19 Things Every Female In Her 20’s Should Know (MUST READ)

1. Love and honor your mother. Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your thirties (30s) and beyond.

2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work or better grades at school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill.

3. Women can build a strong support network. Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from cultivating true relationship with your female friends.

4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from deceit.

5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble.

6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to wear your most priceless ornament- submission and humility. But while waiting for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue you. Some men these days are also seeking for who will rescue them.

7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a full-length mirror at least once a week, Unclad and after clothed. Know your body and how it works.

8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/ talents and skills. Start early.

9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty.

10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow- from how to keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network to how to drive a car.

11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.

12. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever forget that.

13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.

14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again and again. Don’t give up on education/ learning.

15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the carpet from under your feet. The Holy Books tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.

16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and regrets will stale your future.

17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low.

18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t compare yourself to others.

19. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and always have the courage to use your voice wisely. Dream big today. Fear simply means False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that come with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life to the fullest and don’t forget to smile always!

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I love this. A-ca-awesome! Thanks for sharing.

He who has an ear...

Caracta: I love this. A-ca-awesome! Thanks for sharing.

He who has an ear...

...Let him hear

will share with frieends

Every 20years old womens shoud know my addres. No. 1 Chief Yuzedo Street, off Mike Adenuga Avenue, off Aliko Dangote Road, Banana Island, Ikoyi, Lagos. press bell two times, and knock gate once... gentlyyyyy, i come and open for u..... i hav mony.

Nice piece of writing...

Oya na!

Wow!(Nt MTN "wow" o.dat wan na 419 wow)
This is so so so nice

Ok let me ask my sister weather she no all ds

it should start from 19 years,my wife was 19 when i married her and write from the day we met,she has never ever behaved like a little kid.she behaves maturedly and finally,i love her with all my heart Etc. thanks soooo much i love this!!

Pray that God should order your steps when any suitor comes because it may make or mar your life here and hereafter.My sincere and heartfelt desire for those female in their 20's is that they will not fall victim of wrong choice because this is real thing in the life of a lady.

hmmmm....nice write-up....loud am for them make dem hear oooo

Shld also have magntitude of direction

Brilliant....wish ma kid sista wud learn frm dsBrilliant....wish ma kid sista wud learn frm dsBrilliant....wish ma kid sista wud learn frm ds

Akpa ife: Ok let me ask my sister weather she no all ds

Lolzzzz...is yr sister a learner

Stegomiah:

18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t compare yourself to others.

Perfect!

yuzedo: Every 20years old womens shoud know my addres. No. 1 Chief Yuzedo Street, off Mike Adenuga Avenue, off Aliko Dangote Road, Banana Island, Ikoyi, Lagos. press bell two times, and knock gate once... gentlyyyyy, i come and open for u..... i hav mony.

Why highlighting Banana Island?
It simply shows you are not living there
I know you stay somewhere in Ajamgbadi very close to Okokomaiko

20. Cry as often as you can. It unburdens the mind of all mental & emotional baggage. It is also a natural, built-in healing system.

yuzedo: Every 20years old womens shoud know my addres. No. 1 Chief Yuzedo Street, off Mike Adenuga Avenue, off Aliko Dangote Road, Banana Island, Ikoyi, Lagos. press bell two times, and knock gate once... gentlyyyyy, i come and open for u..... i hav mony.

who cares for ur money if at all u ar not a keke driver....come i will feed u....stop bragin

@0p ,God bless you!

Every girl/lady should also dream to have this man as husband. The man is full of smiles and would give you the d1ck 24/7

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Good piece but quite an exaggeration don't you think? These are all basics that only require common sense. Unfortunately, there are still those in their 30's and 40's still finding common sense very uncommon!

@Op; A standing ovation for you…beautiful write-up…well done….

Good Advice, I hope they listen

BarryX: We cannot be tired of them list yet, keep them coming ti the change we all seek comes to reality in our attitude and all-round Caracta ..sorry Character ;Dll

*rolls eyes*

nice write up @ OP

nice piece....hope dis fellows used it....been independent lady earns u respect in handlin ur bills....