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He should see a specialist doctor.

pweetyfelicia: Hello,i came across this site recently and i found out that alot of stories and problems are been shared here and i wish to voice out this problem i have been encountering with my boy friend.Whenever we have s***x the guy barely last 5 min and takes time for him to be in the mood again after ejacu***lating (jst want to be careful with words i use).I really like him and i dont want to leave due to this.so am seeking advice/suggestions frm u guys on hw he can deal wit ....pls mk una no insult me ohh biko

I guess you guys used to beckon on missionary position!
try different sex positions! Perhaps DOGGYSTYLE(my best style ever)I bet he could last 10mins only on doggy!.......n all in all, tell him to abstain from sugary foods! If you need more help, feel free to ask!

play blindfolding...

your sex life may be boring you guys to bring more fun to it, Both of you needs pre-intimacy alot! dont use off shirt and pant and start, Play around, Talk dirty, Talk nasty and fu.c_k dirty

Give him a nice Mouth Gig after his first ejac

Well some pple say na sugar..etc coca cola.. Fanta, burgars, shawama, and other kinds of sugary foods....but I cant really say cos I Ddnt conduct a research...but I feel what u eat can affect ur system......but really.....its a mind game...when I first started having sex...I cum less dan 5mins...cos I'm alwys to fast...I could take a 40 thrust in less dan 20secs, yeah its good to go fast, some ladies like it fast but doesn't mean he cant interchange slow nd fast....cos from experience, u eventually crash when u take it too fast only...I found out it was nervousness, over excitement nd my desire to enjoy to shit all at once.....but over a few weeks I had to adjusted....imagine naaa...just tell him to take it slow....he can have 3secs chill when he feels like coming nd he'll continue again....most importantly nd he should have it in mind that the other party too which is u would like to climax....if he's someone that dosent mind drinking...a bottle of big guinness will do just fine...

Hmmm

1)TRY PRE-INTIMACY
2)USE DIFFERENT POSITIONS ( PREFERABLY DOGG.IE OR 69
3)GIVE HIM ALOMO TO DRINK B4 D KOKO ( PLS AFTER TRYING DZ DON'T COME BACK N SAY UR BF LAST TOO LONG OOO )

iamtheprincipal: He should see a specialist doctor.

The best advice so far.
@op, there are so many causes of premature ejac. It could b psychological or pathological(disease). There is a thin line between both. There is no short n fast means to treating it until d cause is known which invariably is a cheap cake in d hands of a specialist. Ask him to visit a standard hospital managed by a real doctor, not nurses or health technologists.

tnks all,ur posts hve bin insightful..more suggestions pls
seeing a doctor is an option he doesnt appreciate cos at the end some pills might be prescribed for him which will definitely hve some short or long term effects on him.Judging frm my discussion wt him the probs lies in conquering nervousness nd anxiety at the start of hvin se***x whc forces him to ejacu**late in a shortwhile.

pweetyfelicia: tnks all,ur posts hve bin insightful..more suggestions pls
seeing a doctor is an option he doesnt appreciate cos at the end some pills might be prescribed for him which will definitely hve some short or long term effects on him.Judging frm my discussion wt him the probs lies in conquering nervousness nd anxiety at the start of hvin se***x whc forces him to ejacu**late in a shortwhile.

If he can't c a medical doctor, then let him visit a native doctor.

I had a similar problem to,u'll be surprised hw many guys ve the same troubles but pride and shame stop us from asking 4 help from friends or even a Doc.Its a guys worse nightmare even talking abt it.I think he shld stick to d missionary style,take it slow,more like savouring the moment,...plus girls tak time b4 dey reach orgasm levels,so u've got time,so no need to rush,u can always go fast when she's abt to come.that way,u'l both come at d same time.when he feels he's abt to come,he can slow down or freeze...and sister,u shld also stop whinning ur waist,wel jus 4 a min or two and continue.With time,he wont need to stop,he'l b able to stop himself frm coming early,like stopping ur urine while u'r urinating...hope d book helps

@armstrong tnks

U don't av to blame ur guy, is very normal for a guy to release within 3 to 5 mins, there is no man on earth that can. naturally last up to 30 min on a woman without spiking up his system wit stimulants

gommex: U don't av to blame ur guy, is very normal for a guy to release within 3 to 5 mins, there is no man on earth that can. naturally last up to 30 min on a woman without spiking up his system wit stimulants

Speak for yourself dude

corruptst:
Speak for yourself dude

ow long do u last

I advise your bf to see a medical doctor.And discuss the issue with him.

Op, tell ur guy to exercise himself always and he should avoid anxiety and to use condom if possible. Condom atleast will reduce the stimulation. There is also what is called kegel.

corruptst:
The best advice so far.
@op, there are so many causes of premature ejac. It could b psychological or pathological(disease). There is a thin line between both. There is no short n fast means to treating it until d cause is known which invariably is a cheap cake in d hands of a specialist. Ask him to visit a standard hospital managed by a real doctor, not nurses or health technologists.

bros no be so at the bolded.
i was having same problem, mine was even 1 min. i went to fmc owerri and after semen analysis, the result was ok. d doctor asked me to do kegel exercise which i later got tired with. Until my neighbour prepared dis concoction for me cos his father is a herbalist i mean specialist with herbs oo. and after taking it my eruption usually come out delayed like 15mins now.

so i would advice the girl to tell her bf to seek natural medicine expert.
my 2 cent

coolsegun2002: Well some pple say na sugar..etc coca cola.. Fanta, burgars, shawama, and other kinds of sugary foods....but I cant really say cos I Ddnt conduct a research...but I feel what u eat can affect ur system......but really.....its a mind game...when I first started having sex...I cum less dan 5mins...cos I'm alwys to fast...I could take a 40 thrust in less dan 20secs, yeah its good to go fast, some ladies like it fast but doesn't mean he cant interchange slow nd fast....cos from experience, u eventually crash when u take it too fast only...I found out it was nervousness, over excitement nd my desire to enjoy to shit all at once.....but over a few weeks I had to adjusted....imagine naaa...just tell him to take it slow....he can have 3secs chill when he feels like coming nd he'll continue again....most importantly nd he should have it in mind that the other party too which is u would like to climax....if he's someone that dosent mind drinking...a bottle of big guinness will do just fine...

Nice advice but he should practice kegel exercise (google it)

hmmm

You should practice female on top, and interchange

ur boyfrend is too nervous during sex that is part of his prob may b he also drinks which may cause fatigue he shld try onion and honey recipe or chinese herbal call me

The solution to premature ejaculation is just a market away from you. When i take chopped ginger, garlic and lime i can go 7 rounds of sex non-stop with each round averaging close to 45 mins. No joke but i must tell you that my exercises have indeed been helpful to me.

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dennykel60:
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is dat drug herbal

Its herbal,No side effect. If you need it let talk.

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
The solution to premature ejaculation is just a market away from you. When i take chopped ginger, garlic and lime i can go 7 rounds of sex non-stop with each round averaging close to 45 mins. No joke but i must tell you that my exercises have indeed been helpful to me.

@PRISTINE HOW DID YOU USE THE THREE, GINGER, GARLIC AND LIME. PLEASE EXPLAIN BERA

uzomina:
Its herbal,No side effect. If you need it let talk.

how do i get it dude