My fellow nairalanders

I just recently turned 20 and I've never felt so embarrassed in my life like the way I did on monday. I've been dating my girlfriend since last year october and monday was the first time we had sex.. My penis just went flat,was really weak, wasn't strong enough I felt like it was really small, wish I could cry didn't know what to do, felt like I didn't satisfy her. I was so embarassed I didn't know what to tell her. I had like a slight pain on the right side near my penis thought might have caused this idk. I haven't had sx in a long time, I don't mastubate much, when I do I probably do it twice or 3 times in a week and sometimes I take weeks not mastubating. I don't drink alcohol I don't smoke. I've recently joined the gym. I play street soccer with my buddies 2/3 times in a month. I've never really measured my penis but I know its pritty much big and long and can get the job done. What happened monday is really stressing me out, I seriously need help I know I'm not bad in bed and I want to get back to normal. Please help.

Its not a big deal since ur joystick didnt erect. Dats how it is somtimes. Such has also happened 2 a frnd of mine. Bt it was corrected wit som drugs. I guess u need 2 take som drugs which wil cause erection of ur penis and giv u strength 2 run d package and satisfy her completely.

Don't take any drugs. At our age and with the profile, you provided above, I doubt there's any serious problem. Besides, abstinence is good since you are unmarried