I am like your average guy next door still in his mid-twenties tryn to establish a personal career for himself.
I might not have abs, but I am of moderate height, Educated, working, intelligent and cute.
I am also from a very good family background.
Frankly speaking I have never been in any serious relationship in my life not because the ladies aren't yielding,but I am the kind of person that thinks deeply before making any serious commitment. To be frank I dont see the point of being trapped
in a relationship...Aside from the fact that it limits my independence I am yet to discover what unique benefits might arise from it.
I am kind-off under pressure in a way to be in one but yet to find any reason why I should. Also based on my experience and findings most ladies are always around you when all is well...I am not sayn they are after your money o but naturally if I were to be a wretched, poor, dirty, ugly, jobless guy how many of them would still be around me?
I am an advocate of love but I believe it only exist in families(because offspring are involved) and between God and Man.
I believe that after marriage Love can come in BUT before marriage its just two human-beings trying to find a balance.


Below(on the left) are the list of what I have gathered as reasons why I should get married and be in a relationship and this are my counter points(on the right)

COMPANIONSHIP: I have close friends(both male and female) that have proven thier integrity over time, I dont have to confide in a single person that might even be wrong at times even the holy book talks about
"by the assurance of many(more than 2) there is safety"

PROCREATION: We have 8bil people on earth If I'm not increasing the number there are other people doing that

GOD'S WILL: Even Jesus Christ and Paul did not get married so I think it is not that cumpulsary to marry

SEX: Sex can be gotten from brothels, prostitutes are even better sex machines than a wife might ever be

FAMILY LOVE: I can always adopt, we have ophanage homes everywhere

MY FAMILY MEMBERS WANT ME TO MARRY: This is the only point I have not been able to find an answer to yet....but I have my life to live naa

So I am asking people who are in a relationship or married to give me the benefits of being in a relationship apart from what I have listed above
What I mean is tell me the positive impartation of your partner in your life that you would not have gotten from any other person

its kinda cool to feel responsible for someone other than urself.

Does that person have to be your Wife/Girlfriend?

nekaa: its kinda cool to feel responsible for someone other than urself.

No actually.. Buh why nt a wife/ girlfriend? So if something else catches ur fancy say a fellow guy or a dog or ferris wheel / jangolova then why nt...

then its not culposary to marry the person naa

nekaa: No actually.. Buh why nt a wife/ girlfriend? So if something else catches ur fancy say a fellow guy or a dog or ferris wheel / jangolova then why nt...

DARREG: then its not culposary to marry the person naa

what is your most favorite thing?

nekaa: what is your most favorite thing?

I love helping other people...that is what gives me joy

Seems you have your mind made up, it's ur life anyways you don't have to share it with anyone.

yeah...but i just wanted to find out if there was something i was not seeing about being in relationships that others were seeing

nekaa: Seems you have your mind made up, it's ur life anyways you don't have to share it with anyone.