toniecutie: [color=#006600][/color] i am an undergrad but my mum treats me like a kid. If i am around guys smiling my mum will look at me like i was flirting or something. I was at a wedding party with my friends and as usual i was dancing but my mum acted like my personal bodyguard and drove all the guys from me with just her eyes!(her eyes are better than guy in x-men o) . She thinks all the guys are into me and almost beat me up because i was talking with one guy staying near us and from what you guessed i have no boyfriend but the way my mum treats me its as if i have chains of them. She told me she is protecting me but na constant embarassment. She yab one boy because she heard him asking for my number. I no de answer one call for haus and all the guys de avoid me. The last time i talked to her about this wahala, i sat for 2 hours straight listening to the lecture about the dangers of boys and how their sole aim is to destroy gals but after she go tell you say she loves my dad die because he is the best. What should i do at least for her to lessen embarassment?

shegxi: hw old is d op?

toniecutie: I am 18

toniecutie: I am 18

toniecutie: I am 18

hiss! send me a pm..your mom will never resist me bein arnd u. i hop u got big yansh??

bellong:

Your mum still see you as a kid probably you act as one at home. Though, a lot of mothers over-protect their children to their disadvantage.

I know for a fact when your results in school start speaking good things, she will begin to loosen up. For now, face your studies and refocus your energy to what you want for the future.

You are still within the age bracket of pleasure in relationship. Most of your peer group do not understand the essence of relationship, hence the reason for your mum's actions.

shegxi: in as much as i agree wit ur summation, over protectiveness has its own downside. sometimes, its best to allow peoplemake deir mistakes and learn. too much of anyting is bad.

bellong:

Your mum still see you as a kid probably you act as one at home. Though, a lot of mothers over-protect their children to their disadvantage.

I know for a fact when your results in school start speaking good things, she will begin to loosen up. For now, face your studies and refocus your energy to what you want for the future.

shegxi: wel, are u like an onli daughter or wat?

toniecutie: my mom has four children and all are girls but i am the eldest.

bellong:

Your mum still see you as a kid probably you act as one at home. Though, a lot of mothers over-protect their children to their disadvantage.

I know for a fact when your results in school start speaking good things, she will begin to loosen up. For now, face your studies and refocus your energy to what you want for the future.

You are still within the age bracket of pleasure in relationship. Most of your peer group do not understand the essence of relationship, hence the reason for your mum's actions.

shegxi: i tink ur mumu is ultimately lukin out for u gud,

toniecutie: maybe but mumu is actually an offensive word in my locality

toniecutie: Hahahaha abi o, i suprise

shegxi:
in as much as i agree wit ur summation, over protectiveness has its own downside. sometimes, its best to allow peoplemake deir mistakes and learn. too much of anyting is bad.

toniecutie:
my mom has four children and all are girls but i am the eldest.