kulyie: Lol.a flat mate of mine back in school had the same experience.shes always using every opportunity to avoid home.during the holidays when some are excited about going home and re uniting with their parents, some will rather not go home.good enough she was my friends roomate so we became close.i askd her kemi, why dont you like going home durong the hols to meet with your parents and sinlings, dont you miss them and she was like she doesnt miss home at all except hee siblings and I said thats a good reason to be at home na.she said shewa you wont uneerstand

I said ehen, oya make me understand na
she said they are always quarelling with themselves and everyone around them.my siblings have all left home and am the last born stuck with them
I said eh ya.i dont know how to explain it but many parents dont know the gravity of emotional and psychological pain they cause to their kids when they start fighting
They dont even understand that they are not only leaving a bad legacy for them, they are making their kods avoid them when they see small breathing space.there will be nothing they will miss about tjem because whenever they temember home, what pops in their head is daddy and mummy wahalah.

many of them assume providing money for them and paying their school fees is all to being a good parent.
just look at the bitterness and emotional pain a little child is going through because of their parents stoop! D! Ty and such kids are all over the place burying so much pain at a young age and growing up with so much resentment.

its just a pity that many parents are not even aware of the psuchological havoc they wreck on their kids at a young age and they carry it to adulthood.
smh

parents ehen.smh.

How far...Na wen u go com my house com smooch me??

greatgod2012: @kulyie, did you read the post at all

greatgod2012: @op, it's not as difficult as you portray it..........just tell the child that mum and dad have not and will never fight, the truth is that, they're both close friends and they are playing as such, if it's a lie, you get home and ask them.