I really do hope that she left his lying ass.

Why would he stay in the same house with the woman he is divorcing. Why do these women fall for these stories?

I bet if she asked the wife it would be news to the wife that they are not happy and getting a divorce.

i was thinking the same thing,its obvious he was cheating on his wife with her and lying that they are seperated,
if they were really seperated they wont be living together in the same house,wake up

i would take his story if they were legally seperated or living in different houses,im sure they just had some marital problems and instead of him resolving it with his wife he went cheating and wanting to replace her through u,be very careful with this relationship and dont rush things until u know the truth and his wife will cause problems for u for breaking her home plus the kids will always have it in the back of there head that u broke there home and the cause of the divorce for there parents which is even more complicated.

lol. Hell no! Old ass man with 3 kids??

Please do not fall into the tricks of this old man! Like many have said previously, this is not a new story, he is not getting a divorce and not leaving his wife. He just wants your young juices,

@poster:

First thing first, why are you dating a married man?

Yes, he may be a nice guy to you but he has a lot of baggage with him. the Divorce and three kids Hmmm - Yes, he will be too busy paying child support rather than spending quality time with you.

I say take off your shoes and run for your life

my ex girlfriend is marrying a man about 15 years older then her (but he is probably even 20 yrs+ older but claims 15 yrs) and he has grown up children including a boy finishing university.
To me in Nigerian culture and law its a bad thing because if he dies your children will probably get nothing

ehn?!!!

No!

you obviously fell in love wrongly,you need to escape and start afresh.

Girl, Please don't do it. Been there ,done that, I have the Tee shirt on display. Usually, Men like these are very manipulative. He is most likely using you. all the tears don't mean much.

Had a man like that for 3years he had every reasons including his fake tears to make me stay. But finally my eyes cleared, Men with 3 kids don't live their wives, he is trying to have his cake and eat it too(i.e enjoying your youthful body while wasting your years). Was 21 when i met him and he was 39, lied about his age. even his family lied to me about how much he loved me, but truth be said look inwards and you will see all the signs,

Finally dumped the Trash, found myself a single man around my age (now 30 years old)that has been searching for me his whole life , who  respects me enough to love me and not waste my life away with empty promises. Have 2 kids of my own with my dream man.

so dear, stop wasting your life, he is living his, run my love , run.

why do women fall for this old trap is what i want to know

@Zayhal

I second u jare!

@Poster

U r putting asunder in a marriage. If u marry him, what u hv done 2 his wife, another woman will do 2 u!

U r a disgrace 2 womanhood. Can't u date one of d thousands of single men out there?

abujabooks:

@Zayhal

I second u jare!

@Poster

U r putting asunder in a marriage. If u marry him, what u hv done 2 his wife, another woman will do 2 u!

U r a disgrace 2 womanhood. Can't u date one of d thousands of single men out there?

a big disgrace why do women fall for these lies? who will marry all the women out there with 2/3 kids already? are they not human beings?

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NO,i won't not even with a kid,my love is not blind,you can marry the man since men are so hard to find that you have to settle for a man that have kids ages 13,11 etc. when you marry the man,when he is tired of you,he will get another woman,he told u they don't sleep together,do you live with them.i don't know why some women are gullible.my advice for you.
1, run away from the man.
2, tell him to settle with his wife,if they can live for 13years together,they can spend the remaining days of their lives together.
3,ask GOD for forgiveness and your own husband.
4,stay away fro married men.

When you get the sweet divorce papers in hand, then you can move in on the kill.

For a young fresh one like you that is too much buggage though.

A real man ends one commitment before starting the next

Heck no!!!

unless you are Denzel Washington then I might reconsider

I know his type girl, he's never going to leave his wife.

You see, it's not about them anymore but their kids and they will both do ANYTHING to make them happy

They'll probably have another child together and call him Peacemaker!

You already know what you want to do so i'll just say goodluck with whatever it is

CAPITAL NO, I CAN'T DO THAT.
What about if during the relationships he finds another lady, Come to think of you having problem with him, causing another divorce,
Don't try it,

You must be fucking kidding me.
You have posted this blog so many times,I guess you just want an affirmation in order to kill you guilt.Trust me you are doing more harm to yourself than good.You are a young lady with so much future ahead of you why distroy it all in the name of love. You may be young accept but you are not dumb and retarded. Thank God they are people on this trend who are honest to tell you the truth.All those who have posted their blog before me have been honest with you and you should sit down and think twice.A word is enough for the wise.

hey guys, i listened, i left him and i have been unable to find another guy,i am so lonely

So basically you are sleeping with a married man

sexibabes:

hey guys, i listened, i left him and i have been unable to find another guy,i am so lonely

So basically you left him after two years of all the advice on NL? Tell us what really happened? The wife got to know or the guy chickened out?

nope, i summoned up the courage and left
waz ur own

Sexibabes, send me mail on reality4them@yahoo.com. I have something for you. Pls no offence intended, thanks.

@ Poster Ask Alicia Keys,

i sent u a ym request,what do u have

NO and NO

If you marry him -
Can you treat those kids as you would treat your own?

Won't you get jealous when you start having your own kids especially when he has to consider those ones first?

Can you handle the ex-wife drama?

What if the ex-wife uses her kids to frustrate you?

Reminds me of a lady I know.
Her husband told her that the easiest and cheapest way to get a girl was to tell them he wanted to marry them.
.. and he told them he was getting divorced and that there was nothing between him and his wife..
... he did not mind taking the kids out to meet the girlfriend. Even took the baby along without a bottle and pampers and spent hours on end with the girlfriend.
When the wife met this particular girl, she told her she believed she was a negligent and wicked mother that did not care about her husband and kid`s.
She was shocked to find out the truth. That day the wife had cried and cried her eyes of for hours. From morning to late night, her little girl was still breastfeeding, she was so young and he took her to another woman. In this case he also told the woman he would marry her and she was already making plans how to be a mother to the kid`s .

You should be ashamed of dating a married man and breaking his marriage.
you will be used and when you have kids he will reconcile with his wife and leave you hanging.
Then you will run here. Please get a life.

@ poster

Do not worry God will bless you with your own husband but please leave married men alone.
Also do not be ideal further your education or learn a trade.
Then always pray!