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He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by ConfessionsNgr: 7:12pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting. After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself Unclad on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist. That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do? Source: www.confessionsnigeria.com http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/285/he-raped-me-now-getting-married-to-my-best-friend 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by eleojo23: 7:14pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I'd wish that this whole thing was a Nollywood script 'cos this is a potential big hit movie. 213 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by DickDastardly(m): 7:15pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
The one that is yours will still show up, so calm the fvck down. But if you insist on payback, buy yourself a shotgun and lay in wait for them in the front pew 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Precious91(m): 7:15pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
o ga oo |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Blizzy9ja: 7:23pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Ghen- Ghen!!...Pay back time... Go and rape him back, after all dem say "do me, I do u, god no go vex" 57 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by otabuko(m): 7:26pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
I'd like a revenge! Though.. Revenge doesn't always bring the desired outcome... 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by illmatic101(m): 7:26pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
That's not a problem, at all just wait till the pastor says ( any body with a good reason for this marriage not to hold should speak up or forever shut the Bleep up) that's when you now do the needful 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Miracle4Sure: 7:35pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Chaiii........ |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by sam4(m): 7:42pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
He didn't rape u pls go n change d heading. that's online relationship. For Gods sake forgv n frgt 20 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by TooNoisy(f): 7:50pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Find your story hard to believe. Sorry! 6 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by chefremy(m): 8:16pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
honestly i don't know what to say...but you should tell your 'best' friend somehow because if she knows the truth later it could destroy your friendship. 10 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by UIA04(f): 8:28pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Find a way ofcomfronting the guy secretly at least he will know that his happy is in your hands if he apologises forgive him and be the bridesmaid if he doesn't.... 5 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Atmmachine(m): 8:52pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
If you believe this story, you will also believe the Chibok girls were actually kidnapped. 18 Likes
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Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by prodiG(m): 8:52pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
This your story get k-leg |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:52pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Liar...if the girl is really your best friend, how come she didn't know about the ordeal? Tell us the truth jor. I no go gree. 15 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Goddygee(m): 8:53pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
So wetin u wan make we do? 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Not again.... SO WHAT'S NOW MY BUSINESS? |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Op you should have known what you were signing into. how do you even expect one to believe this kinda story?with all the cases of assaults,rapes,dehumanization and the rest associated with online dating you still went ahead to spend a night in the house of a guy you barely know,thank your stars you are even alife. Aside that,for your frnd to accept his marriage propposal means there must have been something unique abt him,leave the would be couple alone,person no send you go the man house,, come to think of it self,you agree on no sex rule yet you spend a night in the same room with him,what did you even expect when you place a well prepared dish in front of a hungry man, gal u no try at all,,,,leave them alone,. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by florence15(f): 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
As in.. |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
he rapes you then from nowhere becomes your friend's fiance......reminds me of nollywood. anyway move on with your life. its not worth it 2 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by RichDad1(m): 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Move on!! 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by cescky(m): 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
this poster is always up with "fantastic" stories 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by laurel03(m): 8:55pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
The story go good for nollywood 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by bettercreature(m): 8:55pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Another co.ck and bull story You guys no dey tire? 4 Likes |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:55pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
nnafather: prodiG: Goddygee: Atmmachine: Yeah... You guys are correct... Very good points. 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by amii131(f): 8:55pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Just forget the brides maid offer given to you and move on Meanwhile 8 Likes
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Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by kennyman2000(m): 8:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
somebody should pls wake me up when the OP decides to say the truth.. Check my signature for ur customised wristband 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by kennynelcon(m): 8:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
I don't know... but then his d**k was in control, but now his Head is at work. 1 Like |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by damton(m): 8:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
ok. it's important that you forgive him for your friends sake . you know this about marriage |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by gary400(m): 8:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
on d wedding day...just raise up ur hand dt u don't support the wedding....i belive d preachers wl ask dt kind f questn.....and state ur reasons clearly cuz....but after u shld be ready for part 3...cus ur best friend z gonna kill u.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Raped Me, Now Getting Married To My Best Friend... by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Dont you know where okija shrine is located in other news LTCOFP <last to comment on front page> 2 Likes |
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