martha: "Can he change"? Is he a baby's diaper?

bby ur hurtinq her feelinqs wif those words
@ Op...hw was he actinq b4 u quys started datinq??
N u said e invited u 2 his house n u refuse yet ue still complaininq u dnt knw where he stays?
All i tink u shuld do z call it quit...its berra u stop d relationship nw or u'll come back here n tell us stories dt touch

vizkiz:

[color=#000099]bby ur hurtinq her feelinqs wif those words
@ Op...hw was he actinq b4 u quys started datinq??
N u said e invited u 2 his house n u refuse yet ue still complaininq u dnt knw where he stays?
All i tink u shuld do z call it quit...its berra u stop d relationship nw or u'll come back here n tell us storie

Sarah a: Am complaining for not keeping to promise. We both don't have issue relating to me knowing his house, we have iron out that aspect.
Since last week till date, we have fix date close to Four times and non had he kept to. we are suppose to meet around 2pm today before embarking on his journey my guy did not show up. He called around 5.45pm that his already on his way to where his travel to.
To be honest, this guy can spend his last kobo to call me but the promise aspect is what I hate with passion. I don't make promises which I know I can keep so I expected him to do thesame.

Rhemar: u nid to watch it 'cos I can't fathom why he'll fix a date nd wouldn't kip 2 it nd 4 dis 2 av been repeated severally. Just take ur time nd try 2 find out reasons 4 his failed promises he might av gud reasons nt to av kept them so far

Sarah a: Please I honestly need you guys advice cause am going gaga over what had being happening to my relationship.
My guy had never kept to his promise, when he tells me yes I make sure I mutiply that yes to hundred No . Each time we agreed to meet at a place he would not show up either will he call to explain , not until the second day. I don't know wher he stays but I have his business card,even though he had invited me to his place several time which I refuse to go.wht pains me most is that, each time I complain he would tell me to accept him for who he his, that he has been off relationship for so long so his trying to adjust. That I should be patient with him that with time he would be the kind of man I want him to be.
My question is how am I sure he would adjust to keeping simple promises. Can I still hang on or quit ? I don't want to fall victim of my husband this my husband that. Not after series of write up given my my mama and papa regarding building a solid foundation in relationship.

dayokanu: He invited you to his house several times and you refuse to show up

You make appointments with him several times he refuse to show up

Seems both of you are tailor made for each other. Happy married Life

You call a guy your bf and you dont knw where he lives, maybe he lives in a cemetery or with 3 other wives. You dont care to know. happy married life

Nashville:

And you call him "my guy"? My guy as in friend or boyfriend? All you have is his business card. Why haven't you been to his place?

You are not sure about this guy and both of you do not take the relationship seriously. He cant keep a date or promise and you just have his phone number and business card. I will advice you both take it slowly. Establish the basics of friendship and trust before thinking of calling him "my husband". Take it one day at a time and dont start building castles in the air.

vizkiz:


Bby, a quy cnt keep his word on jst a date...do u tink he's qonna keep his word on nt dumpinq u?? dnt u qt it??

byvan: Sarah this is simple,he is not that into you,its a harsh reality.

Sarah a: thanks ma really appreaciate it.

I wish to be going to his abode any time any day but why I don't want to is because I don't want any thing call s- e- x .I want the relationship out of s e x. Although i told him but his respons does not sound convicing .

nw i knw y he's actinq weird

Sarah a: most time I fix it to my church just to save him the stress of spending or I will ask him to choose where is comfortable for him.Beside at times I make sure I do the payment for both of us to save him all the financailly stress .

vizkiz:


nw i knw y he's actinq weird

taryour:

Young lady wake up abeg. Your conditions sef get as e be. If you want a no s e x relationship doesn't mean you shouldn't visit him in his home, come on you aint teenagers that meet in public places all the time they want to sleep. Did you say most of the place you choose to meet is church oga oo. The guy go dey fear you sef. Just drop it,its so obvious you don't trust the guy and he knows so that just might be a reason he is isn't taking you serious.

candy: Same story, two different topics, which one nah? Keep one and close the other jor.

Lerrie John: @ OP your topic should be " Does he want a relationship with me? " the answer is NO.
Your guy ke!!!, from your story you guys aren't even dating cos he doesn't show up.
He's not "your man" until you are in a real relationship.