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Should Ladies Cover Their Heads/hair To Church? by doyin2011(m): 4:37pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
It was a Sunday morning and service just started with worship and praise on the roll. I walked to my seat after having to bring invited folks for service, then as we ended worship, about to take our seats, a pretty lady and her friend walked in, she was cute as her English dress stood out too. She made way to sit on an available chair beside me and was welcomed to church. Of one other thing I noticed was her long hair, black and shining but still had it covered with a veil or scarf as generally referred to. After some time I noticed that she was observing every other lady and I think she discovered most of them were without a scarf to cover their hair and she then decided to remove hers. It was then time for a word of prayer and her friend picked up her scarf to cover her hair for her, and she refused saying ‘’ am not using it, moreover it’s not a must. Look at other ladies ‘’ and the scene ended that way. I was back home some weeks later watching a television broadcast of a particular ministry with an elderly man and he condemned the fact that ‘’ ladies shown in that broadcast had their hairs un-covered and also had their lips and face painted’’ as he said. I was slow to respond to him considering the fact that, he was an elderly man I respected and I may not win the argument as it would turn to one so I taught it was good I keep quiet as I just shook my head to the acceptance of what he said and dissatisfaction to his comment . Thinking about this made me conduct an opinion poll questioned ‘’ Why I won’t go to Church with my hair covered’’. Some responses were explosive of new dimensions to the issue, most of which were reference to 1 Corinthians 11. Some of which I would share with you, others am still trying to comprehend. Below are 6 comments by some readers of this blog. Remember you could drop yours too at the end of this piece. -I believe that the famous and only text about this is (1 Cor 11) and it has been misunderstood. It’s head covering not hair, there is a difference. The hair is already covering the head, a thorough meditation on that would expose the truth. - It’s an act of disrespect to God, sometimes when I go to Church and forget my cap at home, I enter the church and sit at the bank. - I don’t know if it would be generally acceptable, but I can go to church without a scarf because my hair actually covers my head. - It’s not a command but a doctrine, but in the bible we were told that we should let our hair be a covering for our head. - It’s simple. Moving in the light of revelation, it’s just that we have made a doctrine of many things based on our culture. - If females are mandated to cover their hair in your church, please follow suite otherwise change your church where you could leave your hair free. - The passage everyone is referring to here, to me talks about the relationship between a woman and her responsibility to her husband as a sign of being bound to him. You could be asking where really do I stand? I live by a life of believe and as scripture explained that we worship God in the truth we know and in spirit. It takes an act of faith to acknowledge that every act we take towards pleasing him is acceptable, as ‘’without faith, it is impossible to please him’’. I have come to understand as a friend rightly said that there was no standard law as to covering of hair in the old/new testament. Considering the aspect of the letter Paul wrote on the issue, he made his points clear. Some of which are: . He did not say it is irreverent for women to appear with heads uncovered. He didn’t even insinuate it. . He did not say it displeases God. And lastly, He did say it is the custom. And it is wise to abide by the custom. Those who believe in women wearing external “head- coverings” or bonnets on their heads will argue that even though long hair is a covering (indefinite article), women still need to wear an additional covering or bonnet on their heads. This is easily disproved with the Bible. The same passage that tells women to be covered tells men not to be covered. Therefore, if this were talking about something other than long hair (i.e. a “head-covering” or bonnet), it would be a sin for a man to wear it while praying or prophesying. This is directly in contradiction with many Old Testament passages that command the Old Testament priests to wear bonnets and mitres while ministering in the priests office So here comes my view. I stand to correct my view from time to time as I understand the whole issue more. I believe the way I was raised is having a lot to decide my stand. Scarf is always being requested for when prayers are said in the home, so we believe strongly in covering of the female hair. Visit Why I won't Cover My Hair to Church as a Lady http:///qtgIWqOx2e to finsih up the piece ( Youandi13. ) |
Re: Should Ladies Cover Their Heads/hair To Church? by Taeewo(m): 5:37pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
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