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Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 5:17pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Please I honestly need you guys advice. |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
"Can he change"? Is he a baby's diaper? 1 Like |
Re: Can He Change? by vizkiz: 5:38pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
martha: "Can he change"? Is he a baby's diaper? bby ur hurtinq her feelinqs wif those words @ Op...hw was he actinq b4 u quys started datinq?? N u said e invited u 2 his house n u refuse yet ue still complaininq u dnt knw where he stays? All i tink u shuld do z call it quit...its berra u stop d relationship nw or u'll come back here n tell us stories dt touch |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 6:02pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
vizkiz: |
Re: Can He Change? by Rhemar(m): 6:11pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
u nid to watch it 'cos I can't fathom why he'll fix a date nd wouldn't kip 2 it nd 4 dis 2 av been repeated severally. Just take ur time nd try 2 find out reasons 4 his failed promises he might av gud reasons nt to av kept them so far |
Re: Can He Change? by dayokanu(m): 6:19pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
He invited you to his house several times and you refuse to show up You make appointments with him several times he refuse to show up Seems both of you are tailor made for each other. Happy married Life You call a guy your bf and you dont knw where he lives, maybe he lives in a cemetery or with 3 other wives. You dont care to know. happy married life 5 Likes |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Sarah this is simple,he is not that into you,its a harsh reality. |
Re: Can He Change? by vizkiz: 6:25pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Sarah a: Am complaining for not keeping to promise. We both don't have issue relating to me knowing his house, we have iron out that aspect. Bby, a quy cnt keep his word on jst a date...do u tink he's qonna keep his word on nt dumpinq u?? dnt u qt it?? |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 6:25pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Rhemar: u nid to watch it 'cos I can't fathom why he'll fix a date nd wouldn't kip 2 it nd 4 dis 2 av been repeated severally. Just take ur time nd try 2 find out reasons 4 his failed promises he might av gud reasons nt to av kept them so far |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Re: Can He Change? by sapiosexual(f): 6:45pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
someone that you are dating but didn't bother to know where he lives and you are talking about marriage. both of you should keep jonzing that you are in a relationship o. I laugh!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Sarah a: Please I honestly need you guys advice cause am going gaga over what had being happening to my relationship. And you call him "my guy"? My guy as in friend or boyfriend? All you have is his business card. Why haven't you been to his place? You are not sure about this guy and both of you do not take the relationship seriously. He cant keep a date or promise and you just have his phone number and business card. I will advice you both take it slowly. Establish the basics of friendship and trust before thinking of calling him "my husband". Take it one day at a time and dont start building castles in the air. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:03pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
dayokanu: He invited you to his house several times and you refuse to show upI did not disclose mauch detail here, I only gave those that Important. Also I have never promise visiting him,infact I made that knew to him right from onset because I don't want anything that will draw me back spiritually, hope you got what I mean by that? I have details of where he lives have even done my background check to be sure if where he lives corresponds and it does. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:10pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Nashville:thanks ma really appreaciate it. I wish to be going to his abode any time any day but why I don't want to is because I don't want any thing call s- e- x .I want the relationship out of s e x. Although i told him but his respons does not sound convicing . |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:14pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
vizkiz:thanks that why am here I know I will hear the hard truth. Thanks man. |
Re: Can He Change? by dayokanu(m): 7:14pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
So you suspect whenever you visit him he would pounce on you and rappee you? If you think all he wants from you is sex then maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship with him He too might have his reasons for not making the appointments set especially in restaurants He might feel it would draw him back financially You understand what I mean. 3 Likes |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
byvan: Sarah this is simple,he is not that into you,its a harsh reality.thanks I want to be sure before concluding that was why I ran to my family here cause you guys will always say it just the way it should be. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:22pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
[quote author=dayokanu]So you suspect whenever you visit him he would pounce on you and rappee you? If you think all he wants from you is sex then maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship with him He too might have his reasons for not making the appointments set especially in restaurants He might feel it would draw him back financially Noted. |
Re: Can He Change? by vizkiz: 7:43pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Sarah a: thanks ma really appreaciate it. nw i knw y he's actinq weird |
Re: Can He Change? by taryour(f): 7:50pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Sarah a: most time I fix it to my church just to save him the stress of spending or I will ask him to choose where is comfortable for him.Beside at times I make sure I do the payment for both of us to save him all the financailly stress . Young lady wake up abeg. Your conditions sef get as e be. If you want a no s e x relationship doesn't mean you shouldn't visit him in his home, come on you aint teenagers that meet in public places all the time they want to talk/meet. Did you say most of the place you choose to meet is church oga oo. The guy go dey fear you sef. Just drop it,its so obvious you don't trust the guy and he knows so that just might be a reason he is isn't taking you serious. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:54pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
vizkiz:lol, thanks. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 7:55pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
taryour:Thanks |
Re: Can He Change? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Same story, two different topics, which one nah? Keep one and close the other jor. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 8:53pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
candy: Same story, two different topics, which one nah? Keep one and close the other jor.no be my fault na, you know how Nigeria network the do? Beside I don't know how to delete a thread abeg help me with how to go abt it. |
Re: Can He Change? by greatgod2012(f): 9:02pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Evaluate/examine yourself! Evaluate/examine the guy! Evaluate/examine the realtionship! And then evaluate/examine if you can still go ahead with the relationship or not. May God give you the wisdom, to do all the evaluations/examinations properly. Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 9:28pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
@greatgod,Thank so much am gratful for the anaysis. |
Re: Can He Change? by Ucheosefoh(m): 9:38pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
@op know this those times he fail to keep his promises he is with another gal as u are booking appointment at a public place another gal is booking appointment in his house he ignore u to attend to the other gal that is why he will call the next day with excuses. |
Re: Can He Change? by LerrieJohn(f): 9:51pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
@ OP your topic should be " Does he want a relationship with me? " the answer is NO. Your guy ke!!!, from your story you guys aren't even dating cos he doesn't show up. He's not "your man" until you are in a real relationship. |
Re: Can He Change? by Saraha1(f): 10:07pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Lerrie John: @ OP your topic should be " Does he want a relationship with me? " the answer is NO.hmmmm, thanks for the harsh truth. |
Re: Can He Change? by onegig(m): 11:51pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
What ever happened to a frank talk? The world is easier now....You have phone and chatting applications you dont have to physically meet to have a date. But wait how did he do the chasing since he is always not available? |
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