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What Should The Husband Do? by amtheone(m): 1:54pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
In a situation where there is an issue between husband and wife and the husband wants to leave just to avoid more serious issues but the wife hold on to his clothe demanding that the man is not going anywhere. What should be the husband reaction? |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 2:01pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Carry her to bed and make love to her. 20 Likes |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by coogar: 2:07pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
amtheone: that's how they get physically abused and then scream blue murder after the deed is done. tell the husband to call her parents to come and collect their unruly daughter. the man should put his 2 hands in his pockets and wait..... |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by mystiqueDZ(f): 2:09pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:lmao...n get a kick on his groin? |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Jackeeh(m): 2:11pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Easier said than done. No worry, after the sex, problem still full ground remain |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by amtheone(m): 2:22pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
coogar: I'm still wondering why some women can cause so much trouble but pretend to be so innocent at the end of the day. I am of the opinion that most stories about how some husbands beat their wives are actually caused by the wives. 1 Like |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 2:24pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Jackeeh:Unah go lie down for bed discuss am, that time nobody go get strength for quarrel again 4 Likes |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 2:25pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
mystiqueDZ:Kick kee, women enjoy surprise sex pass anything. 3 Likes |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Jackeeh(m): 2:25pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1: U never jam be that. Even as u dey do sef, she go wan discuss that thing that time |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by coogar: 2:31pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
amtheone: one havard report actually said 70% of the domestic violence are initiated by women. most men love to remove themselves from incessant noisemaking but troublesome wives would lock his shirt or stand in his way so they can continue to throw verbal abuses at him. they hurt more when men don't give them the attention they crave. |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Drag out her hands out of your shirt and run off!!! Do all you can to walk away from a heated argument even if it is to forcefully remove her hands from your clothes! Run off like joseph in the bible running away from potiphar's wife. Most times, this dragging of shirts happens to men who dnt know how to sit down and communicate. So to avoid such episodes, learn how to communicate often. If you did something wrong, apologise and talk about it like adults. Do not allow everything degenerate to 'dragging of shirts' episodes. Women should also learn to communicate properly. they must not turn to drama queens. That dragging of shirt thing is totally disrespectful and they shouldnt cry foul if their husbands hit them. Pass across your message without so much drama. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Rapzino: 2:51pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:uncle uncle |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Aybee92(m): 2:56pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
use her learn boxing some women deserve dat just kiddin o try talk to her or as my bros suggest take her to d bedroom for some rounds |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by crackhaus: 3:14pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
amtheone:He should slap the bejesus out of her and take a walk - self defence... PS: It must be the kind of slap that renders her temporarily blind and confused so that by the time her sight and senses return, he would already be gone.. 2 Likes |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by amtheone(m): 3:20pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
coogar: But why do women(some) behave this way. I would like to hear from married women why this behaviour. |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by coogar: 3:28pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
amtheone: sambarry will be the best person to answer this question. she's mediated more than 300 spousal fights in the last 3 years. 1 Like |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by amtheone(m): 3:41pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
coogar: She must be a seasoned marriage councellor. Let me wait for her professional views. |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 3:41pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Rapzino: |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by coogar: 3:43pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
amtheone: she's well known. she's got her TV show in abidjan & ouagadougou. she's the equivalent of maury in the french speaking parts of west africa. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 3:44pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Jackeeh:Then you are not doing something right............ 1 Like |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by SAMBARRY: 4:10pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
coogar:I'm not a marriage counsellor but bad is bad . that woman's aggressive behaviour is nonsense but some men sef are worthless. Maybe he will collect salary and instead of him to drop money for the people at home he will carry it to the beer parlour and be forming serve them round or be spending the money on office or pepper soup joint prostitutes |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Correct. Howdy? |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by amtheone(m): 4:26pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: So coogar was just pulling ur legs. Anyway u have condemned the act. But despite the fact that women are aware that it is not good, why do they still engage in it? Are there no other peaceful means of resolving the issue without 'clothe holding'? Or they think that by allowing the man to leave will make them appear stupid? |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Its a common drama amongst irresponsible men sha. Like the story of a woman who found out that her husband was in a joint enjoying himself when he left them starving at home. she went there to cause kasala. That kind of drama fit these kind of men. Seriously men who are responsible and exude respect dnt go through such. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Tallesty1(m): 4:31pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by SAMBARRY: 4:36pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Like say he does what he's supposed to do at home she will be locking shirt on his neck. Which woman will insist the man should not go out when he has fulfilled his responsibilities at home. He won't say the full jist of the matter o. Sophyrocks: |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by SAMBARRY: 4:40pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Do you know whether she has prayed begged talked fasted etc and all civilized resolution skills have been exhausted. You don't know what a frustrated and angry woman looks like yes I know coogar was just pulling my legs. He's a funny man amtheone: |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by freecocoa(f): 4:52pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Do all you can to free yourself from the grip and walk away, please don't hit her while at it, the most important thing is to stop doing things that will push her that far, except you are married to a troublesome/mad woman, I don't see how she'd pick a fight for no reason. 1 Like |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Of course they wont mention what happened that led to it. Truthfully, there is no need for the drama if the couple involved communicate well. But you know some men dnt take confrontation well even when its in a civilised manner. They dnt like to be corrected. Because they have been caught in one act or another, you see them avoiding confrontation or communication. The guilt is usually too much for them to handle. So they always allow such matters degenerate to name calling and grabbing of shirts. Thats the problem. There would have no need for all that if they do the right thing in their marriages. Some men love drama i tell you. They dnt like peace. |
Re: What Should The Husband Do? by SAMBARRY: 4:54pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
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Re: What Should The Husband Do? by Nutase: 5:06pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
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