naijababe:

Not yet, will go at the end of the month. She's been buried already , par Islamic rites.

May the soul of the departed Rest In Peace... Amen! take heart Aunty T. God loves her more.

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

Accept my condolences naijababe. Stay strong

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

So sorry.......May her soul rest in perfect peace.

@chaircover, efemenaxy, r231, cococandy, emeraldoe and manweysabi..............thank you.

Sorry for your loss @naijababe.

This too shall pass.

Chillisauce: Sorry for your loss @naijababe.

This too shall pass.

thanks

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

i am so sorry for ur loss,please accept my condolences.She is in perfect peace

edwife: i am so sorry for ur loss,please accept my condolences.She is in perfect peace

Mucha gracias

@ Naijababe

My deepest condolences, so sad to hear about your loss may Allah grant you the fortitude to bear this loss.

If there's going to be a memorial or something and it's in the south west, then I can definitely attend.

naija network things have made me become practically a ghost on this forum, and responding to posts have become such a diffficult task because of very poor network. So sorry if i hadn't responded to any posts referencing me been offline for a while.

I also noticed this place as been very dry since the hack attack, and I miss here a lot. shout out to all the family fun members.

Naijababe darling, i'm so so sorry dear. Do accept my heartfelt condolences. Olorun a fi Ayo si e lokan ooo.

So sorry hunny.

Cococandy, you'd better go and get yourself a portable size hand sanitizer. I go everywhere with mine ooo.

Donxavier: @ Naijababe

My deepest condolences, so sad to hear about your loss may Allah grant you the fortitude to bear this loss.

If there's going to be a memorial or something and it's in the south west, then I can definitely attend.

Thanks my man. There will be, I will send you the details via email

@ shoefreak, thank you darlyn

Hi everybody
Howdy

Don't even know d meaning of this name.
Abeg no explanation o!

Naijababe, so sorry.
Accept my condolence.

Where r the aprokos
(Efe, chillipepper, lorretta,lynda,edwife=no sane person should join their group o)
To d good ones, hope body and soul r together?
So nairaland crashed? Isoryte.
Deactivated b4 d crash.
So so busy. Still very busy. This life eeh.
I envy singles o.

Where is my brother?
This week is our new yam festival at ituku
Just to let u know that u will lead our new masquerade parade on saturday o, so prepare well.

To all d roaming single guys,
Who is d lucky babe?
My gele practice continues............
*muah to everybody*

Moca, your real identity please!

Or are you Jenny??!!

she is yellowpawpaw

EfemenaXY: Moca, your real identity please!

Or are you Jenny??!!

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Lol!

Ypepe, welcome back! You've been missed.

Should be Yellowpawpaw.. lol

Goodmorning all
I've been quite busy this days....
It isn't easy balancing office-work and motherhood; its really sucking me dry.... The Lord is my strength.

Pls accept my condolences naijababe.... May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. Kpele.

Ypepe welcome back! I missed u like kilode...
Good to ve u around... Atleast now u fit resume duty as the president of the Aproko nation!

I greet everybody ooo
Wish ya'll a peaceful week

Lynda and the lagbaja otherwise known as moca , una do well o. Thanks

shoefreak: Naijababe darling, i'm so so sorry dear. Do accept my heartfelt condolences. Olorun a fi Ayo si e lokan ooo.

So sorry hunny.

Cococandy, you'd better go and get yourself a portable size hand sanitizer. I go everywhere with mine ooo.

Sure thing. And I also make sure I limit my going out to the barest possible minimum

Naijababe,how are you holding up? The lord is your strength.will say a prayer for you today

cococandy:
Sure thing. And I also make sure I limit my going out to the barest mossible minimum

Naijababe,how are you holding up? The lord is your strength.will say a prayer for you today

Awww!!!!! Thank you, I am doing better and coming to terms with being motherless o my sister. Na money to buy cow I dey find now

Cow, goat, chicken anyone o. All na burial.
I'm sure she felt the love when she was alive.
Don't worry your pretty head. It will all work out fine.

naijababe:

Awww!!!!! Thank you, I doing better and coming to terms with being motherless o my sister. Na money to buy cow I dey find now

cococandy:
Cow, goat, chicken anyone o. All na burial.
I'm sure she felt the love when she was alive.
Don't worry your pretty head. It will all work out fine.

Not if you have Ijebu relatives o

^^^for real?
What if the bereaved cannot afford a cow, won't they bury the dead?

Moca is def Yellowpawpaw she and coogar are from ituku welcome back ypp

Naijababe na my real omo iya So how many cows for the 41 days final burial (I can tease you now )

Happy New Week Everyone

damiso: Moca is def Yellowpawpaw she and coogar are from ituku welcome back ypp

Naijababe na my real omo iya So how many cows for the 41 days final burial (I can tease you now )

Happy New Week Everyone

Omo, u don't even know the half of it o, to make matters worse. My papa and mama be proper popular jingo. Na oku eku all of them go chop

Lynda, dem go die first before dem admit say dem no get money for cow

[quote author=LyndaRoyce]^^^for real?
What if the bereaved cannot afford a cow, won't they bury the dead?[/quote

Dead has already been buried but ijebus or rather most southern muslims have 3 days where you can have a final burial reception (or owambe party more like ) 3 days prayer called ITA , 7 days Fidau Prayer or 41 days prayer.

I was a bit lucky as i had less pressur my Dad died in his 50's the yr I got married so was considered oku ofo (a young death) we had a reception at the 7 day prayer very low key but 1 cow still disappeared . You want to try the amount of food all the iyawo iles (family wives) who came to "mourn" with my mum ate in those 7 days e almost reash one cow.My dad had quite a great network of friends though so myself and my siblings spent next to nothing.(na only me sef my sister was doing Nysc and my bro was still in university).I really appreciate those people .Full page obituary in most national dailies, burial costs etc.They really tried.My mum was in a daze sef so na dat one u go ask for money .

Naijababe it is well jare agbara oloun gbe.Just do what you can afford ojare.

@ damiso, before nko? No be toilet everything go end, abeg i still dey pay school fees jare

naijababe: @ damiso, before nko? No be toilet everything go end, abeg i still dey pay school fees jare

Abi o We no fit con do oku finish dey drink garri
Most times sef the actual people being buried (like my Dad) don't even want all that feferity.My dad believed more in foundations and the likes which is something me and my sister are working hard towards. He was even writing a book before he died so we want to launch the book in his honour in the nearest future.

Naijababe...(sigh)

I don't even know what to say, my sister.

Just keep staying strong abeg.