God has no problem showing you your life partner, are you ready to discover him/her? If you are ready then this message is for you.

THE STEPS IN DISCOVERING GOD’S CHOICE.

YOUR PERCEPTION: What perception do you have about marriage? Do you think that God has no business in determining who you marry? Or are you of the school of thought that thinks that God does not know how you feel or what you want emotionally. Far be it, your creator can never be wrong in His choices. He knows your tomorrow, He knows ten years from now, and before He created you He had His full scale plan for you. Jeremiah 1 vs. 5. Nobody can be more right than God. The issue is what are your perceptions, is marriage a game of luck to you, or your materialistic culture decides your choice. Is marriage an escape route from poverty for you? Is marriage a tribal or a class issue for you? Are looks or body features your number one pre requisite? It is good to have a set of qualities you want or you like but it must not be the first thing in your mind. You have to make God your Lord, ready to obey His every word. Redirect your perception to the truth that God still gives life partners, He is about giving you yours. Your perception of a woman or as a woman is to be a help meet. That was why God created you according to Genesis 2 vs. 18. As a lady start practicing how to be a help meet in all round issues. This does not make you the head it only makes you a solid supporter in words, deeds and thoughts.

YOUR INTENTION: marriage is an institution of God and not man, what are your intentions are your intentions to please God or to intimidate people that thought you would not get married, is your only intention just to get pregnant or have children to be seen as a complete man or woman? To discover Gods chosen partner for you, you must make your intentions right. These are the major intentions for marriage;

a. TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE: two are better than one Ecclesiastes 4 vs. 9. No matter who you are in life or what you have achieved, you will only get better through marriage. So marriage is a union for more impact and development. Marriage is intended for helps, spiritually, physically and mentally.

b. ONE SHALL CHASE A THOUSAND BUT TWO SHALL PUT TEN THOUSANDS TO FLIGHT: marriage was designed by God to increase you, to expand your coasts and to multiply you. Be prepared for increase in responsibilities.
You are not intended to get married just to make your family happy; you must desire this kind of increase and responsibility that marriage brings. As a lady desire to be a help meet in any capacity and as a man desire to build a home. You must have a plan and vision for your home/family because you are the head. You must put your mind and hand to work; you must be doing something or investing in developing yourself. You must get a job or work as the case may be.

NOTE
I LIKE TO STATE VERY STERNLY HERE THAT YOU CAN GET A WIFE FOR YOURSELF OR A HUSBAND AS THE CASE MAY BE BUT WHEN GOD GIVES YOU YOUR OWN THERE IS A MAJOR DIFFERENCE AND GOD MOST TIMES REVEAL ONLY WHEN YOUR INTENTIONS AND PERCEPTIONS ARE CORRECT. THIS IS NOT A FUNCTION OF AGE. SO WISDOM DEMANDS THAT INSTEAD OF WISHING AND JUST PRAYING START MAKING YOUR PERCEPTIONS AND INTENTIONS RIGHT.