First born are the first child that open the woman matrix and born into a family that have no child before. when they are given birth to, they are over pampered and feels they should be cared for as the first child.
This affect them as they grow up, and they felt spoilt because they lack the necessary trainings. Also for being the first born they have nobody to look up too as their mentor or one who guide them, so they believe what ever they do is right.
Many at times, because of this up bringing, it affects in making the right decisions in life and to lead their younger one's in the right path. Most second born or the third born make mistakes and when you ask them why they act in such way or do such things, they tend to refer you to things they see their first born do or teach them. This is because they use him or her as their ensamples.
Never the less we have some smart first born that seek to look up to someone who is morally and spiritualy good and pick such person as his or her guide. Even his or her parent, if they are good once who have not spoil him or her beyound repair. Many spoilt first born now regret their actions and way of life now because it now hunt them and their young once has suffer from the wrong steps they took after their first borns.
Similarly, this trends also occur more amongs the last born who are too loved by their parent because their parent see them as their last strenght in child bearing. More love and less training is given to them, so they also tends to misbehave and end up being bad eggs.
All of this indiscipline is what we see in our society today, but not saying love and care is not good from parent to child, infact that is the best way to show it, but it must not be to much that will now be to the detriment of such a child. Be moderate

What do you mean What do we think about our first borns?

What sort of question is that?

Some people see threads springing up left and right. They too want to start one, regardless of it is sensible or not.

@OP- what is wrong with your first born?

Popsicle: @OP- what is wrong with your first born?

Choi!!

Efemena_xy:

Choi!!

A question was asked & i asked mine in reply. But really it ought to be asked cos maybe there is something that is wrong with the OPs first born that he/she has also noticed with other first borns that you & i are not aware of, so he/she has to be more specific in his/her question.

^^

You're making me giggle uncontrollably here!

lopsoj: No sentiment atteached...

frm biblical view, first born are seen not to be more responsible and always find with one bad attitude also let dont get thing done well. Eg cain and abel as we knw to some who read bible, cain kill abel cause abel did the right thing, Esau and jacob, Esau sold his birth right because of food to his younger brother, joseph and is eleven brother's, joseph was sold because he was not love by his brother and Reuben being the firstborn suggest he should be solded instead of being killed. And all this is about how do your first born behave to you and his attitude cause this attitude always run in the blood of most or all first born and the last born happens to be the best... Wise u guys understand by now

lopsoj: frm biblical view, first born are seen not to be more responsible and always find with one bad attitude also let dont get thing done well. Eg cain and abel as we knw to some who read bible, cain kill abel cause abel did the right thing, Esau and jacob, Esau sold his birth right because of food to his younger brother, joseph and is eleven brother's, joseph was sold because he was not love by his brother and Reuben being the firstborn suggest he should be solded instead of being killed. And all this is about how do your first born behave to you and his attitude cause this attitude always run in the blood of most or all first born and the last born happens to be the best... Wise u guys understand by now

So r u tryn to say u r d last born in ur family nd u r doing great
while ur first born is living miserable??

cos i didnt get u well

buklan4real@yah:





So r u tryn to say u r d last born in ur family nd u r doing great
while ur first born is living miserable??

cos i didnt get u well

wisdom is profitable to direct, jst say ur view abt ur first born and help ursef out of the wat was quote up dere... Now i tink u should av an insight.... Buk