I'm all for the truth always, stating it without remorse for whose ox is gored.

However, being discreet in how often and how direct the truth is told to whomever you're in a relationship with goes a long way in making that relationship productive.

Depending on who you're rolling with, there are ways to state the cold truth without hurting anyone's esteem.

Sumtymz tellin d truth hurtz n we cnt handle d truth in sm cases..

Hmmm.. Try tellin ya wyf hu spent gud moni on a particular dress,5hrs at d hairdresser's n 30mins in frnt of d mirror tryin 2 create purfektn dt d dress isn't dt cute,her hair is off n her mk up mks her luk lyk a painting board(evn doh its absolutly true)..u gona spend d nyt apologizin 2 ya bedrum door...

chefd'oeuvre:
Hmmm.. Try tellin ya wyf hu spent gud moni on a particular dress,5hrs at d hairdresser's n 30mins in frnt of d mirror tryin 2 create purfektn dt d dress isn't dt cute,her hair is off n her mk up mks her luk lyk a painting board(evn doh its absolutly true)..u gona spend d nyt apologizin 2 ya bedrum door...

;Dthis got me laffin. konji go kill u for outside d room

chefd'oeuvre:
Hmmm.. Try tellin ya wyf hu spent gud moni on a particular dress,5hrs at d hairdresser's n 30mins in frnt of d mirror tryin 2 create purfektn dt d dress isn't dt cute,her hair is off n her mk up mks her luk lyk a painting board(evn doh its absolutly true)..u gona spend d nyt apologizin 2 ya bedrum door...

guy u wan kill me wit laugh... d same tin applies to d fud,if d tin no sweet dey no born u wel to say its not.me any time my fiance cuks its always sweet,laughin bt seriously she is a gud cuk

If telling the truth will spoil a relationship, why not avoid those things that could make you lie.

Adedoks: guy u wan kill me wit laugh... d same tin applies to d fud,if d tin no sweet dey no born u wel to say its not.me any time my fiance cuks its always sweet,laughin bt seriously she is a gud cuk

Haha..na d way 4wrd guy..if nt u go cast

LOL! I just can't!

Ucheosefoh: It can hurt and it have cause many break ups, some piple hate the truth especially the runs gals and womanisers.

TRUTH IS HEAVY, FEW PEOPLE CARW IT & ONLY A FEW CAN BEAR IT.

Ever heard of "White lie"?

no mata how u hide d truth it will surely surface itself, its beta u say it d rit tim ,yeah its hurt BT its hurt less compare to wen its surface itself..

Nobody has the right to tell the truth except it is spoken in love. If the truth hurts another person, it is not spoken in love and it id wickedness.

The bible admonished us to speak the truth in love.

Hmmm. Quite sensitive topic. But i think am gonna tell the truth. Telling a lie is,and will always be bad

crackhaus: I'm all for the truth always, stating it without remorse for whose ox is gored.

However, being discreet in how often and how direct the truth is told to whomever you're in a relationship with goes a long way in making that relationship productive.

Depending on who you're rolling with, there are ways to state the cold truth without hurting anyone's esteem.

Hmmm. Quite sensitive topic. But i think am gonna tell the truth. Telling a lie is,and will always be bad

Am healthy relationship is not based on lie how long will you based ur relationship with lies somethings d truth pay always telling the truth make ur partner truth u

Funny enough, but lies shows respect. Telling the truth bluntly, shows no regard. Truth goes with righteousness, every truth must be positive.

Its good to tell the truth in the other words to let ur partner know ur past, ad who u really are.but my advice don't try it when the relationship is still young.when the love or what u feel for eachother is not stable.when u do u are heading to HEARTBREAK COS THERE'S NO LOVE YET.

Mr Aboki: Its a really tricky question...


Somethings are best left buried deep down. #Fact!

However, some buried secrets do have a crazy way of resurfacing..



My advice:: I always advice that people tell the truth and darn the consequences.. When you bury the truth, all you have done is postponed a problem that you could have dealt with today.

Now!! Imagine a Man/woman who goes to his/her wife/husband and confesses infidelity... Its bad!! True.
So.. Imagine the Man/woman discovers the infidelity of a partner on his/her own.. This is definitely worse.

Reason being that the former carries an element of regret/remorse, the other doesnt.




NOW!! The down side to tellin the truth is that some partners would forever use it as a weapon against their other half.. Thats where the real problem lies.


SO OP!! There is no yes or no answer.. Just a right and wrong! Right being tell the truth..

That's true... †ђξ
Real fact!!!!!

if u ask me na who i go ask. ok wait na my oga at the top go answer am.

Truth can save or destroy you.
Lie can also save or destroy you.

Both have equal Advantages and Disadvantages.

I'll choose one only because it represents Positivity and that is the Truth.

Yes! If u fork ur wife sister, and u tell ur wife!

Some things are better left unsaid"

ejizzy:
Some things are better left unsaid"

..wonder y girls always say dis.
There Is NO middle ground with d truth. .either that or u lie.
U may feel u r helping/saving d person getting hurt, but eventually u end up wit d person worse off.
Tact is wat d emphasis shld be on.
Except ur partner doesnt want t know

There r some truths that r worth disclosing,u don't go about telling ur spouse virtually everything about u esp ur past buh be dt as it may,try keep it real n be truthful as u can

ejizzy:
Some things are better left unsaid"

Dubemkelly: There r some truths that r worth disclosing,u don't go about telling ur spouse virtually everything about u esp ur past buh be dt as it may,try keep it real n be truthful as u can

yes o.i fell a victim yesterday wen I had a quarrel wt my baby n he brought up my past.i've learnt my lesson