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A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 11:33pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
A Tribute to my bestie Once in my life I had a friend I could totally trust with my life, she ended up being my all time best friend beating my previous best friends Archibong Ekpe-Idang of presbyterian international school, Nsikak ikopbo of Nigerian Christian Institute. Her name is Helen Ifeyinwa chukwukelu. But today her name changes to my Helen Ifeyinwa S. Because she just tied the knots with her hobby. As you cross my mind for some days now, all that flashed back was how good you were to me. You are my friend, sister, colleague, comforter, and some times my boss (since you scold me, Hahahahaha). So much to say about you, your love, care, understanding, tolerance, motivation, inspiration, wise thoughts, honesty, yes you were so sincere, you never lie to me, we had a way of communicating that was grounded in truth, and that's my greatest turn on. It helped us get closer, shared our hidden thoughts, ideas and secrets. We worked together, achieved a lot with Gods grace, its was wow knowing you, fun all the way. Yes! We had arguments, misunderstandings but we always had a way of pulling strings thru. One more thing I would never forget about you is that in 2010 you became that first lady (except my mum and eldest sister)to call me on phone and we talked up to more than 5 mins, I marvelled. Even after that we have always talked on phone above 5mins. In 2012 you called my Glo line exceeding 5mins(only my mum and eldest sister calls my Glo line before then), I was scared so I hurried the call so as not to finish your Voucher. you are indeed different, and that made you stand out. From my estimate if 100 guys met you, 90 thought of you as a would-be wife, the remaining indifferent, not surprised you are getting married this early in life. Have always told you I wanted to meet your mum, to learn how she trained you. Congrats to your hobby, he made the right choice, for he that findeth a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from God. Wishing you a happy and fruitful married life, you are blessed and favoured, a light to your generation, a pace setter among your equal, keep the flag flying. Finally with your words "there is a place for everyone", always remember your place in my heart is intact, I LOVe you for life, am sorry couldn't attend your wedding hoping your will understand and forgive me and permit me to wear the clothes I told you since July, I sew for your traditional wedding, I have not worn it yet. Cheers my bestie !! - ID—with 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 11:42pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
bless you bestie 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Funpeter: 2:10am On Nov 10, 2013 |
Nice one i guess is cos you are currently serving that's why you miss it. |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 6:40am On Nov 10, 2013 |
Funpeter: Nice one i guess is cos you are currently serving that's why you miss it.Hahahahaha Nawao you be GPS Abi na satellite how you take track me like that, I de serve o o o o o jare |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 9:22pm On Sep 20, 2014 |
Relinquishing old times My bestie.… Have not seen her for about two years not |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 12:45am On Sep 21, 2014 |
My bestie, na madame now |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by HFOG(f): 1:47am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Your good with words. Congrats to her! The Lord bless and keep her home. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 6:11am On Sep 21, 2014 |
HFOG: Your good with words. Congrats to her! The Lord bless and keep her home. Good with words, i never knew that … I'll take that as compliment |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Nobody: 8:12am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Bro, I will fix that stuff up. sorry I am delayingl. 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 9:06am On Sep 22, 2014 |
2sExy1: Bro, I will fix that stuff up. sorry I am delayingl.Ok o, am still waiting o o |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Nobody: 9:37am On Sep 22, 2014 |
ideology:check your email. |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 10:02am On Sep 22, 2014 |
2sExy1: check your email. Thanks dear, have received it, will act on it according. God bless 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 22, 2014 |
ideology:and bless you too. 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 10:21pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
My bestie and her hubby |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Kanwulia: 12:12am On Sep 23, 2014 |
I used to have so-called "best-friends". . . .till I had a better understanding of such a concept! But as I got to know them. . . . while getting older and wiser, I had to relegate them all to the background of irrelevance because I GREW UP! For one, I AM VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY ALLERGIC TO CHRISTIANS(no apologies), even when I was supposedly raised as one(tufiakwa to the highest order!) I have never told them that(why should I bother with such level of irritability to my personal and professional wellbeing? ) When I am deal with them, I always use a pair of gloves and a verrrrrrrrry long spoon! I will always treasure the memories we shared from childhood and will remain cordial and accommodating. But never at my expense. . . The moment they get on my last nerves with their that their self-righteous indignation. . .I DROP THEM IN THE TRASH COMPACTOR of my activities of daily living. . . and delete all their contacts from my life! Simple! Good news? I don't need them for anything. . . so we meet when it is only necessary. Life has gone on sweetly and fine. . . and will go on. . . with or without them. They have since been replaced by MY FAMILY MEMBERS! I don't pay tribute to friends. . . ONLY FAMILY MEMBERS! Una go soon learn. . . enjoy it while it lasts. . . IT IS YOUR TIME! |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 5:46am On Sep 23, 2014 |
@Kanwulia, Firstly, I can relate to your views, but Then kanwulia is not Ideology, (no way), your experiences with your "bestie 's " are not same with mine. To put the above straight, from my last count I have just 3 best friends. I don't just call anyone my bestie. People I relate with fall into the following categories. friends - causal friends, acquaintances, colleagues. Good friends - these set have shown appreciable level of trust and more importantly, we share similar core values. They see me as a person with great personality. Close friends - these are friends with similar core values that show great understanding of friendship, they seek advice from me, we share certain level of deep thoughts. I have about 10 friends in this category. They also see me as a model Best friends - these folks are special to me, faithful, dependable, trustworthy, and honest these are friends that have added great value to me, they always call to check on my well being Generally, friends in this set, see me as a role model, they come to me for advice on very deep issues, we share a lot, they also know my deep thoughts. Just 3 in this category now you can have an idea why my experiences should be different from yours. I don't hate people, but I feel bad, when they act in a funny way I understand humans can be funny, I have a very strong resisting spirit, i know a lot for afar, no matter how nice you seem, from the first day we meet, I know how far I can go with you. I hope you can relate to this too. Thanks, stay blessed |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by Kanwulia: 8:28am On Sep 23, 2014 |
ideology: @Kanwulia, My experiences are ok. I meant my priorities have changed. My family is MY BEST FRIEND. Simple! 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 7:58pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
Kanwulia:Noted 1 Like |
Re: A Tribute To My Best Friend by ideology(m): 5:10pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
My best friend during NYSC, I'll write about him too. my friend and I |
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