.i don't want to advice her wrongly

Why did she marry him?  Did she not know that he was like that?

I am going to repeat it again for the umpteenth time.  If you are married and you do not know how to solve marital problems. . . you do not deserve to be married.

So this lady is not "womanly" enough to reach out to her husband?  Any "real" woman will never have a problem making her husband do what she wants. Unless she is daft!

As for me, all I need to do is to come up with a plan!  He will be an expert "dancer" by the time I finish with him!

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@Almondjoy

You always sound so sure of yourself. What might work for Mr. Almond might not work for other guys o

Problem could be that their biological clock are not working together. Situations where the guy wants it, and at that time she says she is not in the mood. When a girl gets rejected too many times, he conditions himself not to ask anymore. They now have it only when she is in the mood. Ivan Pavlov theory of conditioning

almondjoy,what kind of plan will u have for kim.i dont want her to end the marriage,pls i need advice now.thanks

Problem could be that their biological clock are not working together. Situations where the guy wants it, and at that time she says she is not in the mood. When a guy gets rejected too many times, he conditions himself not to ask anymore. They now have it only when she is in the mood. Ivan Pavlov theory of conditioning

Make she put viagra for the man food!

Dalby:

@Almondjoy

You always sound so sure of yourself. What might work for Mr. Almond might not work for other guys o

Of course I am ALWAYS sure of maself for the simple reason that I give ma all and if you show the slightest sign of unappreciation. . . .you are out the door.  I do not compromise ma happiness for any reason. Not when I have given it my all. One thing I can NEVER cater up to is emotional blackmail! You are not interested. . .please leave! Everyone needs to have some form of principles to live by. If you stick to them. . . you are always a winner. If you do not have any system or principles at all, you are finished!

I did not say she should use any other woman's formula.  All I suggested is to find "A" way to reach her husband. That is what smart people in any relationship or marriage do.  It is called "communication" simple!

pees:

almondjoy,what kind of plan will u have for kim.i don't want her to end the marriage,please i need advice now.thanks

Like I said, she knows her man better. . . .she just has to find "that way" to reach him. I use a different formula for mine since his "issues" are different from the issues you raised here has here!  Any real woman would know those secrets. . . unless she was not raised right and ripe enough for marriage!   No body has to advice a married woman how to handle her husband.  That is sheer weakness!  She will lose!

FIND ONE OR SEVERAL WAYS!  I watched ma parents well!

did she gain weight? does she have a bitchy attitude, does she nag too much? does she try to present herself as attractable.

she better get that victoria secrets lingerie and remind him why he married her

True talk, Almond Joy. Very well said.