When i waz young i had always lusted after girls and when i reached puberty i now started masturbating because i couldnt not successfully woo a lady to bird..that waz the story then but it all changed when my friend introduced me to to a brother.since then that waz 2009 to now i have been visiting a brothel since then even up till now.pls people pray for me..and i also go to parties everytime

invest yr time and money (even create a job) into things that u are passionate about. Its yr first step. It is rare to see someone whose hands are overloaded with passion-driven work having time for the brothels and parties.

^^^yes Op.Get engaged with more productive things.Begin to cut yourself away from friends with similar hobbies.Discipline yourself to stay away from brothels.

Most importantly,find a church and become active there.Develop a closer relationship with God.