I ve heard alot of story of some men marrying they sister-in-law once they main wife die, some blame it on tradition, while some just believe dat ist just natura, some men even go as far as saying, dat d reason of marrying d sister-in-law after they wife's death is b'cos he don't want to leave or d family are good to him,

Do u tink is right for men to marry they sister-in-law once d wife ve pass on?
Lets hear ur comment on this.

Everything
boils down to the existing understanding btw both families and also the
condition the wife died(what led to her death). bt i dnt think its very
wise

Honestly, I can't say for oThers but for me its noT righT and I can't do iT.

I'm loyal To the people I love; dead or alive.

This just reminds me of when my uncle's wife died, her friends were just pushing their daughTers To my uncle To marry. These are daughTers that called her "aunty o." Even my laTe SIL's sales girl wasn't lefT ouT, she also wanTed To occupy The vacancy her madam left. I cried in pains, I was so hearTbroken by their shameful displays.

Just so we are clear, God forbid o I should get married, then die and my hubby starts di..cking my kid sister or my friend? I'm gonna kill Them both. oh yes I'm ThaT jealous, biko.

I just feel its some kinda betrayal.

Then again, this my opinion o, don't know of oThers.

A man looses his wife and he is eligible to remarry, now what will the dead wife benefit if the surviving husband marries an outsider?

For me if I can love my wifes sister I would marry her.

But God will never make me be in this position.

Amen

I don't even pray for my wife to die b4 me. I came to the world b4 her and never pray for that.To the subject, I feel there is nothing wrong because the understanding is that the children of the woman can be treated good by the closest family member of the deceased woman than an outsider.

I don't even pray for my wife to die b4 me. I came to the world b4 her and never pray for her to die b4 me cus of the children.To the subject, I feel there is nothing wrong because the understanding is that the children of the woman can be treated good by the closest family member of the deceased woman than an outsider.

@VIVIANC, do ur brother-in-law finally marry any of dos ladys?

Yes! it's absurd and ridiculous.In essence ,sister of the deceased becomes a step mum to her nieces and nephews and her children would be both cousins and siblings to ...infact it's just a complicated ish..
Apparently,it's allowed in most cultures if not all but it isn't what I would do or accept.

i strongly believe that any man that marries the sister in law is definitely under a Curse,big time Curse.upon all the women in the Nigeria or the world or the once he knew before he married the wife,it is the sister in law that he saw to marry.what message is he sending to the deceased family?its quite obvious that the man was having an affair with the sister in law before the wife died.Think of it because nothing just happens.No man sees a lady on the street or anywhere and propose to her the same day.

f rain c: @VIVIANC, do ur brother-in-law finally marry any of dos ladys?

For where? Well, he did sample some of Them sha. Trust men na.......

vivianc: Honestly, I can't say for oThers but for me its noT righT and I can't do iT.

I'm loyal To the people I love; dead or alive.

This just reminds me of when my uncle's wife died, her friends were just pushing their daughTers To my uncle To marry. These are daughTers that called her "aunty o." Even my laTe SIL's sales girl wasn't lefT ouT, she also wanTed To occupy The vacancy her madam left. I cried in pains, I was so hearTbroken by their shameful displays.

Just so we are clear, God forbid o I should get married, then die and my hubby starts di..cking my kid sister or my friend? I'm gonna kill Them both. oh yes I'm ThaT jealous, biko.

I just feel its some kinda betrayal.

Then again, this my opinion o, don't know of oThers.

Don't be jealous o! E go kill u double! Its a free world.if on d long run,d sil will take good care of my children,I endorse.
I won't like to do so but won't stop any from doing either. Its a free world bebe.

yellowpawpaw:

Don't be jealous o! E go kill u double! Its a free world.if on d long run,d sil will take good care of my children,I endorse.
I won't like to do so but won't stop any from doing either. Its a free world bebe.

That's for you o. For me hell no!

vivianc:

For where? Well, he did sample some of Them sha. Trust men na.......

No be all men o

alpha conde: A man looses his wife and he is eligible to remarry, now what will the dead wife benefit if the surviving husband marries an outsider?

For me if I can love my wifes sister I would marry her.

But God will never make me be in this position.

Amen

Do ur culture accept dat?