shegxi: @lomy, it's so possible but at d risk of sounding judgemental, most people are very shallow dis days(guys and ladies). U have people who can't even hold intelligent conversation for 30mins, wat do u den expect?

Lol.. true sha but most of them are guys.

Waasere!

callmespices:
E no go happen
Na coded tins

Dnt mind him, he's on his own stand.....

callmespices:
Nibo?? I trust gbengadan, he would never let me down

Bosslady, my head dey intact o. Me don go hide sharperly as the guy talk that thing.

Mzflexydeeva: Shegxi & callmespices I don dey suspect una. Gbengadan how ur head? @leeport u harsh well well o. U wan scatter the guy brain?

heheheheheheheheh

callmespices:
Errmmm, u didn't observe well
Assually, it's moi and gbengadan
Oya, re observe

Lyrics bawo? Hehehehehehehe. Deeva, I no understand u again o

Mzflexydeeva: wow! R u saying shegxi no get level reach or na gbengadan lyrics make sense passs

lomy:

Lol.. true sha but most of them are guys.

lol....do u just have a problem with guys or u have just bn unlucky wit d wrong ones? D last time i checked, shallowness is nt gender-based. Or is dere somtin ur nt tellin us?

#eyes rolling#

callmespices:
All of the above
Shegxi look like an ibadan guy to me
He too talk and sabi abuse

lomy:

I understand. But must I always define every friendship/relationship? Must I always tell every guy that "hey I don't want to date you, let's be friends". Guys should be wise enough to know when a babe wants a relationship and when she just wants a friend.

I strongly believe individuals(male&female) have the 'right(freedom)' to make different demands in a relationship/friendship, it is left to the other party to respond. People are in relationships/friendships for various reasons and they make certain investments to achieve such targets.
You certainly don't have to read out a list of rules to every new friend; but like you hinted, what if that new friend ain't wise enough?

shegxi: lol....do u just have a problem with guys or u have just bn unlucky wit d wrong ones? D last time i checked, shallowness is nt gender-based. Or is dere somtin ur nt tellin us?

No I don't have problem with guys.. what else do you want to hear?

pryd:

I strongly believe individuals(male&female) have the 'right(freedom)' to make different demands in a relationship/friendship, it is left to the other party to respond. People are in relationships/friendships for various reasons and they make certain investments to achieve such targets.
You certainly don't have to read out a list of rules to every new friend; but like you hinted, what if that new friend ain't wise enough?

Clearly said.. and when you list out your rules for this new friend, he terms you rude and unfriendly..

Mzflexydeeva: I wish I cud say no but thank God nothing like ebola mosquitoes

if there was. Na iron cloths n helmet I for de wear. Life is sweeeeeet.

lomy:

No I don't have problem with guys.. what else do you want to hear?

dn't take dis wrongly, my intentions are clear. Do u believe in d saying dat we attract our like?? Consciously or unconsciously.

shegxi: dn't take dis wrongly, my intentions are clear. Do u believe in d saying dat we attract our like?? Consciously or unconsciously.

No I don't believe in that. it doesn't work all the time. It's just fate. In the magnetic field, even like poles repel and unlike poles attract.
We don't attract our like all the time

lomy:


No I don't believe in that. it doesn't work all the time. It's just fate. In the magnetic field, even like poles repel and unlike poles attract.
We don't attract our like all the time

gud dat u dodged d conscious or unconscious part of my post bt d sad reality is dat we attract our like, sometimes without knowing it ourselves.

shegxi: gud dat u dodged d conscious or unconscious part of my post bt d sad reality is dat we attract our like, sometimes without knowing it ourselves.

Lol... I didnt

callmespices:
All of the above
Shegxi look like an ibadan guy to me
He too talk and sabi abuse

how do ib guys look o I tot their speciality was snapping in shop rite but Shegxi never snap 4 dere

shegxi: gud dat u dodged d conscious or unconscious part of my post bt d sad reality is dat we attract our like, sometimes without knowing it ourselves.

You misunderstood me. My point is that why is it that most guys/ladies can't have a relationship with the opposite sex with no strings attached. And not abt what you attract.

lomy:


Clearly said.. and when you list out your rules for this new friend, he terms you rude and unfriendly..

Yeah it's quite understandable that such might rob off as being rude but if your intentions are genuine you can't be too bothered about what he/she thinks.
Before you are pressed to read out rules to a new friend, something must have necessitated it. Something must have created the need; either your perception of the person or past experience. The two aformentioned reasons can't be faulted.

pryd:

Yeah it's quite understandable that such might rob off as being rude but if your intentions are genuine you can't be too bothered about what he/she thinks.
Before you are pressed to read out rules to a new friend, something must have necessitated it. Something must have created the need; either your perception of the person or past experience. The two aformentioned reasons can't be faulted.

Past experience is my reason. And the so called guy said all sorts of things and later deleted me from his bbm contact list, his reason being that he likes me and I don't like him.

Mzflexydeeva: who says I haven't snapped on the high way There is God

I wish u a happy snapping mood

lomy:

Past experience is my reason. And the so called guy said all sorts of things and later deleted me from his bbm contact list, his reason being that he likes me and I don't like him.

LoL... must you like him? should he be hurt because he feels you don't like him? do we expect to be liked by every human that comes our way? were your demands/desires different?
His action shouldn't stop you from doing what you feel is right for you. You come first!

pryd:

LoL... must you like him? should he be hurt because he feels you don't like him? do we expect to be liked by every human that comes our way? were your demands/desires different?
His action shouldn't stop you from doing what you feel is right for you. You come first!

Since he likes me, he automatically expects me to like him too. I kept trying to be nice to him and my niceness made him think we are dating.. until I told him we are not.

lomy:


Must I always state my terms to every guy? That would boring then.. whenever a guy meets a babe that is so nice and free with them they just spoil the whole thing by asking the babe out..

I concur.........

shegxi: Chai!!! Dis callmespices abi na callmepepper babe don see me finish sha......mzflexydeeva, if i table her mata for dem bois for ekosodin, she go believe o....buh lemme pity her sha, omode lo n se

hmmmmmmm! Ekoso wetin? I. Weren't dere ooo

Gbengadan: Dnt mind him, he's on his own stand.....

#clears throat # looks left, right, up......crosses to but pure water.....

Gbengadan: Bosslady, my head dey intact o. Me don go hide sharperly as the guy talk that thing.

sharp guy! I dey believe U.....chop knuckle

lomy:

Since he likes me, he automatically expects me to like him too. I kept trying to be nice to him and my niceness made him think we are dating.. until I told him we are not.

Oh I understand, that was why I earlier stated it's crucial the 'boundaries' are defined and accepted from the beginning because sometimes we send conflicting signals or we only see(feel) what we choose to see(feel).

Gbengadan: Lyrics bawo? Hehehehehehehe. Deeva, I no understand u again o

na as u no understand sef. Make sense pass..... e be like say na only callmespices dey get ut rhythm

Preciousone4ril: if there was. Na iron cloths n helmet I for de wear. Life is sweeeeeet.

which part of the planet r u on

pryd:

Oh I understand, that was why I earlier stated it's crucial the 'boundaries' are defined and accepted from the beginning because sometimes we send conflicting signals or we only see(feel) what we choose to see(feel).

God go help us... amen

shegxi: gud dat u dodged d conscious or unconscious part of my post bt d sad reality is dat we attract our like, sometimes without knowing it ourselves.

this is getting interesting.....#clears throat,.......gets a bottle of alize, sits and watcch how dis movie unfolds