I really dnt know if its mainly the yoruba tradition of goin to harbalist home, churches or which ever to find out about lovers future together after marriage. Some findings turn out really bad leaving the lovers no choice than to leave each other. I dnt know if these findings are really necessary to make good marriage in the future. To all married men and women in the house, did you find out about urs? And to all unmarried guys/ladies wil u find out about urs?

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me too ho

m not married but i knw a lot pple pray abt it.. as in fast and pray abt it.......

y wuld one not pray abt such a crucial matter

I didn't fast,neither did I pray nor seek any spiritual guidance,i simply made my choice . Given the same chance,i would ve made the same choice a 100 times over,no regrets.

byvan: I didn't fast,neither did I pray nor seek any spiritual guidance,i simply made my choice . Given the same chance,i would ve made the same choice a 100 times over,no regrets.

i guess your mum isnt among those superstitious spiritual African woman. Hope your marriage is doing fine?

It's doing great ! ! ! ! my mum is far from superstitious,very modern.

byvan: It's doing great ! ! ! ! my mum is far from superstitious,very modern.

i wish my mum is like her. Dats why have not told her about my boyfrnd, She wud just start asking me some really frustrating questions. I blame it on the yoruba films shes used to watching, source of really great stupid mentality!

It's better to tell her when the relationship is heading to marriage.Just be convinced the person is the right one for you,your mum cannot choose for you.