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12 Reasons Why Break -ups Occurs by feelgoodstuffs(m): 7:57am On Jul 21, 2014 |
There are so many reasons why couples call it quits – the list goes on and on! Besides the obvious reasons – physical and/ or mental abuse, lying or cheating, etc when a break-up is initiated, it usually happens because two people are not compatible for the long term. Here’s short list to explain why: “What I found endearing, I now found annoying ” Whatever qualities first attracted you to this person, now repulse and irritate you. It feels as if everything your partner does frustrates you - including talking. “I feel as if I’m dating someone else” The honeymoon stage is definitely over and your significant other has become comfortable enough to reveal his or her true personality. Let’s just say this “new” personality should’ve just stay hidden forever. “My Significant other is always working” When the person you are dating consistently puts work before you, they are not ready for a serious relationship. I believe that you should love what you do, but do you really want to marry someone who’s first love in their job, not you? “I can’t remember last time we had sex” This is when your sex life is going down the drain, fast! This usually happens when your partner has either let themselves go in the grooming department – or has gained way more than a few pounds, causing their previous sex appeal to become a lot less attractive. Hmmm, and they wonder why you continue to have a reoccurring headache? “Was he/she always this lazy?” When you start to feel like your partner’s maid – verses a loving, caring boyfriend or girlfriend – this can get really old, really quick. No one like to consistently pick up after someone especially without a simple “thank you” or acknowledgement. “We are just not on the same life-page anymore” You have mentally and emotionally grown apart, and at this point, probably physically too. This usually happens when two people start dating at a young age, have been dating for a long time, and before committing to each other (for a life time) never asked signification relationship-altering questions: financial issues, political opinions, religious views, family values, career goals etc “All we do is sit around and watch T.V” We never go out anymore, clearly, romance has left the building, the “spark” is gone, and laziness has taken... http://feelgoodstuffs..com/2014/07/12-reasons-why-break-ups-occur.html?m=1
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