............12 Points for Wives to Note.........
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is
not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going
to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to
insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging
and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be
at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply
means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and
become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to
playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an
empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the
head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the
head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or
even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes
and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under
the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about
their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start
wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger.
Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is.
But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored
them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions
and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing
with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know. But looks enhance
love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself
and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent.
As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you
and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever,
"not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!!!!!!!!!!!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your
husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and
fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be
pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives
are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the
mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and
always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to
win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless
about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends
the man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and in deed?.

Only one woman?

ireneidiva: Only one woman?

Abi. Only one woman my sister.

So Op, what are the points that a married man is meant to Note? If the woman does her part, what part does her husband have to play?

I tireooooooooo

ireneidiva: Only one woman?

E too much for saving your home?

Nice points laid but it all still boils down to the man.

Ochek:

E too much for saving your home?

You guys don't have anything else to do?? God have mercy. Even me I tire on behalf of the ladies. Ladies, just know the ones that like to dictate and dictate are usually jobless and insecure (sorry OP no vex but you gather time to write 12 steps...12 o). Guy, face your relationship, face your career, no marriage is the same, every marriage works based on a different formula (usually what works for the two unique individuals...sheesh).

afrolearn:

You guys don't have anything else to do?? God have mercy. Even me I tire on behalf of the ladies. Ladies, just know the ones that like to dictate and dictate are usually jobless and insecure (sorry OP no vex but you gather time to write 12 steps...12 o). Guy, face your relationship, face your career, no marriage is the same, every marriage works based on a different formula (usually what works for the two unique individuals...sheesh).

Formular upon formular for married women only. Men no get formular. Because na only women dey marry themselves. SMH. This whole sh1t is getting too boring.

Good points op. A woman is expected to be all dese n even more buh wat u men fail to notice is dt its too much work @ d end of d day. This creates pressure n makes her crack n later break down. If a man can be supportive it wil go a long way. Like if he wants her to lose weight he shld buy her kits n even exercise with her, help with d kids assignment,prep dem fr sch etc etc. At least she's his helpmate n nt slave. Too much is expected frm d woman dts y she breaks down more often. May God help us o.

Ochek:

E too much for saving your home?

So "saving the home" is solely the woman's job?

Efemenaxy1:

So "saving the home" is solely the woman's job?

Good question. Now i wonder why the Man is the Head of the family as they say. The woman is to pull all the weight in the marriage while the man looks on like a dummy. I wonder. whats the use of him being the Head then?

Criously, ayam tayad of all threads as this,
Women this, women that, and when they say (infact they said) the men should come and say what they love about their wives, girlfriends or fiancees, they were no where to be found they could not say sweet words about her meanwhile their counterpart's (women) thread was thriving.
It is well with all these our men that believes women should worship them. Mtcheeeew.

Criously, ayam tayad of all threads as this,
Women this, women that, and when they say (infact they said) the men should come and say what they love about their wives, girlfriends or fiancees, they were no where to be found they could not say sweet words about her meanwhile their counterpart's (women) thread was thriving.
It is well with all these our men that believes women should worship them. Mtcheeeew.
_{iyawo won lode}

esmeralda1: Criously, ayam tayad of all threads as this,
Women this, women that, and when they say (infact they said) the men should come and say what they love about their wives, girlfriends or fiancees, they were no where to be found they could not say sweet words about her meanwhile their counterpart's (women) thread was thriving.
It is well with all these our men that believes women should worship them. Mtcheeeew.
_{iyawo won lode}

That goes to tell you that no matter what women do to please men, men will never be satisfied. That is why threads like this one have outlived their usefulness no matter how many times all these tips are posted. And that is also why its good for a lady to be herself and do not make pleasing a mere man made of dust to be her sole aim/purpose in life. Humans will never be satisfied no mattter what so just be yourself and leave the rest. them no dey put Man matter for head or shoulder o. If e heavy you, drop am so that you can live long and won't die of high b.p.

Una no dey taya just do whatever works for you. Period!

Counter thread please. But the weight thingy is true sha.

No 12 is funny lol.
Mind of a wife is boring
But mind of a girlfriend is exciting.

Pick one pls

All these your yeye points, only number 5 makes sense. The rest should be left in the bin where it belongs.


Change your title to 1 point......blah blah blah

^^ You even get time to read another woman bashing thread.

i kinda find no 2 interesting thou

Op sorry bro, they will never learn. Making mockery of true and sensible write up like this is heartbreaking.

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