Fhemmmy: Easiest way to make it work, as long as the woman is prudent - The man bring the money home and allow the woman to manage it, by so doing, she knows what the home has and how to stretch the money to take care of all that is needed, i have found women to be better manager of money than we, Men.
But if the woman is not prudent, find a better way to making it happen.

volalek: E no easy esp when 1 spouse is totally dependent on d other.however financial discipline is d bottomline.

When one is not working, i am sure the one that aint working will be taking care of some other thing in the house . .

nobi_lie: 1) Honey moon does not come up every month. You can still do it at home.

nobi_lie: 2) Let her know what your salary is( so she won't say you are not caring)

nobi_lie: 3) Once salary is paid, the man must divide the money into fractions. Give your wife her part for the up-keep to cover the following month notifying her, its for the month(They are good managers)

nobi_lie: 4) Pay your house rent monthly in a special account(so you start running around seeking for loan when your rent is due)

nobi_lie: 5) Let your parents and siblings know that you have pressing responsibilities and may not be able to offer the assistance you use to.

nobi_lie: 6) Set target for yourself, your wife and your children.

nobi_lie: 7) Know that salary from the man alone can not feed the family.

nobi_lie: Do not let your job take the place of your family and don't let your family take the place of your job that brings the money.

nobi_lie: 9) YOU MUST JOIN A COOPERATIVE esp with colleagues at work.

nobi_lie: 10) Don't try to settle every house need all at once.

nobi_lie: At this point, you can add yours. I know some Netherlanders will want to yab me. Pls no ysb but comments.

Okija_juju: OOPPS!!


Wrong Thread..

This is a thread advicing Broke-arss Husbands..


_{OKIJA JUJU's ADVICE TO ALL MEN.. If you never hold money to maintain woman, do not befriend her, talkless of marrying her..}

Fhemmmy: Easiest way to make it work, as long as the woman is prudent - The man bring the money home and allow the woman to manage it, by so doing, she knows what the home has and how to stretch the money to take care of all that is needed, i have found women to be better manager of money than we, Men.
But if the woman is not prudent, find a better way to making it happen.

deshclones:

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One thing i love about my gal apart from her so many other qualities is her ability to save and strict self discipline as regards money...unlike me...omoh once the money never go my zenithbank account..forget it..i must spend it...even buying things i really do not need or helping friends and relatives...its that bad that i refused to collect ATM for the zenith account ..lol....i intend to hand over every money i make to my wife and allow her use her discretion to spend...women are indeed good managers...