apolonius: How are you guys?How is my Aluta-C and Lady Coco?

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mention but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

Fhemmmy:

My great friend, I am so sorry to hear this and pray that the Lord will comfort you and all your sibbling . . . .

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

RoyalRoy: Condolences Naijababe... a ni f'iru e san fun ra wa o. Amin.

fredoooooo: @naijababe........... sorry babes , may her soul rest in perfect peace . iwaju ti won doju ko oba je ko dara eyin ti won fi sile koni baje ..

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.

naijababe:

There was this boy in my neighbourhood who was *toasting* me when I was 15, I did not like him like that but we kinda became friends. He had showed up at my house unannounced one day - (only God knows what possessed him) while I was out running an errand for my mother. You can only imagine my shock and *gbogbo fear* racking my entire body when I returned to find Oluwole sipping on a bottle of coke in our living room ( the stupid boy was comfortable enough to be drinking coca-cola offered him, imagine?)

I ran straight into the kitchen to find mother only for her to say to me "se oti ri alejo e t'on duro de e?" The woman wanted to dash me cardiac arrest o, I quickly delivered whatever it was she had sent me, ran back to the living room and did a Ben Johnson outside dragging Oluwole with me and sent him on his way in the meanest terms I could muster.

I went inside expecting fire and brimstone to fall on my poor head but mother never said anything. When I could no longer take the suspense, I decided to explain myself to mother that nothing was going on between me and the good for nothing boy only for my mother to dismiss my explanation with a shrug, she said there was no need to explain having a guest albeit a male one. After picking up my jaw from the floor and summoning some courage I asked my mother why I was allowed to have male guests as most of my friends were not even allowed to look at boys let alone have one in the house?

My mother then laughed for what seemed like eternity and said to me words I will never forget.

" I have just sent you on an errand that should have taken you 10mins but you took 30mins, only God knows what you were getting up to for the remaining 20mins. I entertained your guest because I wanted you to know that your mother believes she has raised you better than to open your legs to every boy that comes your way. It is only natural that boys will be interested in you as you will in them. If you decide to let a boy sweet talk his way to what lies between you legs, be rest assured that you will be carrying your child with your skirts and blouses because I don't have any wrapper to hand down to you".

Suffice to say that I behaved myself even though I was surrounded by boys almost all the time, most of them where *toasters* turned friends.

ayox2003:

For a Mother who you always praised because of the way she trained you. I can still remember how what you wrote about her reaction on your first boy alejo.
Here:
www.nairaland.com/1315925/son-just-got-girlfriend....happy-scared/4



Big Hug, NB.

Thank God she left "enviable" offsprings behind.

May Her Soul Rest In Peace.


Frawzey.

Signed: Association of Mother Lovers.

naijababe:

Mehn!! You brought tears to my eyes with this tearjearker of a post She was my greatest and best teacher, a philosopher in her own right. Goodbye mother ...........thank you my friend. It would never occur to me that anyone would remember stuff i posted about my mum.

Idowuogbo: Awwww...Aunty nj e pele oooo...May God continue to comfort you and the famz. *hugs*

naijababe:

Thank you Idgirl

@ damiso, at least you nor tell me welcome to the club , the lord is indeed my strength. Thank you so much sis.

damiso:

It is still raw now so I will be nice I won't be mean like all those my friends(and hubby)who kept saying welcome to the fatherless children's club don't mind me I know they were just trying to make me laugh

It is well sis are you in Naija?

naijababe:
Not yet, will go at the end of the month. She's been buried already , par Islamic rites.

naijababe: Howdy roomies, how y'all doing? Saw all your shout-out and mentions but was not in the right frame of mind. I am finally feeling up to posting. Lost my mum exactly a week today, had no idea I could ever feel anything that painful, 5hit hurts like hell but I'm finally coming to terms it.